Speaking loudly in public is the knowledge of civilized behavior at home and abroad. In public, New Zealanders speak very quietly, even when talking to friends. Many people in China are used to high-decibel jokes, which may be really hard to change for a while. In New Zealand, China people can often be seen talking loudly or making phone calls in Chinese in restaurants or streets.
Second, don't keep taking pictures:
After the popularity of smart phones, China people have fallen in love with photographers, taking photos everywhere, before meals, taking selfies while walking, taking photos, and even going to shopping malls, libraries and parks. It is true that taking photos and sharing friends' circle is harmless, but it should be noted that strangers, especially children, should not take photos at will in New Zealand. For New Zealanders who are extremely protective of privacy, taking photos is an invasion of others' privacy. It is impolite to stare at others all the time. Taking pictures of others, especially Maori, must be approved in advance.
Third, the messy yard:
New Zealanders pay great attention to their own yards, and gardening is also quite developed. But for most people in China, it is simply too much trouble to spend time taking care of their own yard, and they are too lazy to take care of it because of the overgrown weeds. In New Zealand, keeping the house clean and tidy is also a basic etiquette. New Zealanders are very disgusted with the dirty environment, and even lose their temper when they see someone doing this.
4. Hanging underwear in the backyard? Don't!
New Zealand has a pleasant climate. Many people in China are used to drying clothes outdoors, and often take advantage of the fine weather to dry clothes in their own yards and balconies. However, unlike China people's habits, westerners regard underwear as privacy, and find it unsightly to dry it outdoors in such a big way. Therefore, when New Zealand immigrants hang their underwear, it is better to find a slightly hidden place.
Five, jump the queue can't:
In the past, China people's awareness of queuing rules was very weak, but it has improved a lot in recent years. New Zealand attaches great importance to the principle of first come, first served, so occupying seats and parking spaces is very impolite. For example, everyone is waiting in line at the gate of the parking lot for a parking space, but you let your co-pilot friend rush out of the car door to occupy the parking space, which will make other drivers very unhappy; Also, when you are in a hurry to go to the toilet, it is impolite to see the old man walking slowly in front of you, so you jumped sideways in front of the old man and entered the toilet.
Six, don't touch the stranger's body:
In China, people are used to physical contact, which makes people feel close. For example, they like to pat their shoulders and touch their children's little faces. However, westerners hate physical contact with strangers. If you don't know each other well enough, whether you are gay, straight or a child, don't get started easily, otherwise it will make people feel super uncomfortable.
Seven. Other cultural differences between China and New Zealand.
If you are going to stay in New Zealand for a while, there are some small details you need to know about the life of New Zealanders, such as:
1, New Zealanders usually live a relaxed and casual life and wear casual clothes on most occasions, including going to cafes or shopping.
2. New Zealanders generally speak frankly.
3. New Zealanders have a weak sense of time in social activities and are often late for appointments.
4. Meet with experts and scholars and make an appointment in advance (such as seeing a doctor or teacher).
5. New Zealanders are very sensitive to personal privacy and generally don't talk to them about salary, property, age and other issues.
6. New Zealanders are disgusted with personal comments such as "You are fat", "You are too thin" or "His hair is gray".
Generally speaking, New Zealanders, especially adults, like to hear others say "thank you" and "thank you" after receiving goods and services or getting help.
8. Many New Zealanders like to keep pets, usually cats or dogs.
9. New Zealanders love sports, especially football. Participating in sports is a good way to make friends.
10, tipping is not required in New Zealand, and some cafes have consumption boxes.
1 1. Generally, New Zealanders don't pay for shopping, but the prices of big commodities such as cars, bathrooms, household appliances and even bicycles fluctuate to a certain extent. If you pay cash, you can ask for a discount and you can bargain in the free market.
12, New Zealanders generally pay by electronic means, and rarely carry a lot of cash with them.