How is her academic performance? What grade are you in? Is the ability of autonomous learning very poor? I suggest parents start with cultivating his interest in learning! Why do children like playing games? Have parents ever thought about it? In fact, it is very simple, and the game can fully interact with children. Everyone has poor self-control. This is not your child's problem alone. This may be caused by the following reasons:

First of all, the reason should be small. It may be that I didn't pay attention to the cultivation of children's attention before, which led to children's distraction.

Secondly, the diversity of living environment makes children's adaptability to the environment weak, and over time, they have the characteristics of playfulness. It should be said that children's playfulness is the root cause of poor self-control.

The third is that there is no goal. Because of the good living conditions, children don't need to worry about anything, and parents don't let their children worry too much. His hands-on ability and brain ability have not yet been developed, and he has psychological energy and needs activities to find his own way to vent his psychological energy, which has formed the characteristics of being playful.

Our solution is:

First of all, let students have the opportunity to calm down and study. Parents should urge at first, but don't force arrangements. Instead, remind them to do it. After a while, he can do it by himself, and then let the students do it by themselves.

Second, let the children do more work, and let him do what he can at home. Doing more work is a good way to cultivate self-control.

The third is to help him set goals. Boys often have their own heroes. We should help him analyze what it takes to be a hero. The so-called lead by example, positive energy, including his favorite animated hero, can help him analyze and give him an example to learn.

Fourth, pay more attention to what he plays, and sometimes you can play with him, especially for dads. We should communicate with children more, play with them, get to know him and analyze him in the activities, and then we can help him.