Because teachers are knowledgeable, cultured and mature, and they are persuasive and enthusiastic about helping students, it is easy to win the admiration and goodwill of boys and girls. A boy of 16 years old, because his foreign language is not good, the young female teacher who teaches him a foreign language often gives him a "small stove" after class. Looking at the teacher's beautiful face, listening to the teacher's silvery voice and smelling the fragrance of the teacher, the boy couldn't help but feel heartache. The teacher's face appeared from time to time in his mind, from which he imagined many stories of love with the teacher. There is also a girl named Xiaomei, whose head teacher is a graduate of a normal university. She is a very handsome young man. Seeing Xiaomei's hard work, she praised her and said Xiaomei looks like his sister. From that day on, Xiaomei's mind was full of Miss Yang's shadow. "I wish I were Miss Yang's sister!" This idea is getting stronger and stronger in my mind. When she saw the teacher's eyes in class, she felt an electric shock. Xiaomei feels that she can't control her eyes. The more she told herself not to stare at Miss Yang, the more she wanted to see it. She just covered her eyes with her hand, but she still felt the corner of her eye looking at the teacher. She doesn't know what is good, her academic performance drops, and she is silent.
In fact, it is all caused by adolescence, and the germination of sexual consciousness is the most fundamental reason. Because the teacher of the opposite sex has more outstanding advantages, mature personality and successful career, if he is handsome, he will definitely become the object of secret love for boys and girls. This kind of psychology is normal, but if you indulge in it, it will inevitably affect your normal study and life, and may even disturb the normal teaching order of the school. Because the love between teachers and students is hard to have a good result. First, it is often unrequited love, even if the individual loves him to death, but the other party doesn't know at all, and even if he knows, he won't admit it; Secondly, most teachers have entered the stage of love, and have their own lovers, and some have already married and have their own spouses.
Therefore, all boys and girls who fall in love with teachers must adjust their sexual psychology. First of all, we should think that teachers are excellent, but after all, they are teachers, and most of them are two generations from themselves; Secondly, we should also understand that what we see is only one side of the teacher after all, and we don't know everything about the teacher. Just as we worship many stars, we can only see their talents, but we can't know their character and whether there are any bad deeds. A girl once said, "I once had a crush on my physics teacher and regarded him perfectly, but once, I accidentally saw him arguing with a vendor about a dime when buying food, and even made rude remarks." Suddenly, my tall image collapsed. " Many boys and girls often beautify their love objects, which is a psychological mistake and an immature performance.
Normal heterosexual communication between young men and women plays a vital role in the development of sexual psychology. If you keep friendship with many students of the opposite sex, you can look at each other more objectively and understand what the real advantages of the opposite sex are through comparison. Such young men and women are relatively peaceful, full of hearts and rich in spiritual life, and it is not easy to walk into a dead end. On the other hand, people who are introverted and have few or no friends are easy to fall into the mood of a specific object, go to extremes and not get out of the emotional whirlpool.
From this perspective, it is indeed beneficial and necessary to create more opportunities for teenagers to communicate with the opposite sex, encourage boys and girls to develop friendship and eliminate the mystery of the opposite sex.