Talk to a baby from 0 to 3 months old. If it is a small partner, it is necessary to communicate orally. Generally speaking, it is better to develop good living habits after this, and it takes some skills to communicate with such a small child. The following is a book about talking to babies from 0 to 3 months old.

Talk to a baby of 0 to 3 months 1 The baby must create a good language environment for him in the embryonic stage of speaking. Parents must talk to their children more and communicate with them more. Babies only accept names in this period, which are often words closely related to life, such as people, body, food, toys and so on. When teaching him to name an object, he must feel it at the same time. For example, when telling him "light", be sure to point to the light, let him look at the light, let the child establish the connection between the image of the object of light and its corresponding words in his brain, help him understand the light and gradually say the word light.

In this period, babies can't understand abstract language, so when adults talk to him, they must combine language with actions or images, which will help his language development. When he imitates the pronunciation of adults, don't interrupt him, show interest and smile, and give corresponding answers. At this time, the baby's pronunciation is not exact and clear, which is normal, but adults must speak clearly, slowly and repeatedly.

Children should be encouraged to talk more. When a child expresses what he wants, adults should not give it to him immediately. Let him point at it and make a sound, and give him a chance to speak. This is also a good time for adults to teach him to speak and let him make demands in words slowly. In addition, to keep the baby in a good mood, the child is willing to learn to speak, and only speaks when he is happy.

Books can help children learn to speak, and parents should spare some time to read picture books with their children every day. Show him simple books, such as reading pictures, with clear pictures, bright colors, simple content on each page and relatively large books, so that children will be interested in books and learn languages while reading and listening.

Talking to a baby aged 0 to 3 months Book 2 Bao gave a loud cry when he was born, which was his first sound when he came into this world. Although it doesn't sound good, mom and dad will think it is the most beautiful voice in the world!

After birth, as the baby grows up, he will start to make more sounds and learn to speak. He will be called "Mom and Dad" for the first time. ...

The first time I heard the sweet and gentle "father" and "mother", my heart really sprouted.

Earlier, Zhang Ziyi posted a dynamic on his personal social platform, in which his son called his mother for the first time in eight months. It can be seen from the picture that she was in high spirits.

In addition, on Ku Kuiji's birthday last year, he said that his son gave him a "father" as a birthday present, which made him smile from ear to ear and shed tears, which showed how happy his father was to hear this.

For novice parents, after the baby is born, it is this "father" and "mother" that they are most looking forward to hearing.

However, how to guide the baby correctly when he starts to speak and learn to speak for a few months? Next, let's take a look at the baby's language development law and guidance methods before 1 year-old with Ma Jing.

Novice parents all know the language development law of babies under 1 year.

1-2 months old baby

The baby can hear the sound when it is in the mother's belly. At 32 weeks of pregnancy, the fetus can remember the music he has heard.

After a newborn is born, it can first distinguish between sounds and other sounds, and also distinguish between different voices, men's or women's voices, etc.

Crying is the first language, and babies come into this world with crying. In the first few months, they also expressed their needs by crying.

Two months later, the baby enters the self-pronunciation stage of the language. When the baby is happy to eat, he can pronounce vowels with relatively simple A, O and E.

I began to like listening to his parents talk to him, and others will react when they talk to him.

Guidance and suggestion: Parents should face to face with their baby, talk to their baby more often, and speak slowly, so that the baby can imitate the mouth shape of parents and pronounce a, o, e and other sounds.

3-4 months old baby

At this time, the baby can make more sounds, such as O, U, H, K, ai, etc. At first, they babbled and liked to talk to themselves. Some babies still laugh and occasionally scream.

Guidance and suggestion: You can listen to some nursery rhymes to improve your baby's sense of language. When talking to your baby, you can also imitate his babbling, which will help stimulate your baby's vocal practice.

5-6 months old baby

Babies will express their emotions in different tones, and begin to respond by calling their names, smiling at you and imitating the voices of adults, such as mom and dad, but at this time they are not really calling their parents, but simply imitating the voices.

Guidance suggestion: the baby can already distinguish the difference between tone and volume, and will also respond to the reproachful tone, so parents should pay attention to the tone when talking to the baby.

7-8 months old baby

At this stage, the baby's pronunciation is clearer and the number of words increases significantly. He gradually began to know how to "recognize things" through language, and he could understand some words he often heard, such as "the baby is good" and "where is the car".

Guidance and suggestion: talk to your baby often and play some language parent-child games with your baby. Practice has proved that the earlier and more conversations with your baby, the stronger your baby's ability to understand and use language.

9- 10 month baby

The baby can already understand some daily expressions, and especially likes to imitate the voices of adults. He often recites a word repeatedly, and he can already understand the requirements and instructions of adults.

Guidance and suggestion: Parents should talk to their babies more, play some parent-child games and practice speaking repeatedly, and read some simple picture books to their babies repeatedly, which not only promotes the development of their language understanding ability, but also stimulates their visual development.

1 1- 12 months old baby

At this stage, some babies can already call out the names of some items with single words or overlapping words, understand the "orders" of adults, and respond, such as shaking their heads and saying "no".

Guidance and suggestion: At this time, the baby has the conditions to "talk". Parents no longer need to use reduplication when talking to their babies. They should speak to their babies in standard pronunciation.

How to promote baby's language development through parent-child games and picture book reading?

After understanding the law of baby's language development, parents should guide them correctly. As mentioned earlier, children can learn to speak through language parent-child games and picture book reading. What exactly should I do?

1, here are some games to promote baby's language development.

Game 1: Who's here?

The game method prepares animal toys that two babies like, such as rabbits. Parents can put the rabbit behind their backs and ask the baby, "Look who's here?" Show it to the baby quickly, and then teach the baby to say "rabbit".

The role is to teach the baby to learn to speak by playing games. The baby will find it very interesting and giggle.

Game 2: What's ringing?

Play with building blocks, balls, etc. Put it in a small cylinder, cover it, then let the baby shake it and ask, "Hey, what's that ringing?"

Function can train the baby's attention to sound and the ability to distinguish sound.

Game 3: Swing

Play: Adults sit in a chair, hold the baby on the instep, swing up and down, and sing children's songs while swinging, encouraging the baby to sing together.

Function This is a very happy way of parent-child interaction for the baby, and it also develops language ability while playing.

2. In addition to parent-child games, you can always accompany your baby to see the "language cognitive picture book".

For example, Helen Oxenberg, the founder of Baby Cardboard Book, wrote the first book for 0-year-old babies, including Clap Your Hands, Roar, Stumble and Good Night Baby.

Helen Oxenberg may not be known to many parents, and she is known as "the genius who depicts the baby world". She has many classic baby picture books and won many international awards.

This set of books takes the baby as the protagonist and describes the baby's personalized movements and expressions in detail.

The painting content in the picture book is also the most familiar daily life scene for babies, and watching it will make them feel kind and safe.

In addition to simple and familiar illustrations, there are several words that are very interesting to read, such as "giggle, laugh" and "giggle, wash and brush" ... catchy as nursery rhymes, and you can interact with your baby while reading, so as to increase your baby's language impression and guide your baby to read with parents, which is especially suitable for parents.

In addition, this set of books is hardcover, which is not easy to break after repeated reading, and the rounded corner design is safer.

This is a classic picture book. Parents who have a baby under 1 year old at home suggest starting with it (link below). They often watch with their babies, have teaching assistants to talk, read and play with them, and have a good parent-child time with them.

Regarding the baby's speech, some babies will say before they are one year old, and some babies may be two years old, but they don't say much, but as long as the baby's hearing test is normal, parents don't have to worry.

However, in the usual companionship process, we should pay more attention and talk to the baby more, create an environment for the baby to learn to talk and encourage the baby to talk more.

Talking to a baby aged 0 to 3 months Book 3 For a baby, coming into this world is a very important and uncertain adventure.

At first, they didn't know you were comforting them, feeding them and taking care of them. They can feel comfortable and uncomfortable, but they don't know if it's because they are full, safe, scared or hungry. They will soon learn to recognize the smell and voice of the person who breastfeeds them and hugs them the most (probably smelling the milk on their mother), but they don't know that this person is called "mother".

However, even when they are just born, they have already started to communicate with you, giving you some hints that they are tired, hungry, awake or full of energy. They have been studying, and what their parents have to do is to help them understand how welcome they are in the world; Their needs will be met here. They will also learn to feel safe and loved.

Remember, for a newborn, at the beginning of birth, everything is brand-new and "unconscious", even changing diapers.

How I miss the way you walk beside me.

I can't stop loving you when I think about it.

It has been raining in Nanjing.

Social and emotional development

Newborns can't understand what happened to them.

They don't know they are people.

They don't know who is helping themselves when they cry.

They will feel happy when they drink milk, but they don't know what "happiness" is.

They feel hungry and cry when they need to sleep, but they don't know that someone is taking care of them.

The first and perhaps most important thing to know about newborns is that they can't understand that there is a person living under their skin (they can't understand that they have hands and feet, they can't understand everything about themselves), and they don't know that they are related to other people.

Newborns don't cry to "attract your attention" or "boss" their parents.

Babies who cried and didn't cry three months ago couldn't help themselves. They cry because of what happened inside them. They can't understand what happened. They don't know that you might help yourself become more comfortable.

They like the feeling of successful breastfeeding, or hearing your soothing voice, or being cuddled. They don't like the feeling of hunger or fear-but they don't really know that this feeling is caused by satiety or hunger.

Because babies can feel, but can't think, they will "feel" your feelings. If you are calm, he will be calm, and if you are unhappy, he will be unhappy.

If you feel unhappy, the baby can't hide your feelings-he will show them as his own. Therefore, when you feel tired and irritable, it may be difficult for your baby to calm down.

Every baby is different, but they all develop and grow in a way that suits them.

Every baby is different. You may have heard of it, but it's true. Every baby has a different personality. They may be easy to get along with, gentle, shy, easily afraid, or easily unhappy. In the first few months, you will gradually discover this.

Face is the first and most important shape that babies can learn to recognize. People's voices are also important to them, although they still can't understand what they are saying.

Your baby is interested in you-especially your face and voice. Staring eyes are very necessary for "falling in love with him" and establishing a close and warm relationship with him. Let the baby see your face from the beginning and talk to him gently. If sometimes he turns away, don't feel rejected; Because when babies "communicate" with people, they are very easy to feel tired and need to have a rest.

Babies need a sense of security and feel taken care of. They usually start from about 6 weeks, they can smile at familiar faces and look at you carefully while smiling.

I can't stop loving you when I think about it.

It has been raining in Nanjing.

Physiological development

Although babies are ready to survive and grow outside the mother's womb, most of their body structures are still immature.

All newborns are very busy, dedicated to feeling their bodies. Every part of their bodies is brand new and has never been used-it takes about three months for the digestive system to start normally and work smoothly. As can be seen from the baby's expression, he spent a lot of time absorbed in feeling the changes in his body.

Because babies can't understand everything around them, they will feel uncomfortable if they show too much or do too much.

They are easily overwhelmed by all kinds of sounds, colors, shapes and touches outside the uterus. Sometimes there is too much information for them! Too loud sounds will scare most babies in the first few months, but they will feel calm because of crooning and gentle voices, and sometimes even the music they heard before birth.

weep

Many babies within three months love to cry, especially at night or at night.

This kind of crying is often called colic (acute abdominal pain). Part of the reason is that I feel uneasy and at a loss about what is happening in my body and my surroundings.

Note: It is not a good idea to calm the baby by "high-speed shaking". Even if they stop crying, it may be because they are afraid or even in pain. Never shake your baby hard (if you feel tired and upset, ask your family for help, and don't shake your baby hard because you are upset).

Hearing and vision

Newborns can listen, and they can listen before they are born.

The eye muscles of newborns are immature. Although they can see, they can only see things close to them.

Newborns can't understand what they see. In the first three months, they will be attracted by faces, lights, basic colors, stripes, dots and patterns. By recognizing eyes, nose and mouth, the face is the first "thing" they can recognize. After three months, they began to recognize some faces and other things (such as their teddy bears) that appeared in their lives. Hanging some pictures of faces and simple toys on their cribs can help them practice seeing and recognizing.

Use their bodies.

When they are awake, the newborn's body will move, but they don't know how to make a certain part of their body move, even that part belongs to them.

Babies within 8 weeks can't control their body movements, and all movements are involuntary or nerve reflex. Sucking, grasping (holding things tightly in your hand) and jumping reflex ("being surprised at first sight" when you hear a loud sound or suddenly become passive) are just nerve reflexes. In the third month, they will start watching their hands and feet dance in the air and start waving their little fists in your face or whatever you want. They begin to know that they have a body that can move, feel and be wrapped in skin, and they can influence the body's feelings and actions.

From about 8 weeks, when they play on their stomach, they begin to know how to raise their heads and kick.

Pronunciation and language

Babies express their feelings through expressions, voices and bodies.

From birth, crying is the main way for babies to let you know that something is wrong. Soon, babies will express different situations in different ways-hunger, pain, humidity, cold, fear and loneliness.

In a few weeks, you will begin to understand these different calls. Babies have no concept of time, so all their needs are real-time and urgent.

It is very important to reply to the baby as soon as possible. This will make him understand that when he needs you, you will be there for him. It is very important to respond as soon as possible to help your baby build a sense of security.

By 7 or 8 weeks, the baby began to feel his own voice, and it would make a cooing sound and some simple vowel syllables.

Even in 8 weeks, they can hear your voice and then make a sound to respond to you.

Activities that babies can do.

Hang a little doll with a picture of a face or a big head on their crib and face them.

Move different parts of their bodies and see where they like to be touched.

Talk to them gently and call their names.

Play music for them.

Sing to them.

Hug them more (is this different from what you think? Do you often hear people say you can't hug more? )。

Let the baby look at your face when you talk to him.

Learn their tricks and voices.

Shake them gently (not hard).

Feed a lot and hope to get enough sleep.

sleep

Most babies still need 1~2 feedings at night. Some babies can sleep all night, but this is rare.

When you wake up at night, when you touch them and comfort them, some babies can calm down and sleep by themselves, but most babies need nursing.

Social emotion

About 6 weeks (4~8 weeks), talk to him, and the baby will look at the faces of mom and dad.

At 5~7 weeks, the baby will start to laugh.

By 3 months, the baby can giggle.

If you feel that you can't meet your baby's needs most of the time.

You look at your baby negatively, and you are very disappointed or even depressed about your baby.

You don't know how to respond to the baby.

Most babies are not quiet when they are picked up, even for a short time, no matter who is holding them.

Autumn on Yin Shan Road

How I miss the way you walk beside me.

I can't stop loving you when I think about it.

It has been raining in Nanjing.

Action development

Touch the baby's cheek, he will turn to the touched side and open his mouth to find food (from birth)

About 6 weeks (4-8 weeks), the baby can look up when lying prone.

By 2 months, the baby will kick his legs hard, and his arms, fingers and legs can move freely.

By 1 month, the baby's eyes can move with the moving light for a few seconds, and the baby can follow the moving face.

By 6 weeks, the baby's eyes can focus most of the time.

The baby is unusually lazy or slow.

One hand or one leg of a baby is more stiff, stiff, strong or weak than the other. One side moves much more than the other.

A baby can control his head (stiff neck and back muscles) exceptionally well.

Babies always clench their fists.

The baby can't pay attention to his face after 2 months.

Babies don't have a fright reflex because of sudden sounds.

The baby can't laugh after 3 months.

daily activities

After a few weeks, you can usually feed well (you can drink enough)

There is usually no clear day and night pattern for waking and sleeping.

I still have difficulty eating after several weeks.

The baby cries for a long time every day.

It is difficult for babies to fall asleep.

It looks very different from other babies (too quiet or too nervous)

Pronunciation and language

At the age of one month, the baby will also have a fright reflex because of the loud voice.

By two months, the baby will make sounds other than crying.

At 6~8 weeks, the baby can start to have a sound response when he hears the sound.

After 2 months, the baby still can't look at the speaker's face when talking.

Babies don't respond to sounds.

pay attention to

Every child is different and may develop at different speeds. If your baby can't complete all the things mentioned in this article, it may just be because he is studying and developing hard in other areas. However, babies usually have a consistent development pattern. If in doubt, see a doctor to make sure your baby develops normally in his own way.

If the baby is very different from other babies, if you are worried, or if he shows retrogression in some aspects, you should take the baby to see a professional and consult your concerns. If there is anything wrong with your baby's development, the sooner you find it, the sooner you get help, the better. Remember, the most important thing is to help them make progress.