Four years in college, every time I go out to play, there are always some people who are super popular. Everyone likes to chat, communicate and talk with them, which is simply a pleasure.
I have many friends, in the circle of friends, there are many such friends, and I see many different things from them. I find that being a popular person is actually very simple, but it is also very difficult. What you need is comfort, which may come from your growing experience, your experience, your heart and so on.
My friend told me to read more books. Reading more books will make you gain a lot.
My friends recommended some to me, and I found some myself. Here, I recommend these books to you. They are easy to understand and the stories are interesting, but they can teach us a lot about getting along with others. I hope you will become a popular person.
Suggestion 1: Be a just right woman. Without persistence, there will be no stability.
Highlight: As can be seen from the title, this book is a book to help girls grow up. Late Love is one of my favorite writers. What she taught me was more of an attitude towards life. She has written many articles about emotions, each of which is thought-provoking. But what really taught me about life was her experience. She runs her own shop, has a career she likes and has a happy family. What I admire most is her self-control. Although she is busy every day, she still insists on working day after day and carries her hobby to the end.
In her book, every story she writes is typical. For those who often compromise their lives, she said: your compromise cannot fulfill the other party, and he will only further improve his requirements in your compromise; Your compromise cannot fulfill yourself, because every compromise must have a purpose. Late love encourages us to pursue what we like and strive to do what we like. There is no life that is not hard. It is hard when you are young, so you don't complain, but when you are old, that is the real pain. As for marriage, romance says: the first year after marriage deeply affects the life after marriage. If we can grasp the first year of marriage and handle family relations well, we will be much happier in the next few decades.
The relationship between dead lovers is super good. After reading this book, I learned a lot that I didn't realize at my age. It is really useful.
Suggestion 2: Don't let yourself hurt yourself by not speaking.
Highlight: Wandering around the library, this book immediately attracted me. Why? Because I am a straight man, I often put my foot in my mouth. Although this book is full of meaningful examples, it looks interesting to me. It turns out that there are so many speaking skills, so learn slowly.
I like the author's recommendation very much: a word can be done, but a word can be lost. People who can talk will definitely know the way, like a duck to water; People who can't speak are bound to be confined everywhere and can't move. Speaking should not only be learned, but also refined and thorough. In the book, the author is mainly divided into thirteen chapters, introducing how to speak intelligently in different ways and how to make others accept your words in a better way. The author puts forward Miao Yan's praise on how to get each other's good feelings quickly; Clever suggestions to make others agree with your point of view; Advice, how to save face for both sides. There are many other skills. For details, interested friends can read books.
Suggestion 3: Be a woman with a strong heart.
Recommended reason: read the title of the book, another woman's book. But I think many life skills are suitable for anyone. Carnegie is a very great spiritual teacher. His books are also very interesting, and the language makes people feel comfortable to read. He told us that to be a woman with a strong heart, we must always be on the road. Because there are always so many memories that we can't forget, and there are always some memories to remind it of its existence, because a person with a strong heart can stick to his own steps even if he is scarred.
The article that inspired me the most was about accepting and forgiving myself. Many things are not done perfectly, and occasionally I make a little mistake. I always like to struggle and don't blame myself. But Mr. Carnegie tells us through examples that it is always easy for us to forgive others' mistakes, so why not give ourselves a chance? I slowly convince myself with this truth. Now, I live faster and happier.
This is a good chicken soup for the soul, and Mr Carnegie thinks it is his best work. The recommendation of the book is also very touching: either endure, be cruel, stay or roll, life has ups and downs, and you can't lose your mood if you lose anything.
Recommendation 4: Wanshui Qian Shan Tour.
Highlight: There are many people who love Sanmao. I like it, too. I like that chic life, and I'm looking forward to traveling when I leave. But San Mao's wealth left us is far more than that. Sanmao has many books, about living abroad, about traveling and sightseeing, and so on. I read about a woman with high emotional intelligence. A woman who is loved everywhere.
This book is mainly about Sanmao's experience in traveling in Latin America and other places. The journey is accompanied by Michael, and the book ends with Michael's article. Michelle's evaluation of Sanmao is that her cleverness and liveliness will spread through language, which makes people feel like a spring breeze. Anyone who has talked to San Mao for five minutes will never forget it. She talks like a fragrant rose. I think this is a very high evaluation of a person's popularity. There are really few people who can do this.
I think Sanmao is a sincere person. She always treats others with the friendliest eyes. She has always adhered to the principle that people are mutual. Others respect themselves, and they will naturally respect others; San Mao will certainly remember others' kindness to himself.
Traveling in Qianshan, the scenery you see, the people and things you meet are all very interesting. Reading stories, I believe you can think of many skills to improve your communication skills.
Recommendation 5: There is always a cry, which makes people grow up instantly.
Highlight: I heard this sentence a long time ago, but I didn't expect it to be a book. Last time I bought a book, I bought it together. After getting the book, I was sprouted by the cover of the book.
This book is the same, telling truth through stories. But each author's reasoning style is different, and reading different stories will have different inspirations. Moreover, I found that many short stories are very suitable for teachers and can be used to tell students, and everything can be tried in class meetings.
Content abstract: Our tiredness and desire are like a threshold. If we pass, we are the door; If we can't pass, we are the threshold. Let pain, loneliness, illness, humiliation and deep inferiority give us a worrying cry, which may make us grow up in an instant, have the courage to leave all our sorrows behind, embark on a better life, stay away from prosperity and move towards emptiness.
One day, in my old age, you and I will sit in front of the court, enjoy the flowers and fall, and laugh about the fleeting time. Once every other year, I have finished reading it with a smile. The author's literary talent is really good.
I like the short story, which is warm and easy to accept.
Although some subjects are mainly about the growth of women, many of my principles actually apply to everyone. We don't have to be the most popular people, but with good popularity, life will be really interesting and much easier. I hope these books can help everyone.