Once I saw a news, I felt blocked.

He Mou, a Wenzhou woman far away from Tianjin, was beaten violently when she got married in April, and was poured with gasoline on her deathbed, which caused a terrible tragedy.

What puzzled his family was that it was not until before the trial that they learned that the murderer was the husband of an employee in the man's shop. From the crime to the trial, the man never mentioned this relationship for 9 months.

This case is even more confusing at the moment. As the families of the women who died, they were heartbroken and questioned and dissatisfied with the man's attitude.

Judging from the man's concealment, he doesn't even have respect and sincerity. How can he talk about the pain of losing his beloved wife?

Originally a daughter as beautiful as flowers and pure as jade, with a longing for a better life, she ran away alone to the man she loved deeply. Who would have thought that a long marriage would become what you would do?

The woman's family must especially regret it. If she had been prevented from going that far, if she had been taught how to recognize men, perhaps her young life would not have ended so tragically.

The woman in the grave can no longer hear her parents crying and calling. As for the love and man she can't give up most, it's just an illusion.

It is said that women are emotional and love is her robbery. When you meet someone you like, you will quickly sink and lose your mind.

Even if the other person doesn't love her so much, she will give foolishly and only hope to be with him. Even if two people don't know each other, they can get married smartly. Even if it was love rat, friends and relatives around her gave good advice, but she wouldn't listen to a word.

She thinks that as long as there is love, nothing is a problem.

Love, how great.

Often the more relatives stop her, the more determined she is to be with each other. When she broke through the so-called secular fetters and fell in love, she couldn't see the heavy and sad eyes behind her.

02

Should women bravely seek true love and challenge secular prejudice?

Of course, the pursuit of love is everyone's nature and freedom, but there is a premise. You should know that love is not only romantic, but also inseparable from realistic factors.

More importantly, is the person you love really worth your life and giving up everything?

You can't just see his handsome appearance and immerse yourself in his sweet words. It is more important to consider whether his three views fit with you and whether his temperament is the same.

No matter how attractive he is, the only thing you can do in the face of bad character is to stay away from him. Otherwise, as the closest person with no secrets, you will be the first person to be calculated and hurt.

In the past two years, there have been several cases of killing his wife to defraud insurance or killing his wife without obvious purpose, which can kill the closest person in life, showing that his heart is vicious and not worth it.

These cases have one thing in common. Men have a bad nature, either they don't want to make progress, or they are lazy, or they are eccentric and used to violence. It stands to reason that such people and girls should stay away, but there are always women who not only don't know scum, but also never abandon and don't care, or even post them upside down.

They can do this, it must be love, confused love.

However, love rat doesn't know how to be moved, and he won't be grateful. They will only push their luck and be shamelessly squeezed. Even when they were unprepared and wholeheartedly accompanied him to suffer hardships, they suddenly waved a butcher's knife because of their dark psychology or increasingly greedy desire.

For example, in the case of Thailand's pregnant wife falling off a cliff, the parties and men met in a matchmaking agency. As an adult woman, she should have the minimum awareness of prevention and the ability to distinguish which category a person belongs to.

It stands to reason that we don't know the root of the matter and don't know each other well enough, so we should observe more and be cautious about lifelong events.

Besides, the client knows that the other party has been in prison, and in this case, she doesn't care. It's not that all those who have been in prison are bad people, but since we know that he has a criminal record, shouldn't we be more cautious?

I don't know if the man's mouth is fierce and he will fool, or if the parties are too simple and marry each other soon. The family members of the parties objected, but the objection was invalid.

Later, the parties found that the man owed gambling debts, so he helped him pay off his debts. From this perspective, it is more dangerous.

First, the man concealed the debt before, which is not trustworthy. Second, he likes gambling, and everyone knows what gambling means. If he loses, he can lose everything, and if he has no choice, he can go astray.

Also, why is that man with her? The parties have good economic conditions, no matter who chased them first, at least their motives are not pure.

But a woman, hot-headed, turned a deaf ear to the advice of her relatives, did not know that it was not a lover but a wolf in sheep's clothing that fascinated her.

Even if she found that the man had various physical problems, she did not stop in time, but continued to dance with the wolf until she was wolfed down.

03

My neighbor, Sister Zhang, threw herself into love with a moth's attitude.

Just love for her, not necessarily for that man.

Jason is plain, and his family is not bad. The person she likes is her high school classmate Glen who has liked for many years.

She also knows that Rango has made one girlfriend after another, but as long as Rango says one more word to her, she will still be so happy that she dreams of being with him.

Jason had no chance to fall in love with Langer. After all, Langer is handsome and has a high eye. But when he was twenty years old, girl friends left him one by one, and Jason's chance came.

Langer is very poor, and even a more realistic beauty will not follow him for long.

When Jason and Glen talked about love, Jason's mother flew into a rage. She doesn't have a good impression of this boy. She is arrogant and grumpy, and comes from a very bad family. Sister Zhang is not his next meal.

Who wants her daughter to suffer with a man who doesn't love her?

But parents' opposition is useless.

Zhang Jie was dead set on following Rango, who had nothing, and she chose to get married.

After marriage, they started a business and made money slowly. At this price, Jason lost sleep and rapidly aged.

No matter how busy he is, Langer still has time to gossip with other women, and with the accumulation of wealth, he becomes more and more blatant, even Jason's parents have heard the gossip.

Jason was angry, too. I had a fight with him. I had a fight. Rango also threw things and even hit people. On one occasion, she almost kicked Jason in the ribs.

For the sake of the children and the original choice, Jason was afraid to tell his family.

However, Rango is becoming more and more extravagant, and even in Jason's parents' place, it's always on top.

After years of marriage, he seldom accompanied Jason back to her family. Even when he met his parents-in-law, he never called her parents. He only called her uncle and aunt, which was completely an outsider's tone, even without the courtesy of outsiders.

Parents are not stupid. He can do this to the two old people because his daughter is inferior in his heart. They are angry, but they are more worried about her.

Later, Rango insisted on divorce for a beautiful young woman.

Jason is really disheartened. At this time, her parents stood beside her and supported her to divorce immediately. A rare love rat like this is even better. Only after leaving him did Zhang Canjie start again and stand up.

It's ridiculous and pitiful that I just witnessed the disillusionment of a so-called love in recent ten years.

04

In this world, there are always women who give up everything for love.

Only in love, people are always easily deceived and can't see the real situation clearly.

Falling in love with someone, she thinks that person will automatically beautify and filter out all the bad things. In her eyes, he is the perfect hero in TV series. No matter how many obstacles the reality has, no matter how many bumps she will encounter, she still bravely ran to him.

As a result, some women ignored the tears of their families and married far away; There are women who don't listen to their relatives and friends to dissuade them, and are with love rat, whose conduct is corrupt; There are women who don't like each other, but post desperately. ...

Everyone has shortcomings and faults, but there are some principled problems. You can get a satisfactory result without your tolerance and kindness. You will make him change his mind, repent and turn over a new leaf.

If he belongs to love rat, your simplicity and kindness only provide convenience and shortcut for him to hurt you and use you.

When you are in hot water, who else will sympathize with you except your family? When you encounter misfortune, they will be even worse, and they only hate that they can't protect you.

Girls, when you want to make a choice and decision, don't forget to discuss with your parents and listen to their opinions.

Sometimes, parents care more about your happiness than you do. Don't think they are verbose, and don't think their ideas are out of date. Their eyes on people and their experiences in most of their lives can be used as a good reference.

Don't believe it, except your family, who can always be your backing and rely on it forever?