You've been in this situation, and it's okay to finally ask a girl out to chat, but after the date, the girl suddenly ignores you like a different person or chats coldly.

Then why is this happening?

This is because some behaviors of boys make this girl feel obscene, so in today's note, I want to tell my brothers what we should pay attention to when we get along with girls.

The first behavior: false generosity.

Just pretend to be generous and please girls.

For example, when two people eat together, the boy is heroic. I'll pay for today's consumption! As a result, when the girl ordered, he was nervously staring at the expensive food.

These subtle moves, girls can see through boys' minds in an instant. If a brother does something similar, he will be blacklisted by a girl. Because this kind of behavior is hypocritical and unseemly in the hearts of girls, it is not even as attractive as those boys who frankly admit that they are not rich enough.

The second behavior: like to take advantage.

Many brothers who chase girls think like this:

They think dating is a transaction. If I pay you to go out, they will think they pay the girl to go out for dinner and movies. It is fair for that girl to hold his hand and touch his face.

So when they date:

No matter whether the atmosphere is warm or not, he will suddenly hold the girl's hand or hug her. When the girl resists, he will confidently say, "If you come out with me, doesn't that mean I can kiss you?" "

These are very disrespectful behaviors of girls, which will make girls feel violated, have a poor experience and never want to have a second contact with you again.

The third behavior: forcibly brushing the sense of existence.

There are many boys like this, which is embodied in that no matter what girls are doing, he has to rub against them.

For example: the girl is going to eat, and he runs next door to the girl; Girls go to the library, and he also wants to go to the library; Even if the girl has a little interaction with other boys, he will run to the boy and say, I really like this girl, so stay away from her.

This behavior has exceeded the limit of lewdness! ! ! Even more frightening is that some girls will deliberately avoid this boy! The boy will even follow!

If this behavior is discovered by a girl, the result is basically cold, and you will never have any intersection with this girl again.

The fourth behavior: intentional physical contact.

To put it simply: Touch a girl whenever possible, secretly smell her hair when there are many people, and pinch her face when there are few people. These boys may feel good as long as they meet girls, and they have taken a big step. But this kind of behavior is really obscene in girls' hearts. Another is that I just want to touch her, and I have no courage in the middle.

For example, going to the movies together: you miss your relatives' homes, but you dare not. As a result, you smell people's hair and want to hold hands, but you dare not. As a result, you want to help grandma cross the street, want to hug, but dare not. As a result, you put your hand on someone's seat.

And these behaviors are in the eyes of girls: if girls have no feelings for you, then you are obscene and greasy. If girls have a good impression on you, they will even take the initiative to create opportunities for you.

Then how should we judge whether this girl has feelings for you?

If a girl is interested in you, she will expect you to take the initiative to approach. She will be shy and blush, but she won't shy away. If a girl is not interested in you, as long as you get close to her, she will duck in disgust.

If so, brothers, don't have any more ideas! Some are obscene, others are hooligans. In fact, the reason why many boys are obscene is the lack of judgment!

No matter what the girl thinks, he does it because he wants to, but I don't know if the girl can accept it. Therefore, to judge, wait until the girls have a good impression on you and look forward to further contact with you.