Sense of belonging: As a social person, children's basic need is a sense of belonging, and they feel that they can integrate into a family (collective) and find their own special position in it. Children begin to look for answers from birth: who am I in this family, how to become a member of the group, and how to find my place? Children who have a sense of belonging in a group will feel safe accordingly.

Significance: Feel the value and importance of yourself in this group and how to contribute.

Children themselves have no clear consciousness of the behavioral goals they want to achieve, that is, the subconscious.