Forget what should be forgotten, remember what should be remembered, accept what should be accepted, and then change what can be changed

You can't forget what is bad, but it may be more painful to remember what is happy. For everyone, you should choose to forget and accept, which can bring you endless happiness. Then you can remember it selectively, and you must try your best to forget the only things that are painful to you. What you can't forget and accept, and then use it as a driving force for change, naturally rooted in your heart, without reluctance or guilt.

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Be kind to each other when you are alone, and be kind to yourself when you are alone.

If you can't do this all the time, try to do it from now on. If you have been kind to each other, but it is inevitable that you will fall in love in the end, then be kind to yourself. When there is another person who can hold your hand and grow old with your son, you can be kind to others and yourself at the same time.

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Being together is fate, not being together is fate.

This is not an affair, nor is it a pure Q. I can only say that this is the best way to comfort myself from being lovelorn. No matter love or hate, they all said they didn't love each other at that moment, cut it off and disappeared without a trace.

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If you are lovelorn, don't get involved again.

Women sometimes covet men's body temperature and protection, and men sometimes miss women's gentleness, but if you can't adapt to a person, you will only make yourself worse and the other person worse. If you are lovelorn, don't be friends or physical comforters. If you want to do it, be the simplest or most familiar stranger.

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Love, pain, will not be bad.

Had the bitterness of lovelorn, may make the following love more rational waiting and mature cultivation and watering, had the pain of lovelorn, may really cherish love from the bottom of my heart. Only when people have experienced the pain and suffering of real lovelorn will they begin to mature. The awakening of love is the awakening of self and the awakening of the world. For the weak, so that the real lovelorn experience is enough to destroy a world; For the strong, you will get a world. Therefore, it is better to regard every lovelorn event as a way to pray for immortality.

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What is lovelorn? Let's start over.

Don't believe that lovelorn love will always come to you. Unless you meet the same person every time and don't want to change those bad things after lovelorn love, you won't be the only one who is unlucky. Lovelorn is nothing, the key is lovelorn, can you cheer up and start over? So, stop asking why. There is no reason to love, and there is no reason not to love. There is no specific reason to explain love and not love. You just have to keep moving forward and keep pursuing.