1. Opportunity, create it yourself.
There is a kind of bird that can successfully fly across the Pacific Ocean, but it relies on a twig. When it flies, it holds branches in its mouth. When it is tired, it puts the branch in the water and stands on it to rest. Imagine if he brought a bird's nest and enough food, could he still fly? Is it far by plane? It can be seen that success lies not in the quality of conditions, but in the attitude towards opportunities. The weak miss opportunities under superior conditions, while the strong create opportunities without conditions. Just like a bird flying across the Pacific Ocean, it can stand on a twig, fly and achieve its own career.
2. Destiny depends on goals
What kind of goal, what kind of life. Someone has done an experiment, put a strip of SAO in a jar and cover it with a transparent lid. Sister-in-law kept jumping around in the bottle, hitting the cap. After hitting the lid several times, TiaoSao stopped jumping high enough to hit the lid. The experimenter took off the lid. Although the dance continued, it wouldn't jump out of the jar. Because tiaosao has adjusted his jumping height, and he has adapted to this situation and will not change. People are the same: what kind of goals you have, what kind of life you have. Although many people know what they should do, the limitations of their goals constrain their talents. There is also the complacency of the status quo and the lack of enterprising spirit.
Life is a cup.
After filling an empty cup with stones, a professor took out a box of pebbles and poured them into the cup. He gently shook the cup and let the pebbles roll into the gap between the stones. Then the professor took out a box of sand and poured it into the cup. He shook the cup to make the sand fill all the gaps, and finally poured it into the water until the water penetrated the sand and overflowed the edge of the cup. After that, the professor said to the students, "Now, I want you to understand this cup as life. The stones in it represent the most important things in life, such as family, partner, health, children and so on. These are all very important to us. Once we lose them, we can never make them up. Pebbles represent more important things in life, such as work, house and car. Sand represents the daily trifles in life; Trouble and melancholy by the water. If we put water and sand in the cup first, there will be no place to put stones and pebbles. "
4. Work is an attitude
After trying to solve a math problem, Dole tried to solve a second math problem. After several days of calculation, he finally solved the second math problem. The next day, Dole handed his homework to the professor. On the weekend morning, a knock at the door woke Dole up. It turned out to be a professor. As soon as the professor saw him, he shouted, "Dole, you solved it!" " Dole said, "Yes, isn't that my homework?" The professor told him that these two mathematical problems are two famous problems in mathematics, and many famous mathematicians failed to solve them. It can be seen that if we don't limit ourselves, put aside our inner fears and concentrate on meeting various challenges with a highly optimistic attitude, then everyone can achieve extraordinary results.
5. Socialization, a platform for success
A boy followed his mother to the grocery store. Seeing that he was cute, the boss opened a can of candy and asked him to get one for himself. But the boy didn't take it, so the boss personally grabbed a handful of candy and put it in the boy's pocket. When I got home, my mother asked the boy curiously, why don't I catch candy and let the boss catch it? The boy said, "Because my hands are smaller! And the boss has a bigger hand, and he must take a lot more than me! " A clever child knows his own ability, and what is more rare is that he also knows that others are better than himself. When we can't rely on our own strength, we should learn to rely on the strength of others to achieve the results we want in time. Humility is actually a kind of wisdom.
Decompress and live a happy life
A little mouse feels small and always envies others with inferiority. It saw the radiant sun and sincerely praised its greatness. The sun said, "When the dark clouds come out, you can't see me." After a while, dark clouds came out and covered the sun. The little mouse praised the greatness of the dark clouds. Dark clouds say, "You will know who is the greatest when the wind comes." A gust of wind blew and the clouds dispersed. The mouse couldn't help praising the greatness of the wind, but the wind said, "Look at the wall in front of me, I can't blow it down!" " "The little mouse climbed to the wall and envied it very much. The praise wall is the greatest in the world. The wall said, "You can stand on my shoulder, you are the greatest!" " "It can be seen that everyone in this world is unique, so as long as we get rid of inferiority and depression, correctly understand our values and have confidence in ourselves, we can easily face everything. Personal opinion: If you want to get wealth and happiness, you must have corresponding personality factors. In short, if you want a rainbow in your life, you must be baptized by rain; If you want to get the gold in life, you must wash away the sand in life.