Now many parents understand the truth that "those who get Chinese get the college entrance examination" and are very anxious. They clearly know the importance of reading, but there is still no way to guide their children to like reading, let alone fall in love with reading. In fact, there is a way to read. It's not that we go to bookstores or online and buy a lot of books for our children under the recommendation of teachers or various media and newspapers. Children will naturally develop a good habit of reading.

I remember when my son was in the third grade of primary school, he had no sense of reading at all, could not read books at all, and even didn't bother to read textbooks.

I was in a hurry, too. I bought a batch of books, but the children didn't care at all. Most of them have been shelved and covered with dust.

After learning from a painful experience, I felt that there must be a way to read, so I began to look for ways to guide my children to read. Ask the teacher to watch the class. I like to watch my classmates' daily routine and reading habits, and read all kinds of books about guiding children to read.

Finally, I gradually understand: Now there are so many channels for children to get information, why should he choose this difficult road?

I carefully observed the child and made a comprehensive analysis of his living habits and hobbies.

Finally, I found that he was particularly interested in magic, so I tried to read a series of books about Harry Potter first, and finished them in a few nights by telling stories. He was fascinated and I knew I had achieved my goal. One day, I stopped talking. He pestered me for a long time, so I told him that if you want to know what's going on, you can read that book yourself, which is much more wonderful than what I said. So I saw a light in his eyes, and I knew he really liked it.

Later, I bought all the Harry Potter series one after another. Later, when he discovered that he liked animals, he began to pay attention to a series of Shen's works. After reading a series of books, he obviously likes reading, and he can enjoy the process, which makes me very pleased.

Here, I have summarized the following points for attention, hoping to help you:

First, create an atmosphere of reading. As we all know, it takes atmosphere to do things. I used to watch him do his homework when I came home from work and finished eating. I lie down and play with my mobile phone. In the past, I just stopped the TV at home, and as soon as I got home, I took the initiative to hand in my mobile phone at a fixed place. Both husband and wife were like this. After dinner, we started intensive reading time. Everyone chose their favorite books and began to read quietly in a corner of the room.

The second is to arrange special reading corner, soft and comfortable sofa and light music. With some literary bookcases, you can stack your favorite books, get them at your fingertips and relax at will. Once you enter this environment, you will know that you want to study, and you will soon enter a state of ecstasy.

The third is to choose books, buy books and return them regularly. This prescribed action has become an important link that must be completed every weekend. Now it has 20 cents. According to everyone's reading speed, quality and understanding, we can judge the weekly reading stars and give certain material rewards. We can also borrow an extra book, drink a cup of milk tea or buy another book we like. It has been going on for more than a year, and the effect is beyond imagination.

The fourth is to form the habit of expression and let children retell the books they have read in their own words. This is a process of secondary absorption, so I don't need to say more about its function. I hope my summary is helpful to you.

Find books and books for children's favorite stories. The stimulation for girls is to give vision while listening to stories. It is a combination of hearing and vision, so children can get a better experience. Therefore, children don't like reading. First of all, it depends on the development of children's visual ability. Some children are born with dyslexia, so they can only rely on listening, but most children have no problem, so it is necessary to cultivate a habit and a good-looking book at this time. For children, words are as attractive as pictures. If you listen to a story with a video, you can find the corresponding content in the book. At this time, children will slowly learn to read. For children, most words are in the form of images at first, so every word is a picture.

Of course, illiterate children don't like reading by themselves, because 70% or 80% of them don't know a word, but they are familiar with the story. He knew that he had this story in his head. When reading a book, every word and every sound can correspond, so he gradually got to know the word. This is a process.

Now there are many toys and equipment for children to listen to stories. Be sure to find those who have stories and books, and let the children read while listening.

If you can't find the audio of some books, the easiest way is to record them yourself. Now all kinds of apps are very convenient, so I recorded all the picture books at home into thousands of chats. Every time a child reads a book, he knows the words inside.

Children who love reading are love. If you don't love, you can't force it.

As parents, we must first understand the truth, let nature take its course and wait for flowers to bloom. Parents' anxiety just hinders children's independent reading.

What if children don't like reading? Very easy to handle. Why do you want children because you don't love them? Is it simple?

Since reading is not necessary in parents' lives, how can children be asked to read? Your parents can't do it, but they ask for children. Is it ridiculous? Where is your confidence? Just because you're mom or dad?

I have two daughters, the older one is in grade 5, and the younger one has just turned 4. Since the birth of my eldest daughter, specifically from 1 year and a half, my daughter-in-law and I have been reading together every night without interruption. Every time my daughter-in-law goes back to her hometown in Hubei to visit relatives for the New Year, there is a big stack of books and picture books in her heavy travel bag. She reads picture books every night, and not a day goes by without reading them. There are 500 thousand books on one wall of my book. In such a strong reading atmosphere, there is no need to cultivate them deliberately. My two daughters like reading. It's simple. I am a father and an avid reader. Both my daughters are affected by this. They find reading really interesting and enjoyable. It's really beautiful. As parents, we are not worried about children's schooling at all.

The earlier children read independently, the better.

A book, lifeless, is just a very common commodity. However, when you buy it from the bookstore, you get a brand-new feeling, great spiritual pleasure and wisdom improvement from the book, then this ordinary book becomes so vivid and interesting from an ordinary commodity. The book died, but finally met a bosom friend. You really activated it! It is not an ordinary commodity, but the nourishment of your life, and it is integrated into your blood, so you are more energetic and refreshed.

Parents are the first people for their children to establish close relationship with this strange world. Parents are also the ties to establish deep ties between people and things, between people and society, and between people and others. Maybe parents, maybe good books, are the best life mentors for children!

Parents' love is the best gift you can give your child!

So, build your love. Not necessarily reading. Art, painting, gardening, calligraphy, hiking and so on. As long as you really love, children are not a problem.

Reading is very important. Children don't like reading, so parents should try to help him.

First, create a good reading atmosphere for children.

1, parents should be role models for their children, read more books and watch less mobile phones.

2, buy more books for children, so that all kinds of useful books can be seen everywhere at home. If a child wants to read any book, he can read it at home immediately, but not at home. When he bought it, his enthusiasm may have decreased.

If there is an opportunity, take your children out for a walk. "Read thousands of books and take Wan Li Road". Read it and you will understand it better when you see it; Yes, I have read more deeply, and the two complement each other.

Second, use various forms to stimulate children's interest in reading.

1, use circuitous tactics to stimulate interest. Children must read classics, but what if they don't like reading? You can find related songs, read aloud recordings, review videos, movies and TV plays, etc. Find out what one of the children may be interested in, let the children listen first, and then you will be curious about the original.

Parents should communicate with their children. Children read a book, communicate with their parents, and get different views from different ages and angles, thus promoting children's thinking and exploration of the contents in the book.

3. Remind children to review the books they have read. Parents know their children's reading situation, and take out good books from time to time to remind them to review, so that children have a sense of accomplishment and are willing to keep reading.

4. Encourage children to write and read, read and write, and read and write together.

Third, don't hurt children's interest in reading.

1, don't force reading. If parents insist that their children study for at least one hour every day, they will feel that reading to their children is a task and he will resist. He doesn't want to study today. He can study in another way. Don't force him, or the child will completely hate reading.

2. Don't limit the content. Read different books, accept all kinds of knowledge, broaden your horizons and expand your thinking. Parents should trust their children to have his judgment. No matter what book you read, children have the ability to take the essence and discard the dross.

Children don't like reading. I think parents should take time to tell stories to their children every day from the age of two. If they don't have time, they will tell her stories when they sleep at night.

That's what I do. I tell her stories every night. There are 365 days of books, one story a day, telling fairy tales, such as Grimm's fairy tales, African fairy tales, Asian fairy tales and so on. I don't tell her stories, and she asks? I started telling stories before I told them today. Later, I bought her children's paintings and calligraphy, and I gradually fell in love with reading. Until primary school, when I finished my homework after school, I read books. My colleague opposite me said: Your child won't come down if he goes upstairs.

She also bought a stick figure to draw for her children. The first book she offered to buy was a robot cat. Later, I bought her a cartoon, a Japanese blue master and a beautiful girl warrior. Once, after she finished her homework, she drew her shoes on a cartoon. At nine o'clock, I went to see her. I'm drawing shoelaces, like a twist, one by one. I took her to bed. She refused, saying I wouldn't sleep until I finished painting. I watched her spend it, and then I slept with her.

Parents are role models for children to accompany their children to grow up. She is like a flower. When it's time to water and fertilize, you should pay attention to her and make her a useful person to society. She is the squadron leader of Grade One and Grade Two in primary school. I want the teacher not to let her be a teacher, lest she be frustrated and can't accept it in the future, and exercise her frustration tolerance.

1, use children's curiosity to make reading their own needs.

2. Encourage children to generate internal motivation and make reading their own needs.

3, don't talk about reading, don't talk about books, just talk about some interesting things related to it, and slowly explore children's interests. In terms of online buzzwords, it is "planting grass".

4. Let reading become a link in a certain fixed mode, and children are more likely to form habits.

5. Let the children listen to the book first and allow them not to read.

Another way of thinking, another way, may be another village.

Do parents like reading? If you don't like it, that's normal.