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Characteristic kindergartens talk about how to teach children to solve problems with high emotional intelligence when facing disputes.
1, teaching children to solve conflicts with examples

Exercise children's problem-solving ability through some concrete examples. There are many such examples in life, and there are also rich "teaching materials" on TV or in books. For example, when the protagonist of a TV series conflicts with others, asking the child's inner thoughts and letting him evaluate whether the protagonist's method is correct can effectively exercise the child's ability to solve contradictions.

2. Teach children to put themselves in other's shoes.

Empathy is very important in interpersonal communication. If a child quarrels with others because of something, you can ask him, "What would you do if you were the other person?" Let him learn to understand each other's psychological activities, let him know that quarreling is bad behavior for both sides, and let him feel the harm of his behavior to others from the perspective of others.

3. Teach children how to solve problems.

Parents should teach their children dispute resolution skills in peacetime, so that children can learn to solve problems by themselves. If there is a dispute between children and friends, such as who plays with toys first, then parents should seize the opportunity and participate in it in time. Mom and dad provide them with several solutions and let them decide which one to use.

If it is a trivial matter, parents can let their children solve it by guessing fists and throwing coins. These methods are simple, quick and easy to accept.

4. Let children learn to use "I"

When some children argue with others and want to express their ideas, they often say, "How are you? You are too bad. " This kind of words beginning with "you" will often make others more annoyed and make the situation worse. Therefore, parents should teach their children to express their ideas with the beginning of "I".

For example, children go home to be guests and play with toys without your child's consent, which makes them very angry. You can let your child directly say "I don't like you taking my toys without authorization", instead of telling others what's wrong immediately, and then guide the child to tell others "If you want to play, you can ask me in advance".

5. Educate children to seize opportunities

Mom and dad should be good at discovering and seizing opportunities to educate their children. For example, when a child competes, we should seize the opportunity to help him develop a correct concept of winning or losing, let him know that the result is not important, the process is the most important, and implement the principle of "friendship first, competition second".

Conflict is not terrible. Children can solve conflicts by themselves as long as they learn the correct solutions. Therefore, parents should cultivate their children's ability to solve contradictions from an early age.

Qingrui Education tells you that playing games can better help educate children's emotional intelligence and values.

At present, the sports ark curriculum model in characteristic kindergartens can effectively help children to improve their physical fitness through teamwork in games with friends, and promote their comprehensive and healthy physical and mental development in physical exercises such as courage, physique, concentration, learning ability, happiness, emotional intelligence development, mood and health.

"Sports Ark" is a two-year research result of a doctor of education, the president of Qingrui Preschool Education Innovation Research Institute, the chairman of Qingrui Preschool Education Expert Committee, a famous kindergarten education management expert, an authoritative expert on children's physical training in China, Professor Lu Kejian, president of China Children's Physical Fitness Research Association, and the most innovative kindergarten sports rookie teacher.

The "Sports Ark" children's physical exercise course in characteristic kindergartens consists of four aspects: teacher training, morning exercises, physical education, physical exercise, sports equipment, and research on key topics in the 13th Five-Year Plan. Spreading scientific ideas and methods of early childhood education is a course to exercise children's body and mind.

The equipment of "Sports Ark Course" can not only develop children's basic movements such as walking, running, jumping, climbing, drilling, throwing and balancing, but also improve their physical qualities such as strength, speed, coordination, agility, flexibility and balance, and also cultivate their excellent qualities such as courage, firmness and discipline. The construction method is simple, and only three actions are needed: inserting, pulling and twisting. It can be built alone or together with teachers and children. Fixed function can be established before the activity, and variable function can be established during the activity. There are also videos and teaching materials to guide game teaching, which are easy to understand, learnable and innovative.

This is the sports ark, which can improve children's all-round development through children's physical exercise courses.

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