I stayed up late with my friends the other day and went home happily. As soon as I entered the room, my mother called me to her and said, "Do you know how many points you got in the exam?" I shook my head and said, "I don't know." My mother said to me, "Your Chinese score is only 88.5!" There is anger, sadness and helplessness in the tone. Hearing this, I was shocked and silent, thinking, "Why did I only get so little?"
I went to school to get the paper on July 3, and I only got so many points. After careful investigation, there are five wrong questions in the knowledge of Chinese judgment, all of which are common sense in the text. The composition was also deducted 5 points, because only a few dry words were written, like a beautiful flower, without rain, the young leaves were dry and not vivid at all. There are still a few simple questions that are wrong.
Go home at noon and give the test paper to dad. Dad didn't talk for a long time after reading it. After a while, he said to me, "I'll tell you an idiom." I didn't make any noise, just bowed my head and listened. Father said, "This idiom is called' Be brave after knowing shame'. Do you know? " I shook my head and said, "I don't know." Dad said: "This idiom means:" Be brave after knowing shame and strive for the first place. " Dad looked at me and said seriously, "you must know that you are ugly and shameful when you get such a score." You should work hard in the future. "Think about it. I didn't do well in the mid-term exam, and I didn't do well this time. What is the reason? One time it may be a mistake or an accident, and several times I didn't do well in the exam, that is, I didn't work hard and didn't master the knowledge well. "
I listened to my father's words quietly, my heart was cold, my face was red, and I was ashamed and ashamed. Thinking about this year, I really didn't work hard enough. Every day as soon as I get home, I go straight to the TV and turn it on. Sometimes my parents won't let me see it, but I still can't live without it. Homework is also three times, five times and two places. I put it down as soon as I finished writing, and I seldom checked it carefully. There are many books at home. My father always makes me read them. I seldom read them. I just want to play with the children outside all day, but I don't concentrate on my studies.
My father saw me with my head down and said to me, "What are you going to do in the future?" I looked at my father and thought that I had only scored so many points in the exam and failed my parents' expectations. I secretly made up my mind to study hard in the future, make up for what I lost and catch up with my grades as soon as possible.
I stayed up late with my friends the other day and went home in high spirits. As soon as I entered the room, my mother called me to her and said, "Do you know how many points you got in the exam?" I shook my head and said, "I don't know." My mother said to me, "You only got 88.5 points in Chinese!" There is anger, sadness and helplessness in the tone. Hearing this, I was shocked and silent, thinking, "Why did I only get such a little score?"
On July 3rd, I went to school to get the paper. Sure enough, there are only so many points. After careful investigation, I found that there are five mistakes in the knowledge of Chinese judgment, all of which are common sense in the text. The composition was also deducted 5 points, because only a few dry words were written, like a beautiful flower, without rain, the delicate leaves dried up and were not vivid at all. There are still a few simple small questions that are wrong.
At noon, I came home and handed the test paper to my father. Dad didn't speak for a long time after reading it. After a while, he said to me, "I'll tell you an idiom." I didn't make a sound, just listened with my head down. My father said, "This idiom is called' shame before courage', do you know?" I shook my head and said, "I don't know." Dad said: "This idiom means:" Be brave after knowing shame and strive for the first place. " Dad looked at me and said earnestly, "You know, you got such a little score in the exam, and you are ugly and shameful. You should work hard in the future. ".Think about it, I didn't do well in the mid-term exam, and I didn't do well this time. What is the reason? One time it may be a mistake or an accident, and several times I didn't do well in the exam, that is, I didn't study hard and didn't master the knowledge well. "
I listened to my father's words quietly, my heart was cold, my face was red, and I was ashamed and ashamed. I really haven't worked hard enough this year. Every day when I get home, I will turn on the TV directly. Sometimes my parents won't let me see it, but I still can't bear to leave. Homework is also done three times, five times and two times. When you finish it, you put it down and rarely check it carefully. There are many books at home. My father always lets me watch it, but I seldom watch it. I just want to play with the children outside all day, but I don't pay attention to my study.
Seeing that I kept my head down, my father said to me, "What are you going to do in the future?" I looked at my father and thought that I only got so many points in the exam and failed my parents' expectations. I secretly made up my mind that I must study hard in the future, make up for what I lost and catch up with my grades as soon as possible.
Life has never been smooth sailing, and the scenery along the way is not all birds and flowers, and the sun is shining. In a quiet afternoon, setbacks are accompanied by suffering, sometimes like a strong wind wrapped in dark clouds, which suddenly falls from the sky. In an instant, the rain pours down and the ground is messy.
In the face of sudden setbacks and suffering, pretending to be chic and open-minded, paralyzing yourself with the spirit of Ah Q, it is never useful to escape. The face is always faced. It is a hurdle in front of you in life. You can lie at the bottom of the pit and forget the past, but you will live at the bottom of the pit all your life. You can also quietly accumulate strength, strive to take off, leap over the ravine, and then move towards a new world of life.
Remember these hardships that have brought you pain and ruined your life, be brave after knowing shame, turn these humiliations into bitter and powerful spurs, draw them on our backs, hit our hearts, and let us forge ahead!
Those faint compliments and encouragement are not enough to accompany you through the long journey. Only the shame that melts in your blood and is engraved in your bones can finally turn into an unwilling howl, stimulate your blood and fighting spirit, break all the shackles that trap you, get rid of all the flashy burdens and bags, and show them to others and yourself, with a full sense of shame and only insignificant dignity that cannot be profaned.
I once said that there are two ways to live. One is to be a grass that absorbs rain and sunshine every day, but doesn't grow up. People can step on you, but they won't pity you, because they can't see you at all. The other is to grow into a towering tree, which can be seen from a distance. Walking in brings shade to people and remains a pillar after death. It's useful to live or die.
We ordinary people may be born as a grass, trampled by soil and crushed by stones, but this is not terrible, and it can't really destroy us. After being ashamed, we should be brave, turn these sufferings into nutrients for growth, become a strong sapling, break through the ground, split the boulder and bloom our own glory.
For example, Han Xin, whose legs were humiliated, Gou Jian, who worked hard, Su Wu, who herded sheep in Beihai, and Sima Qian, who was jailed.
Those who have achieved great things in ancient times not only have extraordinary talents, but also have the will to be brave after knowing shame!
Shame is humiliation and insult, which means damage to reputation. Be brave after knowing shame, so say "be brave after knowing shame." Only by "knowing shame and then being brave" can we show the true nature of men.
If you are ashamed and brave, you will indulge yourself and hate forever. I still remember King Li Cunxu of the Tang Dynasty, who studied hard and practiced martial arts when he was young, and finally unified the North and the South when he was young and ascended the throne of the emperor. However, as soon as Li Cunyi ascended the throne, he began to enjoy the splendor, lead a listless life and meet and dance every day. Later, the army of a neighboring country saw that his country could not last long, so it harassed the people on the border all day and chanted songs among the people to humiliate him. And Li Cunhuan, still immersed in a world of flowers and flowers, likes to ignore it. The capital Jianye was captured in one fell swoop, ending Li Cun's absurd life. Yes! A person who knows shame and does not resist will lose its meaning; If a country is invaded and does not resist, it will inevitably perish.
Be brave after knowing shame, turn shame into the driving force for progress, and you will succeed one day. The legendary "crotch humiliation" is a good example. Han Xin lost his parents when he was very young. She earns her living mainly by fishing. I am often given alms by an old woman who washes silk floss, and I am repeatedly discriminated against and treated coldly by people around me. On one occasion, a group of hooligans humiliated Han Xin in public. A butcher said to Han Xin, "Although you are tall and big, you like to carry a knife and gun. In fact, you are very timid. If you have the ability, you can drill under my crotch and prove your courage! " When Han Xin heard this, his face immediately turned red, and his nameless anger ignited from his heart: "You butcher, how dare you insult me like this!"
Han thought, "I am weak, so I have to do this." Say that finish, he was desperate, from the butcher's crotch. Because of this gentleman spirit, Han Xinzheng founded an overlord. If there was no "crotch humiliation" at that time, there would be no future local overlord.
Shame is shame. In the face of shame, we must cross it in time and turn shame into kinetic energy for progress!
When it comes to the career of life, everyone will say: have confidence in your career and speak philosophically. However, ordinary people rarely think that proper inferiority is also a kind of motivation, and occasionally using it will make our career more beautiful and colorful. This is to be brave after knowing shame.
Similar examples are too numerous to mention. When Edison, the great inventor, was in middle school, his academic performance was so poor that teachers could jump off a building. In desperation, the teacher and Edison's parents advised Edison to drop out of school. Edison used to feel inferior for this. But after a period of reflection, he made up his mind, worked hard and studied hard, driven by inferiority complex, and finally made a great inventor.
Pushkin, the founder of modern Russian literature. When he was a student, his math scores were a mess. No matter what topic he did and what operation method he used, the final result was zero. Encouraged by his parents, he chose to write poetry after being ashamed. As a result, the school held a public examination at the beginning of 18 15. He recited the poem "Memories of Imperial Village" in public, which was greatly appreciated by the old poet Jerchavin, who thought that he was "a person who can inherit Jerchavin in the future". In his youth, he wrote many novels, essays, plays and lyric poems, such as Blizzard and Postman. Become a generation of writers in the world.
The significance of shame and inferiority lies in that it can make us calmly analyze ourselves, dissect ourselves constantly, review ourselves and examine ourselves. It is not difficult for a person to build self-confidence. There are narcissistic and egocentric genes in human nature. Because of this gene, we tend to be self-righteous, which is what we often call self-confidence. Because of this self-confidence, sometimes I don't listen to advice, so I often walk into the wrong alley. What we really can't do is to always realize the imperfection of our lives and keep a modest attitude in our minds.
Of course, life can't be too self-abased, and you can't let shame hang in your heart because of several mistakes. This will disintegrate and destroy a person's perseverance and courage, and eventually lead him to the end of his career. Inferiority can make people discouraged, but self-confidence can also make people arrogant.
The most perfect life is to be good at combining self-confidence with inferiority, constantly examining one's abilities and knowledge with inferiority and shame, and constantly exploring and studying the way forward with self-confidence.
Throughout the Millennium history of the world, honor and disgrace alternately interpret the history of dynasties from prosperity to decline. Poverty leads to prosperity, wealth leads to death, and wealth leads to three generations. All the scenes are telling us stories of shame and courage.
More than 3,000 armour can swallow Wu, which is not praised by Gou Jian. This division of three thousand tigers and wolves is forged with shame and sweat. Endure humiliation, created their iron will, they have been bound by the shackles of shame, they no longer want this dark life, they want revenge. When the spark of shame and revenge burns in their hearts, all difficulties will go up in smoke and be unmatched.
Yes, servility! People are deeply imprinted on their consciousness from birth. A happy life can only kill their minds and eventually disappear into the torrent of history. When shame comes to a person, you can realize that he has already been polished into ordinary. Unwilling ... An unyielding heart will find your lost water chestnut and become its own master.
Some people say that four years of high school life is perfect. I studied hard for three years, and then I failed. Shame stung every nerve in the body. I cried, laughed, raised my head and faced the challenge more firmly. At that time, the fruit of evil success, I think, is maturity ... A person's growth will not be too smooth, fighting spirit, but also need shame to stimulate. Don't run away from the gray past, it's a shame, but it's also your motivation. Face him squarely, face up to the shame that makes you sad, and use him to sting your heart constantly. Do you still want to go back to those dark days? If not, fight with a very strong spirit, be ashamed and then brave.
Tya, Tya, where does your strength come from? Facing the millions of soldiers and horses in the state of Jin, what was the king of Chu thinking? I'm afraid no one can stand the contrast from a generation of emperors to prisoners! Shame, this is his shame-the soldiers who have devoted themselves to the whole country can't stop the invasion ... Helpless, unwilling ... Is it sinking or breaking out? Courage after shame, like an injection of medicine, pierced the defense of the king of Chu. Your majesty, he will protect your majesty even if he dies. At that moment, Tya was moved, from the power of majesty, from the courage after humiliation, and he ruthlessly pierced the enemy's dream. The power of majesty is inviolable. ...
When looking back on the past, don't always put the shame in the past, stay, savor it carefully, and taste the shame and be brave again. ...
Consciously ashamed and brave composition 7 Two mutually leaning figures are reflected in the oblique light.
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When I was a child, I was always by your side, playing happily. At that time, rain or shine, you were always there to cover for me. ...
You know what, mom? You once taught me to set an example in everything and never take other people's things. However, once I took someone else's things (I didn't ask others), but unfortunately you saw that you didn't indulge me like other mothers, but criticized me more severely. I hated you then. But I understand that you did it for me. When I was a teenager, you taught me that people should set a long-term goal first, and never set a small goal. I set a goal and strive for it, and go to every node of my life, all thanks to you.
Do you understand, mom? You care so much about me and love me so much, but I have changed. When I entered youth, I always thought you couldn't keep up with the trend. Compared with other students' trendy mothers, you wear those dirty clothes every day, never wear makeup, talk loudly and walk without gentleness. With a mother like you, I can't hold my head up in front of my classmates.
So, I began to alienate you. Seeing you, I will no longer greet you from afar, drag your hand to the street together, and mention you in front of other students. I am afraid that my classmates will know that I have such a mother who makes me lose face. Even, I don't respect you as before, but I yell at you for everything. That time, I had a bad talk with you, and I slammed the door. When I turned around, I clearly saw a tear in the corner of your eye falling on your coarse blouse, but I left with a heart of stone and cursed your "pretending to be poor" again.
Do you understand, mom? That night, watching your haggard face lying in bed and listening to my father's growling and criticizing words in my ear, I realized that I had made a terrible mistake. I have been holding a knife to hurt my mother who raised me with great pains. Looking at the silvery white hair on your head, the deep wrinkles on your face, that root and that road are all added because of my hard work and my heartbreak. I broke your heart again and again, so I'm shameless! I shed tears of shame!
I was brave that night. I stepped forward to hug you. Nestled in your arms, I got up the courage to say, "Mom, I love you! If there is an afterlife, I will be your mother, and I won't let you suffer any more. Let me run for you! "