Wang Zengqi wrote in his "Slow Cooking Life": "I think the best days are getting up in the morning and waiting for flowers, taking a nap in the sun, walking in the drizzle and reading under the night light. In this shallow time, I am full of fireworks and poetry. Flowers bloom and fall outside the window, and clouds come and go, which is naturally endless. "
Time is in a hurry, people are in a hurry, and I have been in a hurry in the past two years.
Give birth to a baby, take care of the baby, find the best way to communicate with the child, calm the anxiety of age and body, find a sideline and grow up. ......
Each one is enough to keep me busy and more and more anxious.
In the last two days of 202 1, looking forward to 2022, what comes to mind is:
Work hard slowly and get better slowly.
Because, fast is slow and slow is fast.
2002 summary
Xu Yuanchong said: "Life is not how many days you live, but how many days you remember, so that every day you live is worth remembering."
The habit of recording began at 202 1. Although rough, and the organization and aesthetics are still groping, but at least there is progress.
Being satisfied with small progress is also a kind of happiness.
2 1 year resumption mainly shows the growth and gains of this year from five dimensions: career, personal growth, family life, social relations and physical health. Of course, there are also shortcomings and regrets.
I. Work and occupation
Because children are still young and can't live without people, I always feel that I don't have enough time to do what I want to do. It was not until August this year that she was able to play by herself that she began to slowly let go of her hands and feet and do some work within her power.
After all, if it is not linked to this society, it will soon be eliminated.
1, head teacher of VIP2 group of Hongdan Writing and Growth College. In fact, I have been a class teacher before, but the responsibilities of the class teacher are broader, especially the ability to coordinate, communicate and manage time. It will take more energy. But fortunately, I persisted. Continue to work hard in the coming year.
2. Responsible for the zero-based review teacher of Hongdan Writing Growth College. I have participated in almost every review since I passed the assessment of the review teacher. Review not only enhances the help to the article structure, writing style and the use of materials in writing, but also gives students a special sense of accomplishment when they see their submitted opinions and suggestions. Adults have achieved success, which is also a valuable experience learned in 2 1 year.
3. Five first drafts. The real start of writing should start in September this year, and it was basically the same before. But after the first time, it will get smoother and smoother. What I want to say here is that when there is a rejection, of course I will feel very uncomfortable, but I am also reminding myself that there is still room for hard work.
4. Preside over the closing ceremony of the eighth operation. This time, the host came in a hurry, so the effect of the host was not particularly ideal. But being able to see where your shortcomings are, such as copywriting, paying attention to interaction in hosting and controlling hosting time, all of which need special strengthening.
5. Become a reader. Reading comprehension specializes in training the ability to summarize and summarize words and the use of materials, so it is still relatively blunt when reading for the first time, and it is obviously much better when reading for the second time.
Second, personal growth.
1, read 18.
0 1: I wrote a book review-six books: Writing History of Stanford University, Writing Tools, Boundaries of Growth, Passing Every Exam, Doing Everything Well, and The Art of Communication.
02: Listen to the manuscript-two books: the library at the end of the world and Qian Qian the dog.
03: Other -9 books: Rich Dad and Poor Dad, List Revolution, Lifelong Learning, Intensive Reading and Writing, Writing My Heart, Life is up to me, Effective Manager, Biography of Su Dongpo and The Great Gatsby.
2. Listening to books 1 1 (studying in Fan Deng)
0 1: growth category -5 books: lifelong learning, lifelong growth, positive discipline, parents' language, and seven habits of highly effective people.
02: Biography -4 books: Zhang Ailing, Zeng Guofan, Su Dongpo and Da Vinci.
03: Nourishing -2 Books: Living a life full of flowers and cheers, and a journey of 7 happy relationships.
The biggest feeling of reading this year is that after reading a book, if there is no corresponding output, such as book review, reading notes, mind mapping, listening to the manuscript, opening the manuscript, etc. Then this book is equivalent to reading in vain, because you don't have your own thinking at all, you can't summarize and sort out the book, and you will soon be forgotten. Therefore, if there is reading, there must be output.
3. Start operating the official WeChat account.
0 1: 202 1 starting in April.
02: 62 articles were updated.
03: Harvest 1 16 vermicelli.
I just found out that there are so many official WeChat accounts, and behind those beautifully typeset official WeChat accounts, it is the collective efforts of many operators.
Next year's goal is to reach 5000 fans and get corresponding traffic display and advertising space.
Get up early in 4.363 days. The time to get up every day is between 6: 00 and 6: 30 in the morning. Although it is only one hour or half an hour earlier than usual, in a year, 1 hour *363 days =363 hours, which can do a lot of things.
5.363 days insist on day shift. I write something every day, and there is no special rule on the number of words. I can write wherever I want, including the official WeChat account. Next year, I may focus on how to realize cash, because realizing cash is also a reaction to my ability, and I may need money especially, hahaha ~
Third, family life.
1. Filial piety: I often call or video my parents, grandparents and grandparents. The most common thing to talk to family members is to tell them to take care of themselves, to be at ease when something goes wrong, and to go home often when you have time ~ every time you chat with ta, it's always very relaxing. ......
2, 2 1 Hunan New Year. Because of YQ, my first new year after marriage was spent at my parents' house. The most unforgettable thing is that on the second day of New Year's Day, my husband was drunk and didn't wake up until the evening, which scared me a lot. Dad also cut his handle because of drunkenness and fell asleep in the chair in the afternoon. When he woke up, he said that his hand hurt a little. It turned out that there was a thorn embedded in the meat. I helped him pick out the thorn, held his hand and found that his hands were rough, his hair was much whiter, and he often coughed when smoking. At that moment, I felt distressed. Parents are getting old. All we can do is try our best to make them worry less.
3. Go back to Anhui for the summer vacation. I was tired of my grandparents all summer. Grandpa is busy decorating the house, and grandma with three grandchildren is like herding cattle every day, and she can't live without people all the time. Because it was too noisy, I went downstairs to say hello to my neighbor's house. What I miss most are the dishes cooked by my parents, Chinese cabbage vermicelli, minced eggplant, fish-flavored tofu, braised pork ... even if I watch how to cook, I still can't burn the same taste. This, perhaps, is the smell of home. The only thing I can show off is that I taught my parents a new way to cook shrimp: braised shrimp.
Grandpa's 90th birthday. I still remember when I was a child, my grandfather was busy with farm work, wearing a vest and smoking a pipe. On summer nights, he and our three brothers and sisters sat on the floor and told us stories about his childhood, always telling us to study hard. He is always kind and seldom hits us. In a blink of an eye, I am 90 years old, and now I am shaking when I walk, but every time I see us go back, my face is full of happy smiles. May grandpa live a long and healthy life.
5. Places to take children to play: Qianlong Lake, lei feng memorial, No.1 Primary School Attached to Normal University, Baxizhou, Aerospace Exhibition, Taohualing and Jianshan Lake. I planned to take my children to at least one or two places every month, but it was always delayed by such things. But fortunately, he has been with me, especially when I was sick a few days ago, and I hardly took a nap after reading books. He got into the quilt and slept for more than two hours. It was really angry and funny. Children have such magic, sometimes they have headaches and sometimes they are fun.
6. I bought a bookshelf, led my children to read, and developed the habit of reading. Since I bought the bookshelf, I feel that the books at home are much more pleasing to the eye. The main reason is that children have a strong sense of sorting out and will not throw books everywhere. Especially in winter, the family sits around the fire, each holding a book to read, so quiet that even the sound of falling needles can be heard, and occasionally they are lazy to watch them read carefully. This feeling is really too comfortable for their wife.
202 1, a safe and happy family is the greatest happiness.
[If! Support list] Fourth, [endif] social relations
[If! SupportLists] 1, [endif] Learning writing: Hong Dan, Saixixi, Yiyi, Fu Shu, Uncle, Tang Xiaoxiao, Xia Jiujiu, Xiaoyuer, Su Le.
2. Learn from the aesthetics of role models: Jingjing, Becky Li and Jing Li.
3. Self-discipline of learning from role models: pretty girls and Alina Zhang.
4. Operation of learning model: March, summer, Kiki, Su Li, Yuyuan, Du Zong.
5, often meet with good friends.
In fact, the label on each of them is not unique, because Excellence is not only the performance of ability, but the superposition of various qualities.
They say that if you don't study, you will always feel the greatest. When you really study, you realize that you are nothing, because there are too many great people.
There is no closer way to Excellence than to keep growing up.
[If! Support list] 5. [endif] in good health
1, took 7 yoga classes.
2, 1000 times skipping 7 times.
3. Insist on sleeping before 1 1: 30.
4. Get up early and drink a cup of warm water.
5. take vitamin B.
6. Eat calcium tablets.
7. Sleep without makeup.
I caught a cold twice.
9. soak your feet.
In fact, they are all very simple things, but it takes a lot of perseverance and execution to persist. Of course, if you persist, the rewards your body gives you are quite amazing.
Here is a method to treat children's colds, which is especially useful for my children.
Walk in three steps.
Rice porridge+shredded ginger porridge, the thinner the porridge, the better.
Folium Artemisiae Argyi boiled water and soaked her feet until she sweated slightly.
Synchronous cold medicine
This year, both children caught cold twice. The first time lasted almost a week, and the second time they used the above method and recovered in almost three days, so I feel that this method is quite useful.
Of course, each child's physique is different, and his resistance is different, which may not be applicable to all children.
It is said that "peace and health are blessings", especially in the past two years, I deeply feel that it takes a lot of efforts to survive.
Yes, since we are alive, we should live well and live up to every day, whether it is sunny, rainy or snowy.
About the news
Every new year, we will make many wishes or plans, but the people who can really carry them out are those who have gained the most in this year and are gradually becoming excellent.
This year, I want to start the new year in a different way.
Will seriously think about the "I" problem.
Who am I?
What kind of person do I want to be?
How do I want to live my life?
What are my strengths?
What value can I offer to others?
How long can my dream last?
Want to understand these six questions, and then start making plans and goals for 2022.
In 20021year, I may be particularly flustered and work hard, but there is still a big gap from my ideal self.
But so what?
If everyone can achieve what they want so easily, who will settle down to take root, try and wait?
Behind all the brilliant achievements, there are unknown contributions
As Haruki Murakami said: In short, the years are long, but it is worth waiting for.
In 2022, continue to learn, continue to grow, and live a sparkling self.