Second, you feel better about yourself.

Third, you have self-knowledge.

A: She is experienced and always treats you as a younger brother, just for fun.

B. If she really likes you, she won't leave a retreat. She will always give herself or you some possibilities.

C. What you see is a subjective fact, but because you like her, you will feel that she is close to you and has a good impression on you.

D. maybe she has a reason not to be with you.