Recently, a news that a male teacher teaching in a mountain village in Hechi, Guangxi distributed sanitary napkins to female students caused great controversy in society and became a hot search. It is understood that this male teacher buys sanitary napkins and sends them to female students every week, some of which are bought and some are donated.

Combined with the recent hot search for bulk sanitary napkins, girls living in big cities may be dismissive. For rural girls, on the one hand, they are shy because of lack of physiological knowledge, on the other hand, they are too expensive to use.

As the post-80s generation, our generation is seriously short of knowledge about physical health, and what little knowledge we have is secretly learned from a small pornographic book and a small video studio, and basically all of them are self-taught.

At the end of 1990s, when I was in junior high school, "adolescent physiological knowledge" began to appear in biology textbooks. I remember that in this class, the biology teacher didn't tell us about the human body structure or draw "key points", but let us learn by ourselves. The class was quiet at that time. The boys put the books under the desks and read them secretly. I quietly and quickly glanced at the physiological images in the book, and my face was as hot as a fever.

As a developing child, in fact, he is eager to know some physiological knowledge, but the teacher basically ignored the "adolescent physiological knowledge" or briefly talked about it. I remember once, a girl in my class suddenly became popular on the board. At that time, we didn't know what was going on and thought she was injured. A naughty male student in the class shouted "Look, someone is hurt", which embarrassed the female students. Later, a female teacher came and didn't know what happened. She shut all the boys out of the door, then surrounded the girls with an old dress and went to the teacher's office. No one came out later to explain what happened to us.

From then on, the female classmate saw all the male classmates walking around on purpose. At that time, people's thoughts were very simple, and men and women were not close. If a male classmate and a female classmate whisper together, if they are seen, they will soon make trouble. Limited book knowledge did not prevent us from exploring physiological knowledge during development. Our school has an unwritten rule that naughty or bad students sit in the last two rows. Although they are not very interested in learning, they are "researching" on gender knowledge. They can get some yellow books from time to time, and I also get a lot of physiological knowledge from them. After turning off the lights at night, these naughty classmates will share their ideas with other students.

Once, during the evening self-study, our class teacher came to check the bed and heard someone talking in the dormitory. The head teacher came in quietly. When we found something was wrong, we quickly covered our heads with quilts and pretended to sleep. Maybe we weren't careful. A classmate's little yellow book slipped under the bed, and suddenly the whole dormitory was silent. The head teacher didn't scold us after answering it. He just said that you are still young, and now you should study hard to marry a wife.

Many years later, at the reunion, most of us became parents. Although our head teacher's temples are gray, surrounded by classmates, he is still radiant. We didn't ask him how this book was preserved, but we thanked him from the bottom of our hearts. Not to "expose" us when we were young, but to help us keep this secret.

I always think that the beauty of youth grows with the development of "hormones". Although the whole adolescence is a little restless, it makes us have more expectations for life.

After going to college, because there is no pressure of college entrance examination, our time is more abundant and free. Zeng Mou has a greasy face. He is an upright and melancholy poet. Because I have more beards than others, I took the position of "president" of the poetry club. In fact, I refused at first, but later, considering that there were more young women in the poetry club, I was not modest.

Although our physiological knowledge is still relatively poor, we are exposed to more books and movies. It is said that "The Orphan of Jin Ping Mei" is in our school library, but I have searched all over the library and found it, which is very regrettable.

At the beginning of 2000, when we were in college, we were still relatively simple, just holding hands in love. Of course, maybe many of our classmates just entered the city from the countryside at that time, and their minds have not been liberated and they can't let go.

At that time, college life was not as colorful as it is now, but it was not dead either. Every generation had its own way of entertainment. At that time, there was a street next to the school called "Fallen Street" (now called Commercial Civilization Street), which was famous at home and abroad because of a full-page headline report by China Youth Daily reporter Luo Xuhui.

This street is littered with restaurants, video shops, karaoke bars, dance halls, billiards rooms, bookstores, internet cafes and video halls, among which video halls are the cheapest and best forms of entertainment in our generation of universities. 10 yuan six tickets, inferior videos, chaotic crowds and smelly feet, but the video hall is always crowded. After midnight, the video hall will secretly show some small porn, and there are 2000 words here.

A roommate hid a lot of films, and once secretly showed them in the dormitory on weekends, which attracted several roommates next door to watch them in our dormitory. I was reading a book at that time, which made me fidgety, and then I went to the back hill for more than an hour before I calmed down.

If you don't watch movies when you go to college, we must think that you went to a "fake college". A survey on the behavior of college students watching porn shows that 80% have seen porn and 20% haven't, because there are no resources.

Due to the lack of formal and systematic sex education in campus classrooms, pornographic websites and movies have become important "positions" for students to acquire sexual knowledge, especially in university campuses, which is an open secret.

Nature is a normal physiological phenomenon of human beings, because it is always secretive and there is no formal and systematic education. Nowadays, children are seriously lacking in physiological knowledge and don't know how to protect themselves. At present, especially in rural areas, cases of underage women being sexually assaulted occur from time to time, which cannot but arouse our attention-sex education should start with dolls.

According to China's traditional concept, sex doesn't need to be taught, and children will naturally understand it when they grow up. In fact, sex is the knowledge that people must learn in their life growth. Just like Chinese and math, it needs constant learning.

I don't think it's necessary to be shy or talk about the problem of male teachers teaching in a mountain village in Hechi, Guangxi, distributing sanitary napkins to female students, but the premise is that the school should do a good job in popularizing the health knowledge of students, especially these female students.

With the development of science and technology, there are more and more ways for children to accept sexual health knowledge, but many teenagers are influenced by the indistinguishable sexual information on the Internet and some adult "sex role models" and have fantasies, desires and even actions about sexual behavior in advance. In fact, only when teachers and parents explain sex generously and thoroughly will students' curiosity be eliminated and they will not think the worst.