Letter to my 18 year old daughter

Mom and Dad, congratulations on your coming of age. 65438+February 1 is the most unforgettable day in your life. From then on, you are no longer a child, you are an adult, and your parents are happy for you. This special day marks that you will face a brand-new world, you will live a brand-new life, and you will be unique in a harmonious society.

An 18-year-old girl has a charming dream; At the age of eighteen, my heart is bright and my future is melodious. Daughter, from the day you entered the adult army, your parents felt a little uneasy. It's really hard for you. You will have to shoulder the responsibility and mission as an adult and explore your own life and world.

Adults have adult happiness and happiness, troubles and sadness. No matter what the future holds, we firmly believe that our daughter can face it with a positive attitude and have the ability to meet all the challenges in life. Happiness and sadness are the scenery on the road of life, and the experience and growth process of life will make you move from childish to mature.

Mom and dad, thank you, daughter. Your arrival has added infinite vitality and joy to mom and dad; Your arrival has injected happiness into this family. Let us know the joy of giving and the care of true love. Thank god for giving us a sensible daughter; Thank the times for giving us warmth and happiness. Watching you grow up day by day, parents don't feel hard no matter how tired they are; Because of you, my parents' life is richer.

In retrospect, it is still vivid. When I was a child, after eating and drinking enough, busy parents put you in bed for 3 or 4 hours without making trouble or crying; From 3 to 5 years old, as long as your parents give you some toys and some picture books, you can get carried away and enjoy yourself! Even at night, after your parents have a rest, you can take care of yourself for a children's song. My parents are proud of you. Growing up, you rarely give them any burden or trouble.

Remember you in elementary school? Innocent and simple, you take the initiative to help others clean up, go home and then go back to the classroom to close the doors and windows; Injustice for children and so on. Through these little things, mom and dad saw your good behavior habits, excellent quality of helping others and the spirit of being willing to contribute to others and the collective, and dad was happy for it.

In order to cultivate more hobbies, from the fourth grade to the second grade, you volunteered to participate in calligraphy training, practice calligraphy brush and pen official script, participated in calligraphy competitions at or above the county level many times, and obtained calligraphy grade certificates; In the meantime, I also participated in painting training; From the fifth grade of primary school, I began to study electronic piano until the second grade, and passed the national electronic piano seven-level exam; From grade three to grade one, you taught yourself cross stitch and so on. Seeing that you use your spare time to find something to do and make achievements again and again, mom and dad are sincerely happy and proud of you, and the whole family is proud of you. Dad knows that her daughter sacrificed a lot of spare time, participated in various skills learning and exercise, survived the cold, survived the summer, persevered, and gained success and transcendence again and again with confidence and perseverance. The daughter's persistence brought her parents peace and comfort.

Thinking of my daughter getting up at six o'clock every weekend, carrying a heavy electronic organ on her tender shoulders, going to a small town more than 30 kilometers away to learn electronic organ, and coming home only after dark, it is not easy to be consistent in spring, summer, autumn and winter. It's not easy to think of her daughter's red and cold little hand holding a pen holder to copy official script and Liu Ti. I remember how difficult it is for my daughter's frostbitten fingers to tremble and pick up needle and thread embroidery ... whenever I think about this, my father's eyes are wet again and again, and my mother's heart hurts again and again. Dad saw your perseverance and strength, and mom felt your efforts and diligence. These excellent qualities will become the most precious wealth and the most confident resource in your life.

Daughter, no matter what difficulties you encounter in the future, you should have the confidence to challenge yourself, overcome setbacks, surpass yourself and try to prove the value and significance of your existence. Parents don't want you to realize their unfulfilled dreams and ambitions, and they don't want you to be a painter, calligrapher, musician, poet, etc. As parents think. We just hope that you will have a wider range of interests or skills in your later life. One more hobby can enrich your spare time, kill boring time and enrich yourself. I hope you will be responsible for the future, yourself and society. This is the simplest and simplest expectation of parents, and I believe our daughter can do it.

When I entered junior high school, my parents felt sweet and proud whenever I saw my daughter win certificates of various competitions and final grades again and again, and whenever I heard teachers' praise. After graduating from junior high school, you entered your dream high school-Qijiang Middle School with excellent results. Baby, you have left many wonderful memories for your parents. You are the best. Dad thanks you, and mom thanks you. The achievement can not be achieved without the training of teachers, the attention of parents and the efforts of daughters.

You must be used to entering high school, being separated from your parents, being far away from your hometown and living alone. Every time you say hello on the phone; Share things about learning with parents every time; Discuss life, ideals, life and so on with parents every time; Birthday wishes from mom and dad, as well as gifts from you to mom on Mother's Day and keepsakes from you to dad on Father's Day. All these make parents feel that you are sensible, daily growing, and let parents see your filial piety and kindness; Your love and generosity.

Daughter, you have grown up, you have grown up. But you know what? From the day you entered preschool, 15 years has included how much attention and hope the school has given you; How many teachers inculcate you; It contains the deep enthusiasm of mom and dad for you. Blood is thicker than water. Children, you should remember: the schools and teachers who have given you guidance and care; Classmates and friends who have given you help and support; Have given you warm and happy relatives and parents.

Remember, my child, what matters to a person is not how much wealth he has, but a healthy body, positive thoughts, good attitude, positive actions and sound personality. Be a wise and thoughtful girl, serious first, smart second; Speed first, reason second. Children, don't complain, because complaining is the beginning of indulgence and depravity, and also the beginning of failure and death.

Children, please remember that one should have a grateful heart, grateful to his alma mater, grateful to his teachers, grateful to his classmates who live together day and night, and grateful to his friends around him. Because gratitude is the beginning of success and prosperity. Learn to be kind to yourself. Only those who treat themselves well will treat others well and know how to treat people and things around them well. When you have it, why not cherish it? Don't leave too many regrets for yourself and others. You don't know regret and preciousness until you lose everything.

Remember, son, send roses and leave lingering fragrance in your hand; Remember, son, if you don't work hard, you will be sad; Remember, son, you can fold the flowers, don't wait until there are no flowers; Remember, son, it is easy to shake the mountain, but difficult to shake the Yue family army; Remember, my child, no one has died in life since ancient times, so take care of your heart and shine on your history; Remember, son, there is no pie in the sky, it depends on your own efforts and efforts. ...

For your study and life, parents give their daughters some advice:

1, reasonably control your study time, Zhang Chi has a saying. You should read more books, enrich your knowledge, and learn the methods and skills of dealing with people, so that you can face life and the world calmly. Attitude determines everything, mentality determines behavior, and a good beginning is half the battle. It takes time and sweat, hard work and struggle to turn pupae into butterflies and fly high. The quality of human life is not the length of life, but the width and thickness of life.

2. Be a thoughtful, independent and capable person. Think calmly, analyze and judge, summarize, observe and experience the world attentively, establish an independent personality and build a personalized life. Daughter, your life has just begun. Your life is full of hopes and hardships, and your road cannot be smooth sailing. Reality is unfair, facts are unequal, and objectivity is not respected. In this changeable era, you need to have positive thinking, tough personality and broad mind, so that you can get exercise and growth in adversity and difficulties.

3. Smile at life and be a person with healthy mind and sound personality. Happiness is a mental and emotional state. Regardless of success or failure, we should face it calmly, neither belittle ourselves, nor give up on ourselves, let alone feel sorry for ourselves. You should learn to adjust yourself, face setbacks, cheer up and never give up. No matter how hard you study, no matter how hard your life is, no matter how many setbacks you encounter, you should be full of hope for your study and life, so as not to indulge yourself. Life smiles because of you, and the world is beautiful because of you. If you cry, life will frown at you; Laugh, and the world smiles at you. Learn to laugh at life, life and the world. Remember, children, parents will always be your most loyal supporters and supporters, and we will always love you! Mom and Dad are your eternal support and harbor!

4, into the collective, out of the campus, into life. Friends are a kind of resource and a kind of wealth! Without friends, life lacks a lot of happiness. Make friends sincerely, touch friends sincerely, reciprocate, and don't expect anything in return. Remember China's Millennium motto: The grace of dripping water is rewarded with a spring. If you change your heart with your heart, you win your heart. At the same time, we need to learn to distinguish authenticity, keep our distance and grasp proper limit. Keeping a certain distance can enhance the feelings between friends. Stay close to friends who support and help you, and stay away from those who drag you into the water.

Children, please remember: learning is hard work, and seeking happiness in suffering is sweet. I believe: the edge of the sword comes from sharpening, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from bitter cold. The days of carefree, naive and romantic, childlike innocence are drifting away. Immediately cross the knife immediately, mind the world, aim high, and your future will be magnificent.

Children, you are the hope of parents and the continuation of life. Because of you, all efforts are happy. Thank you, my child, for making my parents strong and upright, and for making us work hard! Thank you, my beloved daughter!

Love your mom and dad.