Children's attention changes with age, so it is generally difficult and unreasonable to let children concentrate after entering school. At present, he can adapt very well, and he will naturally adapt after entering school. There's no need to encourage others.
The school preparation reference is as follows:
What preparations can I make before entering school?
Preschool education and primary education are two different stages of education, and there are important differences in learning and living systems. Parents can make some scientific and reasonable preparations to help their children slow down the slope from kindergarten to primary school.
Preschool (3 ~ 6 years old), cultivate good study habits:
(1) Do things from beginning to end. Including the preparation of the beginning and the end. The beginning can be completed under the leadership of adults, and gradually transition to independent completion and become a habit.
(2) the ability to manage their own desires and emotions. Such as: restrain the desire to possess other people's things; Learn to wait and take turns; Know that "enough is enough, you don't need it"
③ Reading habits and expressive ability. When parents and children read, they intentionally guide their children to read the words next to the pictures; When going out, look at street signs, billboards, store names, commodity names and price tags. , easily accumulate literacy; Ask open-ended questions and let children describe what they have seen and heard; Let children contact mathematics in life; Expose children to English listening and reading environment according to conditions.
4 curious, not satisfied with the half-baked way of thinking. Bring children into contact with nature and different lives, care about every question of children, answer questions and meet their intellectual needs. Sometimes children can be encouraged to seek answers in their own constant operations.
◆ Kindergarten large class, compulsory training period before enrollment:
① Adjust the timetable accordingly. Do not take a nap, go to bed early and get up early to ensure adequate sleep.
Tidy up your things. From cleaning up the rice bowl after meals to tidying up toys and school tools.
(3) Proper operation within 20 minutes, knowing the measuring unit and simple appliances, practicing reading sentences and writing your own name and simple words.
4 properly cultivate children to have perseverance in doing things.
⑤ Train children to listen to others completely and express what they hear correctly.
Special reminder about school preparation-
● School preparation is not only a matter for children, but also a matter for parents.
Don't worry, children will try a new study life. Even if they are prepared before entering school, it doesn't mean that there will be no problems after entering school.
Allow children to make mistakes at this age. Being criticized by teachers is also the driving force for children's growth.
◇ The grade of Grade One and Grade Two in Senior High School is not equal to the grade of junior high school in the future; The study habits, attitudes, speed and methods of the first and second grades will affect the study of junior and senior high schools.
◇ Observe the child's mood after coming back from school, and relieve the pimple in the child's heart in time.
● Problems that do not appear after entering school should be prepared before entering school.
Children are going to school, of course, being prepared is better than not being prepared, but excessive "preparation" will affect children's learning motivation and bring anxiety to parents.
According to the survey of parents with primary school students, some problems can be avoided, that is, they can be prepared before entering school. For example, if you are listless in the afternoon class, you can adjust your schedule for at least two months before your child enters school; The basic accuracy of writing posture can help children form good habits of holding pens and sitting posture through training before entering school. But some problems are not so simple, such as fidgeting, being criticized by teachers for being unwilling to go to school, slow writing speed, confusing pinyin letters with English letters and so on. These problems are related to the child's personality, upbringing background, psychological characteristics, mental maturity and the specific background of the problem. We need our parents to do practical analysis and treat them correctly.
● Primary school learning itself has the meaning of learning preparation.
At the beginning of primary school, while systematically imparting knowledge, it is more to cultivate new learning methods and habits of primary school students to adapt to students' lives. Therefore, some children will suddenly stand up in class and slowly learn to exercise restraint under the teacher's "disapproval" and classmates' strange eyes; Some children happily told their mother with a "48-point" paper, and only in their mother's sorry expression did they understand the significance of this score; Some children don't know the difference between doing homework and taking exams. Students will be consulted during the exam, and the exam will be disqualified. In the future, children will understand ... there are similar things, such as playing tricks in class, forgetting to bring textbooks, and not knowing that there is homework at home. These are "mistakes" that students in lower grades of primary schools often make. In the practice of study and life, children experience how to be a student. This kind of "experience" includes both smoothness and unsmooth. Our parents should be calm, accept, wait, intervene when necessary, and allow their children to never adapt to the adaptation process.