Social butterfly VS nerd, Bing Xin and Wu Wenzao: Wrong, * * * Xu Yisheng.

Seeing the love story between Bing Xin and Mr. Wu Wenzao, I was moved to tears.

I just feel warm and bright when I close my eyes and meditate, because my husband and I have the best imitation in our two-person world.

1925 65438+February 12, Bing Xin didn't intend to read in the lonely dormitory, so she put on her coat and planned to go to the crowded library.

Unexpectedly, in the snow outside the building, I saw "acacia trees" all over the ground.

Later, Bing Xin failed to read in the library, but wrote a poem called Acacia:

Avoid lovesickness,

Put Joel on the phone.

Leave this quiet room.

The moon caught a glimpse of each other on the path,

Dead branches-

In the snow.

It is full of lovesickness.

A few lines, but full of affection. This is Bing Xin, a century old man who is famous for his maternal love and childlike innocence. Love poems are numbered.

However, no one has read this poem except Mrs. L, Bing Xin's mentor at that time. Of course, it also includes the hero of this poem-Wu Wenzao.

At this time, two young people in their prime have just become lovers. What they don't know is:

First you, then you, then the rest of your life.

Two people hand in hand, * * * for more than half a century, although not vigorous, but plain and sweet to the heart.

Bing Xin once said:

"Marriage is not the grave of love, but the beginning of more intimate love between soul and body."

1June, 929, Bing Xin and Wu Wenzao got married in yenching university. The wedding is very simple, and it always costs less than 34 yuan.

After marriage, Bing Xin wrote while teaching, and Wu Wenzao lived a "bookworm" life contentedly.

They joined the "tour group along Pingsui" and enjoyed the great rivers and mountains of the motherland. They talked about literature and dreams.

They visited Berlin, Germany, Moscow, Soviet Union and Paris, France. They keep writing and walking, and each city has different gains.

Bing Xin wrote in the article:

"Love should not only pay attention to' talent' and' appearance' emotionally, but also pay attention to' like-minded' of both sides rationally, and then' congenial'."

Bing Xin and Wu Wenzao are "congenial" partners.

They not only live in harmony with each other, but also appreciate each other academically.

I love you not only because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.

Wu Wenzao in front of Bing Xin has the purest scholar spirit, while Bing Xin has the purest impudence and cuteness in front of Wu Wenzao.

Perhaps this is the beauty of marriage. There are not so many romantic things in life, some are trivial daily necessities, but mutual tolerance can make daily necessities fragrant and produce sugar from daily necessities.

Bing Xin embraces Wu Wenzao's stupidity, and Wu Wenzao embraces Bing Xin's scampiness, and the taste of life follows.

They walked through the war hand in hand, propped up the disease, studied together, reformed together, never gave up, and endured hardships.

This is the most beautiful appearance of love.

1983, Bing Xin and Wu Wenzao moved into a new house, and in the Kochi Building of the Institute for Nationalities, they ushered in a short and quiet old age.

"We are across the table all day. He wrote about him, I wrote about me, and acquaintances and friends came to sit among us, talking and laughing, and enjoying the fun of' growing old together' on earth. "

Of course, the narrow Bing Xin has another kind of ridicule:

"He reads when I read, and he writes when I write. We always interfere with each other. I can't go out now, I just want him to go out for a meeting or something, so that I can have a time to be alone ... "

Although it is a "dislike" word, it shows coquetry intimacy.

This "mutual interference" life is really cute.

Bing Xin said: "If life is boring, there will be an afterlife. If life is interesting, this life has been satisfied. "

A person's life, two people, both "like-minded" and "congenial", must have been satisfied.

1985 On September 24th, Wu Wenzao passed away at the age of 84.

1February 28th, 999, Bing Xin passed away at the age of 99.

Their ashes were buried together, and the casket read: "Yinwenzao, Wujiang, Changle, Xie Wanying".

Sleeping together, dying in the same cave, always together.

Very dull, some are just the happiness of ordinary people, but they are still sweet to the heart.

"Life and death are generous, Zi Cheng said. Hold your hand and grow old with your son. "

This is the most touching love story.