High eq chat skills

1, only praise others.

2, the disaster comes from the mouth, first talk in your own mind.

Keep your promise and keep your word.

Save in advance, don't ask others for money easily.

5. Get along with people and talk about food when you don't know what to talk about.

6. Respect each other's privacy and don't ask questions.

7. Others can laugh at themselves, but you can't laugh at each other.

8. Learn to refuse. You can say no loudly at any time.

9. When the moon is full, you will lose money. Don't talk too much.

10, don't say what you can't say in front of others.

1 1. Ask if you don't understand, and you will learn more and grow faster.

12, don't bring bad mood to people around you.

13, don't talk if you are in a bad mood.

14. No matter how good the relationship is, we should respect each other and maintain a moderate sense of border.

15, learn to say sorry when you are wrong.

16. When chatting with each other, ask them to talk more and talk less.

17, when the other party says you are not good, you should not only believe it, but also adjust it as soon as possible.

18, when the other person praises you, don't take it seriously, just laugh it off.

19, and different people, say different things to grasp the discretion.

20. When you meet for the first time, you must remember each other's names.

2 1, don't share your secret with others.

22, others pay for you is a mutual affection, don't take it for granted.

23. be polite

24. Go easy on her, that is, leave yourself a way out.

25. People brag less and laugh at themselves more.

26. Don't impose your ideas on each other.

27. Accept your imperfections and acknowledge each other's strengths.

28. Just live a good life and care less about others.

29. Don't kidnap each other with a sense of morality.

30. People with high emotional intelligence make progress and retreat when talking and doing things.

First, how to praise each other with high emotional intelligence

If you can make your praise sincere and ingenious when you speak, then the other person will be "addicted".

1. Talk about what the other person values most, such as the high value and talent of the other person.

2. Talk about something that the other person is proud of, such as starting from work.

3. Look for the opportunity to meet each other next time in each other's wonderful topics. Use some seemingly ordinary words to give yourself a real chance to chat.

Second, how to impress each other

1. Say funny words, keep a moderate sense of humor and express yourself appropriately.

2. Find out the difference between the other person and others and give just the right compliment.

3. When asking questions, ask questions based on the other person's personal experience.

When introducing yourself, first introduce the common characteristics of you two.

5. Make a second impression. Words should be expressed. No matter how sincere you are to people, if you can't express them properly, they won't be moved.

Third, the high emotional intelligence skills of saying "I'm sorry"

1, when others are upset and unhappy. No matter how big or small things are, learn to say "I'm sorry".

2. At some important moments in the work, we should judge the stakes to confirm whether it is necessary to say "I'm sorry".

However, when others interfere in your life, don't say sorry easily, which will give others the right to interfere in your life.