In the world, the proportion of Jews among Nobel Prize winners is the highest; People who have epoch-making influence in the history of human development, such as philosopher Marx and physicist Einstein, are all Jews. Is this just an accident? Let me look at a set of data: Jews read 60 books and newspapers on average every year, while China only reads 5 books on average every year. This shows that Jews have taken the lead in absorbing humanistic knowledge. Therefore, Professor Zhu Yongxin puts cultivating students' good reading habits, enriching students' humanistic knowledge and improving students' humanistic quality in the first place in his concept of "new education". This reminds me of a long-standing saying: a scholar knows the world only when he goes out. Of course, scholars are men of insight. Compared with ordinary people, he naturally reads more books, has richer sources of information and has a deeper analysis of things, so he knows the world.
With the development of the times, the scope of reading is not limited to traditional books, newspapers and periodicals, but also includes the reading of internet and film and television materials. It should be said that the sources of reading information are more, faster and richer than before. But now the actual situation of students has many unsatisfactory places. For example, many middle schools do not offer reading classes or arrange reading time, and even if they do, they are often used for other purposes for "various reasons"; Some teachers will regard books that students read in their spare time that have nothing to do with the content of the textbook as "forbidden books" and explicitly prohibit them. Last year, I made a survey about this: among the 49 students in my class, 3 students can't read and watch TV, extracurricular books, surf the Internet and other extracurricular knowledge even in winter and summer vacations, 5 students can't read extracurricular knowledge on normal school days, 17 students only have free reading time on Saturday or Sunday, and the proportion of students interested in this aspect is 100%.
It can be seen that the key to cultivating students' good reading habits lies not in students, but in schools, teachers and parents. But I think the crux of the problem for schools, teachers and parents is that students' reading extracurricular knowledge will take up students' normal study time, leading to a decline in their grades, thus damaging their respective interests. It is true that in a short period of time, spending a lot of time studying and repeatedly training textbook knowledge to cope with the exam has an immediate effect on improving grades, but this effect is at the expense of cultivating students' good habits. High scores can only make people feel excited for a short time, but good behavior habits can benefit people for life. Learning textbook knowledge is learning, and reading extracurricular knowledge is also learning. Comparatively speaking, the content of extracurricular knowledge is richer, which is conducive to broadening students' horizons, cultivating students' ability to analyze problems and improving their humanistic quality. Therefore, changing the ideas of schools, teachers and parents is the primary problem to cultivate students' reading habits. When the ideological problems are solved, the rest of the work will be solved.
Saint Amethyst said, "The beginning of life is good in essence. Sex is similar and learning is far away. " It means that there is not much difference between people when they are born, but the habits acquired make people's personality qualities different. It can be seen that the importance of habit formation. Some mothers will say, the baby is still young, what can I ask him? I can't bear to let the baby suffer a little injustice. This idea is representative to some extent. Especially now, every family has only one child. Accommodate if you can, and satisfy if you can. Babies educated in this way are often self-centered, fragile and have many bad habits.
Success comes from good habits. Once upon a time, there was a man who made a strong net. He put the net cloth on the branch and hid it in the shelter. Soon a chubby bird hit the net. He thought, it is the net in the middle that catches the bird. It seems that only this mesh is useful. So he cut off all the other nets, leaving only this net, and then spread it on the branches, hiding aside every day and waiting for the birds to get into the net. Can he catch the bird again? The result can be imagined. Learning is like weaving a net, and exams are like catching birds. These factors, such as ambitious learning goals, good study habits, strong learning will, flexible learning methods and so on. Weave a big and strong net. Only by wearing this net can you catch a bird. If you foolishly think that it is useful to catch a "bird" directly, you will not catch a "bird" in the end.
Let's talk about the mid-term exam that just ended. It is not difficult to find that those students with excellent grades are often students who are self-conscious and good at thinking. Many students have excellent academic performance, not because of "chasing stocks", but because of good study habits. From the test paper, we found that students who did poorly in the exam generally had such problems: First, they scribbled, did not pay attention to the format, did not use a ruler, were not aligned, did not clean up, and each line was written up and down, even while dancing; Second, there are obvious typos and white characters, especially in composition. Because we can't use words accurately, words often don't connect with sentences, and sentences don't connect with texts. There are still some students, because their study habits are not well developed, which makes their efforts and gains disproportionate. Many things seem to be clear and understandable, but because they are inaccurate, uncertain and specious, their application is often unsatisfactory, unsatisfactory or even slightly different.
Statistics of teaching research at home and abroad show that for most students, 20% of learning quality is related to intelligence factors, and 80% is related to non-intelligence factors (habits play an important role). Let's look at an example. /kloc-Zhou Feng, a young college student who entered HKUST at the age of 0/3, thinks that the secret of his success is to develop good study habits from an early age. Zhou Feng knows Chinese characters and remembers English words. Every day, there are 10 words, even when visiting relatives and friends. In this way, more than 3,000 Chinese characters and more than 3,000 English words were memorized in one year. This is his quantitative study habit. Zhou Feng concentrates on his study when he is studying, and plays easily when he should play. He has a strong consciousness and never needs to be reminded, let alone forced. He listened to English radio to learn English, and turned on the radio on time as soon as he arrived. This is his regular study habit. Zhou Feng was always absorbed in his research, his thoughts never deserted, and his spirit declined slightly, so he made an immediate adjustment. This is his single-minded study habit.
The actions of countless successful people, such as Zhou Feng, confirm Bacon's words: "Habit is really a tenacious and great force that can dominate life." Therefore, while we are looking for and correcting problems, it is more important to develop good study habits, which is more important than temporary exam results. It is not terrible that the exam results are not satisfactory for a while. We can check for leaks and fill gaps, and we can remedy them in time. However, bad study habits will affect people's learning effect for a long time, and even affect people's life development.
Nine good study habits
Preview in advance, listen attentively and ask more questions.
Correct mistakes in time, search for information, and don't dawdle.
Carefully examine the questions, be diligent in writing and write carefully.
Second, nine good habits of being a man
Positive attitude, filial piety to the elderly, thrift.
Persistence, self-confidence, punctuality and preciousness.
Honest and trustworthy. Don't bother others. Be kind to others.
Good manners and habits
Knock when you enter someone's room. Use polite language. Hand over your elders' things with both hands.
Sit and stand, stand and stand, be polite to the guests and don't rummage through other people's things.
Don't interrupt others casually. Keep quiet in public places. Say hello when you meet an acquaintance.
Four, nine good hygiene habits
Wash your hands before and after meals, brush your teeth in the morning and evening, and wash your feet and socks every night.
Wash your hands in time when your hands are dirty, sit on the floor and often change clothes and take a bath.
Don't spit everywhere, don't litter, put away your tableware and clothes.
Five or nine good eating habits
1. Periodic quantization 1. Chew slowly 1. Don't talk or make any noise while eating.
Cherish food, don't be picky about food, don't be partial to food, and eat less snacks
Don't eat while walking. Drink less drinks and more boiled water. Don't eat substandard food.
Six or nine good reading habits
I often go to bookstores and libraries. I can't put books down. I can concentrate.
4. Focus on abstract painting. 5. Combine reading, writing and thinking. 6. Be good at using reference books.
Be good at exchanging ideas and taking good care of books.
Seven, nine safe good habits
1. Observe the traffic rules. Don't play with fire 1 Don't be brave.
4. Observe public order. 4. Don't chase it. 6. salute to the right.
Have a sense of self-protection, don't do dangerous actions, and greet your parents or teachers when you go out.
Eight or nine good habits of exercise
Exercise for an hour every day, complete every exercise carefully and exercise comprehensively.
Go to nature often, step by step, and get ready for activities.
Take frequent walks, actively participate in sports competitions, and constantly try new projects.
Nine, nine good working habits
Do your own things, do your own things at home, take the initiative to do other people's things and help.
4. Work according to the operating procedures. Learn to work together. Pay attention to self-protection at work.
Once looking for skills, explore technical work. ⒏ Clean up the site after work. Caring for and cherishing the fruits of labor.
Section 1 There are both good habits and bad habits
Have great power
Good habits make people invincible, while bad habits make people fall from the throne of success. Napoleon Hill thought paul getty's words were very reasonable.
Once, Getty was a heavy smoker. One day, on the way to France for a holiday, he stayed in a small hotel. It rains heavily at night and the ground is particularly muddy. After driving for hours, Getty was really tired. After supper, he went back to his room and fell asleep. But in the early morning, Getty suddenly woke up. He wanted to smoke a cigarette, so he turned on the light and naturally reached out to touch the cigarette he usually put on the bedside, but there was no cigarette. He got out of bed and looked in his pocket, but there was nothing. So he looked into the duffel bag again, and he was disappointed again. He knew that the hotel bars and restaurants were closed at this time. He thought it impossible to call an impatient porter at this time. Now, the only way for him to get cigarettes is to get dressed and go to the railway station, but it's still six blocks away.
It seems that the situation is not optimistic, and it is still raining outside. His car is also parked in the garage not far from the hotel. Besides, he was reminded when he stayed in a hotel. The garage door closed at midnight and didn't open until 6 o'clock the next morning. The chance of taking a taxi now is equivalent to zero.
Obviously, if he really needs a cigarette, then he can only walk into the darkness in the rain. The desire to smoke tormented him constantly. So he got out of bed, took off his pajamas, got dressed and got ready to go out. Just as he reached for his raincoat, he suddenly laughed and laughed at himself for being so stupid. He suddenly felt that his behavior was ridiculous.
Getty stood there, thinking constantly that a so-called intellectual, a businessman, a man who thinks he is smart enough to give orders to others, had to leave a comfortable hotel in the middle of the night and walk a few streets in the heavy rain to buy cigarettes.
For the first time in her life, Getty noticed that she had formed a bad habit, that is, she could give up great comfort for a bad habit. It seems that this habit is not good for him, so his mind immediately sobered up and he made a decision quickly.
Having made up his mind, he went to the table, rolled up the cigarette case and threw it out, then put on his pajamas and went back to the comfortable bed. With a sense of relief, even victory, I turned off the light and closed my eyes with satisfaction. In the rain outside the window, he fell into a deep sleep that he had never had before. He hasn't smoked since that night, and he hasn't thought about smoking again.
Getty said that he didn't want to blame those who have smoking habits with this incident. But he often recalls that night, just to show that according to his situation at that time, he was almost captured by a bad habit.
Doing one thing often will form a habit, and the power of habit is irresistible. But human beings still have a hidden buffering ability, which should not be underestimated. Since it is possible for a person to form a habit, it is certain that he has the ability to get rid of it.
Others say that good habits are difficult to form, but bad habits are unconsciously formed, which is strange. However, this is not the case, it depends on one's perseverance. In any case, habits are habits after all, and there is no reasonable theory that bad habits are easier to form than good habits.
It's only a matter of time before you are fast or slow. One is either used to punctuality or will be used to being late.
A punctual person will always realize the benefits of this habit, whether it is dating, meeting or other commitments. If someone invites you to dinner, you will be late, which will bring inconvenience to the host and other guests. You may become unpopular because of this, and people will never invite you to dinner again.
Napoleon Hill believes that punctuality is a particularly valuable asset for businessmen. As the saying goes, "Time is money" is always correct. In this era, this principle is more important than before. The pace of modern enterprises is a thousand miles a day, and every minute counts. Supervisors and senior staff have full schedules every day, because they have no extra time to waste, just as the production line can't be delayed.
Trustworthiness is a rare virtue of businessmen. The most promising businessmen and companies must take orders on time, reply to delivery on time, provide services, pay on time and pay off debts on time. If the waiting time has passed and the order hasn't arrived, the customer may not call you next time.
Thrift is another habit that can be formed. For a natural thrifty person, this habit will bring him more chances of success than others. People who are used to thrift only know that they should pay attention to cutting expenses and costs when they care. In today's highly competitive business society, even if you save in a small place, many a mickle makes a mickle, you will eventually save considerable things. It may even cause the difference between profit and loss.
The most valuable habit of any businessman who has just started a business is to review his reasoning before making a decision. This final inspection may only take a few minutes or even seconds, but it is very rewarding. It can give people an opportunity to sort out their thoughts and recall why they made such a decision. Such a seemingly simple process is actually very useful. It's like those very famous actors in the world. Before each performance, although they are already familiar with their roles, they still have to close the script and quickly review their roles in their hearts.
Napoleon Hill's attitude towards "the secret of forming this habit" is affirmative. He thinks that anyone can leave for a minute before making up his mind and calmly sort out his thoughts for the last time.
Another habit is that anyone who wants to succeed in business must get into the habit of dealing with important things easily. Successful businessmen are people who can relax themselves, and they can accept adversity calmly. His mind is always in a state of thinking and reaction. They are always ready to explore new opportunities, understand and deal with new problems and situations.
A smart businessman's relaxed mind is like a qualified football player. When a player passes the ball, he won't panic if the ball accidentally falls into the opponent's hand. So do businessmen. In the fierce business competition, he will not be in a hurry in case of unexpected events. He will react quickly. He has a way to cope with this situation. He may run with the ball tightly, or he may turn to avoid the opponent's pounce.
Some people who have just started to do business already have this relaxed internal driving force, but most businessmen have to go through repeated tests before they finally understand this truth.
A person who wants to succeed must know that the power of habit is great. He must also understand that to form good habits, he must always work hard, and at the same time be alert to those bad habits that may destroy his good habits, and also quickly develop good habits that will help him pursue.
The reward of good habits is success.
Napoleon Hill's good friend and successful scientist Manqiunuo once put forward a psychological suggestion to cultivate good habits. He asked his students to say to themselves:
"Today is a new beginning of my life. I want to take off my old clothes, because failure has scarred it.
"Today is the day of my rebirth. The vineyard is my birthplace. Welcome everyone to taste my fruit.
"Today, in this vineyard, I will pick the fruit of wisdom from the highest and most fruitful vine. Because these are the most respectable people in my career, planted from generation to generation.
"Now, I want to taste the taste of these fruits. I want to swallow the seeds of every fruit and let new power sprout in my heart.
"The industry I choose is full of opportunities and I have never failed or been disappointed. And those who have failed, if stacked like a pyramid, must be higher than the pyramid. " However, I am in another group, and I will not fail. Because I have a direction map in my hand, which guides me out of the confused sea, away from the turbulent sea and towards the other side of success. The past was just a dream.
"My struggle no longer ends in failure, because failure, like pain, is not suitable for my life. I accepted it before because I needed training. Now I refuse because my ability and wisdom have improved. They will guide me to out of the dark, towards light and happiness. There, the golden apples are only a small part of my reward.
"If people can live forever, then he can learn a lot, but I can't, so what I have learned is limited. I want to learn patience. Because, God always does things step by step. It took him/kloc-0.00 years to create the olive tree, and I was just a small onion. I used to live as humble as an onion, but now I don't want to live like an onion. I want to be an olive tree. In fact, I must succeed (specifically, as an orator, a scientist, etc. ). "
Good habits are the key to success.
If you don't have the knowledge and experience to do great things, you will often be in a state of ignorance and even fall into the abyss of self-pity. So, how should we form good habits? Actually, the answer is simple. Start your journey without knowledge. Because God has given you more knowledge and instinct than any other animal in this primeval forest, while man overestimates his own experience.
Seriously, experience is a summary of lessons, but if you want to gain experience, you must sacrifice a lot of time. Moreover, when human beings know its knowledge, its value has declined. And the result? Rich experience, but people are dead. And experience is only temporary, and measures that may be useful today may not be effective tomorrow.
Only principles can never change, and these principles are in your hands, because these principles that can take you to a great road have been written here. It will lead you to success and avoid failure.
In fact, the only difference between a failed person and a successful person is the difference in habits. Good habits are the key to success and bad habits are the key to failure. Therefore, the first principle you should follow is to form good habits and implement them wholeheartedly. When I was a child, I might be impulsive for a little thing. In the past years, you were dominated by feelings, environment, prejudice, greed and habits, and the worst of these tyrants was habits. All bad habits should be changed, and we are ready to plant seeds in new fields and plant the hope of success.
Napoleon said, it's best to say to myself loudly that I want to form good habits and I want to implement them wholeheartedly.
So, how to accomplish this arduous and great undertaking? Is to get rid of the bad habits in life and replace them with a good habit that can help you succeed. Because one habit will inhibit another.
Second, everything becomes a habit and is easy to do.
What's the use of forming good habits? In fact, the secret of human instinct is hidden here. When you repeat these words every day, they will soon become a part of your heart. And most importantly, they will sneak into your mind and become a wonderful source, never stopping, creating an environment for you and doing things you can't believe.
When words are completely absorbed by your heart, every morning, you will wake up from your dream with a kind of vitality that you have never had before. You feel energetic. Your enthusiasm is high, and your desire for a new world will make you overcome all your fears, and you will be happier than you think.
Then you found out that you had a way to handle everything. You will be surprised to find that you can use these methods easily. Because, as long as you practice any method, practice makes perfect, and the difficult ones become easy.
So I formed a good habit. When a habit becomes easy after repeated practice, you will like to do it. And once you like to do it, you are willing to do it often. This is human nature. This is a habit when you often do it. You are a slave to habit.
Today is the beginning of my new life.
Now you should solemnly say to yourself, "Today is the beginning of my new life, and no one can stop my growth. I can't go a day without reading these books. Because there is no way to remedy this loss, and I won't find anything else to replace it, because I insist on the habit of reading every day. In fact, spending a few minutes on this new habit is just the price of smiling for the happiness that will belong to you. "
When you read these words in this book, you must not ignore any word or simplify any sentence. So as not to ignore the moral here. These grapes of wisdom were squeezed into a bottle, and all the useless residues were removed, leaving only pure truth. Drink according to my instructions, and don't waste a bite. This is the seed of success.
Today, your old look is swaying in the wind. You should strut in the crowd, whether they know you or not. Because, you are a person with a new life.
By repeating these psychological hints to yourself, you can cultivate good psychological habits. The meaning of unfinished success
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Good habits accompany me to grow up happily.
What is "habit"? According to the dictionary, habit is an involuntary activity that is done repeatedly for a long time and gradually developed. That good habit, of course, is a good activity that has been done repeatedly for a long time. This good habit is the "fruit" that we sow all the time.
In retrospect, it has been planted for eleven years. What good fruits did the "habit tree" bear? I think the biggest fruit should be "don't be picky about food, stick to your figure". According to my mother, I have been eating quickly since I was a child, and I don't need to be urged by adults, so you see, I am tall 1 m 55, very strong! The second fruit should be "I love sports but I am not lazy". My father signed me up for swimming training when I was still in kindergarten. I especially like tumbling in the water. Even now, when I hear swimming, I feel full of energy. I was only in grade three last summer, and I have reached the swimming standard of grade five. I also like playing table tennis very much. Although I have only learned a little, I am often tired and sweaty during training, but the attraction of waving a racket in front of a table tennis table is irresistible. This summer vacation, I will try to make a breakthrough in this respect.
I think the most beautiful fruit on the "habit" tree should be "innovation, knowledge and brain". I always like to have my own ideas in my studies. Although it may not be correct, sometimes it seems particularly naive, but I firmly believe that as long as we work hard to lay a good foundation and always maintain the good habit of innovative thinking, this beautiful "habit fruit" will always grow more mature and sweeter.
Of course, there are some fruits on my "habit tree" that are not strong enough, such as "careless" spots and "greedy" colors.
My mother often tells me: "pay attention to your thoughts, they will become your words;" Pay attention to your words, they will become your actions; Pay attention to your actions, they will become your habits; Pay attention to your character, it will determine your fate. "
Although I don't quite understand the meaning of many sentences, I know that habits definitely play a decisive role in a person's life. Friends, let's start from me, from now on, from every little thing, plant seeds of various "good habits" from childhood, and let the fruits of "good habits" bring fragrance and sweetness to our own tomorrow when we grow up! Let "good habits" accompany us to grow up happily!
Good habits grow with me (2)
When I was growing up, I had many good habits. ...
I have a good habit of going to bed early and getting up early, so I have never been late. And in the first grade, the head teacher, Mr. Zhao, gave me the key to our class. Because I come early every time, I left the task of opening the door for our class until the third grade.
I have a belief in my heart-I should do everything seriously and rewrite every word when I write my homework. I remember that I just learned to write in the first day of junior high school, and I always can't write well. I cried about it, so I don't believe that I can't write well, so I practice writing every day when I come home from school. Sure enough, I was praised as a "little calligrapher" by my teacher in the conduct comments at the end of the first grade, and this good habit persisted until the fifth grade. Because of this good habit, I can get ideal results in every exam.
My schoolbag is always neat. I remember when I was a freshman, I couldn't find anything, and sometimes I couldn't find my homework because my schoolbag was too messy. Then my mother taught me a way to put all kinds of books in one place, big books in one place, small books in one place, stationery in one place and so on. Since my mother taught me this method, I have been sticking to it until now, so I can find anything easily.
I cherish all my things, whether clothes, shoes or books. Once on my ninth birthday, my mother gave me a book "Unsolved Mysteries", which was brand new, but I definitely didn't read it. I love reading, and I have long known the sweetness of "Yan Ruyu in the book". Everything is clean, new and comfortable to look at.
I hope these good habits can accompany me to middle school, university and work …
Good habits grow with me (3)
Accustomed to it, I often hear my mother say this word. What exactly is a habit? You eat with chopsticks, but you write with your right hand. Habit is very important, it can be beneficial to your life, and you may be distressed by it. Students, the summer vacation is coming, should we form some habits that are beneficial to us? As the saying goes: Rome was not built in a day. Students, do you want to know the secret of writing a good composition? All right! Let me tell you a good habit of mine, which may be the secret of writing a good composition!
If you visit my home, you will find that the book corner in my room may become the most attractive place for you. Because it is no longer a boring selection of excellent compositions, but a vivid, interesting and touching collection of novels. Little Women, Charlotte's Web and Education of Love are all excellent works in my eyes. But I not only read stories and the truth, but also learn some writing methods, accumulate some good words and sentences and how to use them. But students will ask, why did you form this good habit? How did you develop it? Students, it is not difficult to form good habits. The key is that you insist on doing it with your heart.
When I was a child, I liked playing as much as other children. I always wanted to have enough fun after school, and I didn't stop until it was dark when my parents asked me to eat. Occasionally, my father takes me to the library to borrow books. I read so many books, some of which are famous books I have heard, so I picked up a book and read it. I was deeply attracted by the plot in the book and the witty remarks I used casually. I was fascinated. At that time, my father borrowed two books for me to go home Although I like reading, sometimes I can't help but want to play for a while when I see other children playing. Once, after I came back from playing outside, I wanted to have a rest and settle down to read. I saw a note in the book I haven't finished reading, which said: The book is your playmate. I hope you can enjoy yourself in the sea of books. Suddenly, I realized that this book is my best friend and best teacher. I quietly put the note away.
From then on, I gradually fell in love with reading, and reading became my compulsory course. More than half an hour after dinner every day is my reading time. I will always seize this half hour to read, read and read again! With the upgrading of last year's grade, the amount of homework has also increased, but I still adhere to the habit of reading books every day, just like some people keep a diary. I think reading is a kind of enjoyment, a kind of exercise and a kind of learning. People who really read well, read well and read well must be knowledgeable, articulate and able to write good articles. Reading can make us increase our knowledge; Reading can make us realize the truth; More importantly, reading can broaden our horizons. Let's study together and form a good habit of reading. There are still many good habits to develop in life. Let's form more good habits together and let them grow with us.
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