Now after reading this book, I have a clear answer.
Transshipment is about whether fate is really doomed. No, you can change your mind. Under the cultivation of the "ancient meditation method" founded by Yan Zi's tutor according to Taoist thought, Tao Te Ching and Yijing, you can reach the realm of making a fortune.
Does it look mysterious? In fact, in the vernacular, everyone's difficulties, setbacks and adversity in life all contain topics that can be learned. If you get caught up in it, you can't extricate yourself. But if we can look at the problem from a different perspective, accept the current predicament and see the topics that need to be studied. Then, the problems set by life will be solved.
Yan Zi's tutor has the ability to see past lives. He can see people's past lives and tell people how to face the problems of this life through the karma of past lives.
In fact, we ordinary people don't need to know what our past lives were, what experiences, what opportunities and what topics we had. The only thing we have to do is to find the subject we want to study in this life. Through a series of things that happened to us and a series of people we met, we can generally relate the topics of our lives. Maybe you will think that this is not an easy task. I used to think so, but after reading some cases of transshipment methods, I summed up my own topic through their experiences. A little lucky.
Besides discovering my own life topic, my biggest gain is the skill of dialectical reading. Before I saw a book, I basically believed everything in it, but after reading it, I began to have my own thoughts and doubts.
1. "This book will trigger a change in your heart and create a more complete chapter in your life with a more positive view and mentality."
[My Feeling] Yan Zi's words reveal strength, wisdom and emotion, which makes people reluctant to put down this book. It's like a "spiritual massage".
We are all chasing what we haven't got yet, and life seems to be such a game. But after all, we are for the joy and happiness of life. Teacher Yan Zi told us that happiness is no longer an unreachable dream for you, but can be easily held in your arms.
2. "We all live in this world and have different talents. No one is an exception and no one is redundant. "
[My feeling] Teacher Yan Zi told me that he was instructed by the gods at the age of 9 and could talk with them. I sigh when I see this. But Teacher Yan Zi went on to say, "Not everyone needs this experience." This made me particularly moved. Maybe I didn't say it, but in my heart I envy him for having such an experience. It is really touching that he can take care of the emotions of ordinary people between the lines.
3. "How to meditate?
You stand alone in the torrential rain and don't touch any drop of rain. This is Zen, and your inner stability can be called calm. "
[My feeling] There is deep wisdom in it. It's raining cats and dogs outside, but our hearts can be undisturbed. This is meditation. In our life, we are easily influenced by people and things from outside. When others are angry, we are also angry because of our inner instability.
Teacher Yan Zi also told me that he used the Heart Sutra to open inner wisdom. I have heard the Heart Sutra before, but I feel very quiet. Looking at the Heart Sutra now, I still feel very quiet. As for inspiring wisdom, I can't do it yet. But I seem to like those Buddhist music since I was a child. For example, the founder of dharma. Ha ha.
4. "Secular people are often in a state of thinking, and often have repeated emotions with the ups and downs of their hearts. Falling into negative emotions will actually make our lives fall into an' idling' state without realizing it. "
[My Feeling] Meditation and meditation are actually a way to get rid of distractions and delusions. If you think too much, you will have a lot of emotions. If you are bound by emotions, your energy will be infinitely pulled and lost. I'm not saying don't have emotions, but let yourself see emotions and don't be entangled in them.
5. "Life is a play, and everyone can only learn and experience through this body."
"You should put down all the words you have read, rearrange your mind and focus on every minute."
[My feeling] No matter how many books I read, I will eventually return to life, in every minute. The book you read is not wisdom. Only what is really used in life and integrated into one's own bone marrow is one's own wisdom.
6. "When encountering difficulties, it is far less clever to learn from others than to stand still or go straight into the sky."
7. "On the other hand, in our daily life, because we have too much, we don't even know how to cherish a bowl of rice, so we become people who are rich in material things but lack happiness. More and more special stimuli are always needed to get less and less happiness. Is this life happy or sad? "
8. "Life is practice. Six principles of self-monitoring
First of all, you can easily feel happy.
Second, there is nothing unpleasant in your life.
Third, you are willing to share your happiness with anyone.
Fourth, people around you will like you and have more friends.
Fifth, you only live in the present, not in the delusion of your own subjective thoughts.
Sixth, your relationship with your family will naturally become more harmonious. "
9. "When you see yourself lying in a coffin, you will suddenly wake up: it turns out that you have never cherished the happiness you have obtained and have been living in the dream of pursuing the next goal."
1. Turn gains and losses into normality
What is lost is not really lost, but transformed into another kind of motivation.
[My feeling] We all want it and are afraid of losing it. I always feel that losing means never having it again. But this kind of loss is transformed into another kind of motivation, and let us turn gains and losses into a normal mind.
Centroid is a magnetic field. In the end, [love] and [giving] will all be returned to the sender. To be exact, it is oneself who will ultimately benefit.
This idea of loving others is to love yourself, which can make more people willing to pay without asking for anything in return.
2. Let go if you are persistent.
Nothing happened by accident. It appears in my life and is of great significance. I am willing to open my heart to forgive, let ease give me strength and thank the beauty of life. Insist because there must be some misunderstanding. I absolutely forgive, turn all emotions into blessings, and bless you and me in this life. Everything in the past is a perfect memory in my mind.
3. Take care and live in the present.
While reading this book, I have been thinking through books and associating my present life.
The following is my subjective imagination, not the fact.
1
I find that in my marriage, I always feel lonely. My husband and I are like "roommates", so I was wondering why? Why are we getting married? Why don't we fight?
In marriage, I want to get a feeling of being loved and spoiled, but I don't. Every time I want to get this feeling, I always get rejected.
I am reflecting on myself. Do I really love him? I don't seem to love him. I just need him to make me a wife, mother and daughter-in-law. I need him to keep me from being lonely.
Why do I feel that I don't love him? Because I have a standard for my ideal lover, that is, tall and thin boys like Hugh and Wallace Huo. I think I will only love this type of boy.
Do I really love Hugh or Wallace Huo? I found that I don't love them either. If this type of people become my husband, I still won't love them.
Reasoning here, I simply collapsed. Do I just don't love others? Why don't I have the ability to love others?
I later found that this kind of love that I thought would make me feel lonely and helpless all the time, even in marriage. No one can rely on. This looks really sad.
2
Then why did I put myself in this position? I began to recall my life.
I didn't live with my parents before I was 6 years old. I think my withdrawn character is caused by this most important experience. But now that I think about it, maybe this experience is just to temper my loneliness.
Then go to school. Usually, there are always classmates looking for me to play, and I always keep people away. There is a little girl who grew up with me. She is very kind to me, and I always ignore her. Therefore, I have never had any friends. Continue to be lonely.
I liked a few boys in adolescence, all of whom were secretly in love and dared not confess. Now, I don't think I like them that much, let alone love them. Also, I was born plain, not the kind of personality that people like, so no boys like me.
But that's my husband. He said he liked me in high school. I didn't promise him. When I get to the university, keep saying that you like me. Maybe I was really fed up with loneliness, so I accepted him, and we have come all the way to the present.
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You know what I found? When I relate my life experiences, I find that the topic of "loneliness" has been around me. I have always chosen to be lonely by myself and kept myself lonely by various means. Even in the first 30 years, I didn't think there was anything wrong with this state, and I enjoyed it. My husband once asked me, and I said I thought I would be fine like this.
If I insist on experiencing loneliness, why will someone leave me an olive branch and let me have a marriage and children?
Although I want to experience loneliness, I am afraid of loneliness, so I got married. After thinking about it this way, I found out that my husband was my noble person. He can still choose to like me, stay with me and accompany me in the form of marriage under the topic that I want to experience loneliness and choose loneliness. (At this point, I can't help crying ...) As for why I think this marriage is like a "roommate", it may be self-evident. It's not that there is something wrong with our marriage, but that I am used to loneliness, so I always refuse others thousands of miles away. I clearly remember that my husband and I often said "no need" and always felt that we could do it well without his help. This experience is in line with the topic of my life.
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Then why did I choose the theme of experiencing loneliness?
Because I need to grow wisdom in loneliness. Throughout my first 30 years of life, I was in a silly and sweet state. I am a person who has no heart and talent, let alone wisdom. I'm always stupid and naive.
This state finally broke out one day, and my life encountered bottlenecks and setbacks. I have just started my own transformation. I want to change and improve myself. I have tried many methods and experienced many attempts and stages. I spent more than a year studying, and gradually began to have my own understanding.
When I started to improve my inner wisdom through books and reading clubs, I came across this book, which can be said to be a small milestone in my reading history. Seeing through my life topic is to experience loneliness. The way to crack is to increase wisdom. When the heart of wisdom is constantly honed, the topic of loneliness will be broken, and I will get out of this lonely cage and start a new life.
(End)
This book is borrowed from Meng Xing Library.