There are countless moments in life that last for a long time, and suddenly I want to give up.

In front of others, I always feel that I am not good enough and feel inferior.

When you do anything, you can't always be as crisp and neat as others.

At the moment I decided to lose weight, I imagined that losing weight was really beautiful, but I was still the same after one year.

One morning, I lost everything I had yesterday. I'm still me, but every day is a new me.

A friend told me the other day: "Many times, I find myself living in the shadow of others. No matter how hard I try, I always feel that this matter is not as good as the girl I admire. " All eyes of approval will be like her, and I am more like using my own clumsiness to reflect her natural and graceful. "

We took part in the same speech contest. I remember that day when she spoke on the stage, she was very fluent. At the moment when she finished her speech, there was deafening applause from the audience. Her next one is me. Naturally, I'm nervous. When I stood on the stage, all the spotlights pointed at me.

At that moment, I seemed to see the light on my body, and I told myself silently in my heart. Come on, you are the best, and you will surely finish this speech contest well. When I know the time of the speech contest, I practice hard every day.

Practice in front of the mirror, let mom and dad be the audience, and point out my shortcomings. When I really stood on the stage, I was much more relaxed than I thought, and I spoke English fluently. At that moment, I was very confident. There was really little applause when I stepped down.

It's like the shell of my body is wrapped in light that attracts others' attention, and I can only curl up inside my body and secretly look at the outside of the light. It's really beautiful.

As San Mao wrote in The Rainy Season Never Comes: "Sometimes, I wish I could have a pair of wise eyes to see through me and understand everything about me, including all the beauty and desolation. Those eyes can penetrate my most essential soul and go straight to my inner self. Her words can solve all my puzzles or have a sharp evaluation of what I have done. ? "

Yes, I really hope that one day, I can be myself and no longer live in anyone's shadow. I hope you can know me and get to know me, because you want to make friends with me.

When I was watching Weibo, I saw Xu zhēng talking about his sophomore experience in a variety show. He vaguely found that his hair was falling badly, and he was afraid, so he ran home and asked his father if it was because of family inheritance.

Because I am afraid that I will go bald prematurely, I have to find a way to save it. Putting ginger juice on your head once became a joke of the whole school. However, these measures still failed to save their baldness trend. Wear a hat when walking in the street.

Finally, one day I didn't want to go on like this, so I went to the barber shop to shave my hair. At first, the barber didn't understand, but when Xu zhēng took off his hat, the barber started to do it without saying anything.

"All the things that hinder your happiness, in fact, you don't have to worry so much. Either choose to accept or choose a free and easy attitude. "

When Xu zhēng chose to get rid of this trouble, he didn't lose anything. He is still our favorite actor and a good director in the hearts of the public. Only by losing something can we go further.

Just like many times, our peers. As early as in the school's entrepreneurial projects, they have won the favor of the investors' bosses because of the outstanding performance of a certain product, and the future road will be full of more possibilities. And these possibilities are things that we can't experience for the time being.

We have been watching. What are the chances of these things happening to us? So when you really feel that the sense of crisis is getting worse, even if you just do a small thing, it will make you feel very happy.

You can use your restless time to learn guitar. You can use your lost time to find a book you like in the library. You can take a person who is better than you as a reference and try to approach like his direction, but don't be his shadow.

Therefore, I hope you can put aside your inferiority, your cowardice, your laziness and your procrastination and become a brand-new you.

As Liu Tong said in his book, "If you become what others like, others will like you, but you may not like yourself. When you become happy, you must like yourself, and others may like you. "

Only by putting aside what we are afraid of and unhappy can we go further.

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