The marriage between Ying Da and Song Dandan was a beautiful story, but this relationship ended in divorce. Shortly after Ying Da's divorce, she happily married Liang Huan, a talented woman in Peking University and one of the authors of I Love My Family. Finally, she admitted that "it was my mistake to take Liang Huan home as a wife" and felt cheated.
Remarried couples ended their ten-year marriage with great fanfare.
Ying Da and Song Dandan fell in love on 1987. Before that, they each had a failed marriage. This pair of young men and women, who are equally smart and humorous, met and fell in love because of the rehearsal of the new play Arson by Beijing People's Art Theatre. Song Dandan lamented in his autobiography: "Just like two teenagers aged 18."
They got married on 1989, and gave birth to their son Batu one year after marriage. Ying Da, who was promoted to his father, also realized his dream of directing. The first film he directed, I Love My Family, was an instant hit. He even changed the habit of "Huang Jue" and became extremely diligent.
As the director and heroine of I Love My Family, Ying Da and Song Dandan really appreciated and loved each other at first. Ying Da couldn't help calling his wife who was visiting the United States when she cut the first 40 episodes, teasing that she was almost killed by her performance! I even admit that I "looked at it and thought, if I hadn't married you, I would definitely love you now!" " "
However, in the last 80 episodes of I Love My Family, Ying Da and Liang Huan got closer and closer, and his marriage with Song Dandan was on the verge of disintegration. By the end of 1996, Song Dandan, who was "too lonely and needed love", called Ying Da and told her that she had an affair and asked for a divorce.
The two didn't even wait until the end of the New Year holiday to go through the formalities. Song Dandan humorously recalled: "We didn't get divorced that day, but we were' celebrities' and made an exception for us."
Ying Da was "cheated" after his third marriage. He admitted his failure and tried to run a family.
Ying Da once described his divorce from Song Dandan as "a peaceful breakup after ten years", but it was inevitable that he complained that the TV series Broadway 100, which was being filmed at the time of divorce, was "the most unlucky" and "the family broke up and the family died".
After more than a month's divorce, Ying Da married Liang Huan, who is older than small 8, with longing for a better new life. Accustomed to loquacious, he once joked that his wife was "not beautiful" and jokingly claimed that "she is Tian Liang's sister". How beautiful can she be? "Then she solemnly praised her talent as a screenwriter.
Ying and Liang were originally family friends and had close ties. Ying Da's great-grandfather Lianzhi Ying founded Fu Jen Catholic University. His grandfather, Li Qian, is regarded by foreigners as a native of China with the best English, and his father, Ying Ruocheng, is a translator and actor who graduated from Tsinghua University.
Liang Huan's father, Fan Rongkang, is the deputy editor-in-chief of People's Daily, and his mother, Chen Rong, is a female writer who has published books such as Middle Age, The Secret of Prince's Village and Chen Rong's novella collection.
Liang Huan has a good cooperative relationship with his brothers Liang Zuo, Tian Liang and Ying Da. Ying Da is very self-aware. He is not the kind of person who will fall in love at first sight from his appearance and temper. Only after working together for a long time will he have feelings. He admired Liang Huan's intelligence and elegant and easy-going personality.
Ying Da's two consecutive marriages ended in discord, but deep down, he still yearned for a warm family life. Ying Da and Liang Huan just got married and started buying a house. Old men in Beijing who never worry about housework want to buy hardcover houses directly, while Liang Huan, who pursues quality of life, insists on buying rough houses and designs and decorates them completely independently.
At that time, Ying Da felt that it didn't take long for him to live in a new house. He thought that although Liang Huan only wanted to be a housewife after marriage and no longer engaged in script writing, he would have to carry the cauldron of "ruining a female writer" and could not be a good partner in his career, so it was worthwhile to marry a clever talented woman at home!
Who knows that Liang Huan is tossing about in the house cheerfully, but he doesn't want to do housework at all. The two formed a "good partner who slept late" and once took their children to her mother-in-law Chen Rong's house for four consecutive months.
After being ordered to expel the guests, the couple quarreled constantly. Ying Da, who used to be a "shopkeeper of cutting and cutting" since childhood, did not agree to hire a strange nanny, and finally agreed to share some housework.
At this moment, think about the capable Song Dandan who took care of the family affairs independently and kept everything in order, and think about his vision when he married Liang Huan. Ying Da, a male chauvinist, had to admit that he felt a little cheated.
It happened that Tian Liang, after learning about their married life, also "kindly" comforted Ying Da, saying that as an elder brother who knew his sister's nature, he planned to wait for their formal contact for half a year before telling his friends the "truth". I didn't expect their relationship to develop so fast that they even had a "flash marriage" for more than a month!
"As the saying goes, it is better to tear down ten temples than one. Besides, it was my sister who benefited. Just admit it! " Ying Da immediately in distress situation.
Family and marriage life are just like drinking water.
Although life is rough, Ying Da and Liang Huan have reached a consensus of "keeping private life secret" and "men are the masters outside and women are the masters inside" through constant running-in, trying to maintain family stability.
After Liang Huan's eldest brother and brilliant screenwriter Liang Zuo died young, Liang Huan became the creative director of Shi Ying Film and Television Company. However, she is very low-key, hardly appears in the media preview, and always refuses various invitations on the grounds that "I still want to keep this face to buy food on the street".
After many years of marriage, Ying Da appreciated his wife Liang Huan's "contradictory complex" more and more. She is smart and talented, but she has no ambition. She likes excitement but is "afraid of society". She is shy and reserved, isolated from sweet words and disgusting intimacy. Couples with a son and a daughter have gradually gained a happy family life in the secular sense, but both sides have a clear understanding of the nature of marriage.
Ying Da usually doesn't shy away from sensitive topics because of embarrassment when he is interviewed and appears on the program to promote his works. For example, he was dissatisfied with his ex-wife, Song Dandan, who exposed the truth of divorce, and they were strangers and would not cooperate again; The relationship with the eldest son Batu was distant and cold, which angered Song Dandan's public choking; Even how to distribute property in case of divorce.
Ying Da admits that he can never be sure about his family and marriage, but as a marriage lover, he dares to pursue the best life and accept the worst result.
Liang Huan, who is low-key, shed her unrealistic romantic fantasies when she was young, fully enjoyed the "sweet burden" of being a wife and mother, and made her life full of reality.
She is willing to personally decorate a peaceful, practical and emotional home for her family. Although she feels that she is not a beauty in the traditional sense, nor a good wife and mother, she has her own charm and trusts her husband, and she will never be jealous and suspicious.
Since his son Ying Ruyong was 3 years old, Liang Huan has carefully trained his son to learn piano, and won many professional awards as an excellent children's piano player.
But when you grow up, you should love ice hockey and be talented. She left everything at home and went to Chicago for three years to receive professional training. She is happy to see her son grow into a new ice hockey star and win honor for her country.
In 20 16, Ying Ruyong was selected as the first reserve team member of the 2022 Beijing Winter Olympics ice hockey team, and in July 2020, he became a member of the men's ice hockey training selection list of the Winter Games Center of the State Sports General Administration.
Ying Da once had a heart-to-heart discussion with Liang Huan: "Having an excellent mother is far more important than having a famous playwright." Liang Huan agreed to this and put it into action. That's true. In terms of her character, what can be more proud of than the dazzling son carefully cultivated?
Now it seems that both Ying Da and Song Dandan found their happiness in their third marriage. In the eyes of the public, the bonds between these families are still "sparkling" from time to time.
But as Zhang Ailing said, "As time goes by, melon seeds are swallowed one by one, and everyone knows the taste, leaving only the messy black and white melon seeds." Not every "celebrity" is willing to show his private life as a "model room". Some people just want to live a good life and enjoy a real life, and don't care about jokes after dinner.