To meet the unknown
Author:? zhang defen
Publishing House: Huaxia Publishing House
Douban score: 8. 1
Content introduction |
"Honey, there is no one outside, only yourself."
Facing the ever-changing society, modern people's cultivation and desire are out of proportion, and it is easy to get lost in it. With the help of his own personal experience and feelings, the author shows the complexity and pain of modern urbanites, and through the guidance of elders and wise men, he gradually and consciously carries out spiritual practice, and finally walks out of the increasingly alienated realistic predicament, finds his true self, realizes the salvation of his own mind and finds his inner home.
As the first novel of mind and body in the Chinese-speaking world, I believe it can open an extraordinary new world for you.
The art of love
Author:? Frome
Publishing House: Shanghai Translation Publishing House
Translator: Li Jianming
Douban score: 8.9
Content introduction |
Immature love is: I love you because I need you. Mature love is: I need you because I love you. Learn to love someone, whether it's others or yourself. These are all barriers that must be crossed on the road of mental maturity.
Fromm, the author of this book, believes that if you don't try to develop your whole personality and realize a creative tendency, then every attempt at love will fail. If you don't have the ability to love others, if you can't really love others with humility, courage, sincerity and self-discipline, then people will never be satisfied in their love life.
Love is an art, and people who want to master it need to have knowledge and make efforts.
the road less traveled
Author:? Scott Peck [America]
Translator: Yu Haisheng
Publishing House: Jilin Literature and History Publishing House
Subtitle: The Journey of Mental Maturity
Douban score: 8.3
Content introduction |
Life is a hard journey, and the journey of mental maturity is quite long. Scott Peck, the author of this book, led us through a series of difficult and even painful changes, and finally reached a higher level of self-awareness.
This book reveals the meaning of communication and understanding everywhere. It transcends the limitations of the times, helps us explore the essence of love and leads us to live a brand-new, quiet and rich life. It helps us learn to love and be independent; It teaches us to be more capable and understanding parents. In the final analysis, it tells us how to find our true self.
PS。 Teacher Fan is going to interpret this book this Saturday. Come and listen to the "Book" section of the APP.
Self - control
Author:? Kelly Magnagel
Translator: Wang Cenhui
Publishing House: Cultural Development Publishing House
Subtitle: The most popular psychology course in Stanford University.
Douban score: 8.2
Content introduction |
Self-discipline and love are two sides of a mature coin. We have recommended so many books about love. It's time to talk about self-discipline
Self-control was originally a very popular psychology course at Stanford University. If you always put off your work until the last minute; Always moonlight, credit card overdraft; Want to relax, but stay up late surfing the internet; Always trying to lose weight, always frustrated ... I really should read this book carefully. It can help you control your time and life successfully.
Too much is too little.
Author: [America] Henry Claude [America] John Townsend
Translator: Cai
Press: Haitian Publishing House
Subtitle: How to establish your own psychological boundary?
Douban score: 8.3
Content introduction |
Similarly, starting from out of control, unlike self-control, this book explores another problem-psychological boundaries.
Do people always use you? Is it hard for you to say no to others? Are you disappointed that God didn't answer your prayers? People often value love and avoid selfishness, but forget to pay attention to their limited abilities and boundaries. It is very important to have a balanced and healthy life with clear boundaries. It points out what you should be responsible for. It can also define what you are. Or, you are nothing.
Seven habits of efficient people
Author:? Steven Covey
Translator: Gao Xiao Yong/Wang Yibing/Ge Xuelei
Publishing House: China Youth Publishing House
Douban score: 8.4
Content introduction |
To put it simply, these seven habits are: initiative, starting from the end, putting things first, win-win thinking, knowing yourself, integrating comprehensive effects and constantly updating.
The thought of Covey, the author of this book, reveals a set of winning rules for enterprises and individuals to remain invincible forever. In the changing economic environment, his thoughts have brought new inspiration and new insights into the meaning of life to the fast-growing enterprises and China leaders.
Every suggestion in the book can be implemented, bringing a qualitative leap to your work and life.
social psychology
Author:? David Myers [America]
Translator: Zhang Zhiyong/Le Guoan/Hou Yubo, etc
Publishing House: People's Posts and Telecommunications Publishing House
Subtitles: (eighth edition)
Douban score: 9.0
Content introduction |
Although this is a textbook, it is not obscure at all. The author interspersed a large number of cases in the book and explained the knowledge in social psychology in plain language. This book will lead us to understand how people think, how to influence others and how to establish contact with others. It is the best guide for you to know yourself, society and the relationship between yourself and society.
oneself
Author:? Jonathan brown [America]
Translator: Chen
Publishing House: People's Posts and Telecommunications Publishing House
Douban score: 8.3
Content introduction |
Knowing yourself is the most difficult course in the world.
The road to mental maturity is difficult, but no one can refuse a happy life. This book studies the way people know and feel themselves, helps you understand your own state and gives you a direction to realize yourself.
The reading threshold is relatively high, suitable for advanced reading materials such as "The Road Few People Walk" and "It's Too Late".
Emotional first aid
Author: Dr. McGee Winch
Translator: Sun Lu
Press: Shanghai Academy of Social Sciences Press
Douban score: 8.2
Content introduction |
If you have a cold and headache, go to see a doctor. But why don't we go to see a doctor when we are experiencing psychological pain? Guy Winch explained that we are basically healing alone now. But this is not an effective way to get out of the emotional fog.
Rejection, loneliness, loss and trauma, guilt, rumination, failure and inferiority are like poison, eating away at healthy and happy self. The author of this book tells us how to cure ourselves through examples in life, which is a psychological medicine box that everyone needs.
Teacher PS. Fan also talked about this book before, which can be found in the "Book" section of the APP.
Poor Charlie's collection
Author: Charles Munger/Editor: Peter Kaufman
Translator: Li Jihong
Press: CITIC Publishing Group
Subtitle: Charles Munger's Wisdom Proverbs
Douban score: 8.9
Content introduction |
What is maturity? Let's hear what the world's top successful people have to say.
Charles Munger is Warren Buffett's mentor and life partner, and also the miracle creator of Berkshire Hathaway's compound annual growth rate of 5 1 year 19.2%! His knowledge is extensive, from ancient speakers to modern European writers, to contemporary pop culture idols and famous sayings.
This book gives a complete and comprehensive introduction to Charles Munger's investment, study and life experience, and is a treasure house of wisdom to improve our decision-making level in work and life!