Success is an instinct.
Every creature has an innate system device for pursuing goals, which is used to help individuals reproduce and survive and seek the continuation of the race. Migratory birds can know when winter is coming without learning, so they can fly over the sea and mountains of Wang Yang and find the right place in the warm zone thousands of miles away. This "instinct" that guides animals' behavior can successfully help them fight against the environment. Therefore, it may be simply said that animals have "instinct for success".
Humans also have the instinct to succeed, which is more magical and creative than animals. Animals can't choose their goals at will, their survival and reproduction goals can be said to be established, and their success mechanism is limited to such established goals, which is what we call instinct. On the contrary, human beings have something that animals don't have-creative dreams. Only human beings can lead themselves to success with dreams.
Humans have emotional and spiritual needs that animals don't have. People's life not only aims at survival, but also pursues emotional and spiritual satisfaction. At the same time, the internal success mechanism of human beings can not only help human beings overcome dangers and satisfy their sexual instinct to continue their race, but also help people engage in activities such as invention, business management, developing good personality and striving for success, as well as all activities closely related to a happy life.
The desires and dreams in our hearts stimulate our creativity. It improves our intelligence and ability, thus making our dreams come true. If we pay for what we want, we will naturally give what we need. Our thoughts are like the source of water, which flows from all aspects to the vast ocean. The source of these ideas has generated a strong impetus, bringing our wishes and aspirations together.
If there is no distinction between north and south on the earth, migratory birds will not fly to the south in winter; Similarly, if there is no real life as the foundation, it will naturally not give us the desire for a broader and more perfect life, for maximum self-realization and for a successful life.
The mystery of dreams
People usually think that only writers or inventors have creative dreams. In fact, when we do something, everyone's dreams are creative. Great thinkers of all ages can see this and make good use of it. The brilliant achievements of these people in their lives should be attributed to their constructive, positive, appropriate and appropriate use of their creative dreams.
Since ancient times, successful great men have always used pre-imagined methods to achieve success. Before taking part in the actual war, Napoleon dreamed of becoming a military commander, drew a military map of Corsica, and marked all possible offensive and defensive situations with accurate mathematical calculations.
Before owning his first hotel, Connard Hilton imagined the hotel management way in his mind a long time ago, and even in his childhood, he played the role of hotel manager in his dream.
Dreams are not fantasies, but positive brain "restlessness". The role of dreams can be well answered by cybernetics. The word cybernetics evolved from Greek and literally means "helmsman". The human dream is the pursuit of goals, which provides you with the imagination, prediction or inspiration you need, just like a pair of "eyes". Dreams can gain insight into your future, automatically pursue your goals, guide you on the right path, or guide you to make an appropriate response to the environment.
Dreams require you to see one thing clearly in your mind, think about the goal you want to achieve in your mind, and think about the expected result in your mind, which can gradually make you use positive thinking. This does not mean that you can give up your efforts and work, but use your strength on the goal you want to accomplish, and at the same time avoid unnecessary psychological conflicts because of your thinking about other things. The result is often better than what you can achieve through conscious or will efforts.
Dreams are the "helmsman" of success.
Dreams are human gifts, the greatest source of human activities and the main driving force for human progress. Without this talent, human beings will stagnate in barbarism. Napoleon said, "Imagination can rule the whole world."
Behind reasonable wishes, there are often sacred things. This sacred wish is not something we lack and need, but a reasonable wish from the heart, an ideal that is expected to become a reality, a desire for self-realization and a dream of success. Reasonable dreams are creative, and they make our wishes come true. Anything that happens in life is always created in imagination before being put into practice. Just like building a tall building, an architect must draw a detailed blueprint first; If we want to achieve a goal, we must create all the conditions it needs in our minds before it becomes a reality.
Creative dreams are not limited to artists or inventors, but can be found in everyone's actions. What we can and can't do is not determined by willpower as most people think, but by dreams.
You can imagine your future. Dream is to make you feel the great cause prepared for you; Is to get you out of the ordinary and into an extraordinary life; It is to lift you out of all kinds of bondage and harsh environment and enter an ideal realm; It is to let you see that these ideals can come true in your life, and it is to prevent us from losing courage because of failures and setbacks.
People who look down on themselves and are unhappy can't succeed by dreams or reluctant determination. "If a person's dream is only to pick up junk, then he will always be only worthy of picking up junk." If you do things passively, obey others and let others lead you to the so-called road to success, then your self-image that you dare not expect happiness or are doomed to failure is wrong. Therefore, you must first have the foundation and reason to change the wrong old self-image in the past and develop a suitable, proper and new self-image. But unless this new self-image has a real foundation, it is impossible to establish a new self-image by imagination alone. Experience tells us that when a person changes his self-image, he must have the reasons and basis for the change, and he must see and anticipate his own situation and future.
If you have a picture of inferiority in your heart, and you think you are inferior to others, you should throw it away immediately. This is a wrong portrait. The wrong portrait must be thrown away. You should hold your drooping head tightly. You are not the poor victim of life, but the master of life. You should be calm, confident and optimistic, and you don't need to seek sympathy from others. You should help others and give your love, not just think of yourself.
Dreams have power only when they are put into action. Dreams play an extremely important role in our life. The world is big and small. In every ordinary person, there are factors that make him an ideal perfect person. Everyone has more abilities than he knows, and this is who he really is.
A person's reactions, feelings and actions are always based on his imagination of himself and his surroundings. This is a basic principle of thinking and a factor on which we live. For example, if you ask a fully awake person to imagine that his hand is immersed in ice water, we can see that the temperature of that hand will gradually drop. Tell another person that his fingers are red, swollen and hot, and his expression will not only be painful, but also his heart, blood vessels and lymphatic system will react the same as when his fingers are really red, swollen and inflamed.
Dreams are the design of possible lives. However, if it is not made a reality through persistent pursuit and unremitting efforts, it can only stay in this design. Just like the architect's design, if it is not realized through the efforts of construction workers, it is just a design drawing. Everyone who has achieved great things is a dreamer. What they have accomplished is closely related to their imagination, ability and perseverance, their persistence in their ideals and their efforts.
Our dream should not be an absurd fantasy, but a realistic and reasonable wish, a sacred wish from the heart, which will make our life noble. Dreams are based on reality. No matter how unpleasant or unfriendly the environment around us is, we can elevate ourselves to an ideal state in our imagination.
Our mental state and spiritual dreams are our prayers, which will naturally give us corresponding returns; This is a prayer from the heart, not from the mouth. Nature will help us get it.
Discover the best of yourself
The purpose of dreaming is not to dream of an imaginary self or an all-powerful, self-expanding and self-centered self-image. Because such an image, like a humble self, is unrealistic, inappropriate and impractical. Our aim is to discover the true self and make our psychological image closer to the true self. Psychologists believe that most people underestimate themselves and are unwilling to change themselves, thus belittling and wronged themselves. In fact, there is no such thing as superiority. If a person has a sense of superiority, he is actually suffering from inferiority complex. The sense of superiority is only invented by himself to cover up and hide himself, so that inferiority and insecurity will not be exposed.
The ideal of human beings is to "fully express themselves". Don't dawdle with inferiority and anxiety, and don't dare to look up at your true self. So be sure to know your true self, and don't be fooled by any imaginary self.
What kind of person do you want to be in your dream? You really "see" yourself playing that role in your dream, so your creativity can help you achieve your best self, which is the necessary way to change yourself. In any case, a person who wants to change must first "see" the new role he wants to be in his mind. In this way, he can really enjoy life. Let each of us see our best self, know and believe in this best self. We should realize the possibility of change and believe in ourselves in the process of change. We must abandon the past concepts of worthlessness and failure. Because those ideas are wrong, we should not believe in mistakes.
Drawing a portrait of failure for yourself will make you timid and impossible to succeed; Draw a vivid portrait of victory for yourself, which is enough to help you to succeed. Great life begins with what you want to do and what kind of person you want to be.
Have a daydream.
In your mind, make your dreams as concrete and vivid as possible, and shape things according to the principle of keeping thought in line with reality, so that your dreams can become reality.
Before going to bed at night, leave some time for yourself to think. Sit quietly and let the wild horses of thought gallop. Don't worry about your imagination, don't worry about your fantasy, because "without dreams, human beings will become extinct".
From now on, you should spend some time alone, try to relax yourself and not be disturbed by others, then close your eyes and fully show your dreams:
(1) Imagine yourself sitting in front of a big screen and enjoying a movie being performed. At this time, it is important to make the film as vivid and delicate as possible and the psychological film as close to the actual situation as possible. It is not difficult to do this, as long as you pay attention to the details, the scenery, the sound and the imaginary things in the environment. For example, if you are afraid of seeing a doctor, use this exercise to overcome this problem. You can imagine all kinds of details, such as the smell of disinfectant in the hospital, the feeling of leather on the armrest of the chair, the feeling of the doctor holding the receiver and so on. Remember, in this exercise, it is very important to imagine the details of the environment. In order to achieve practical goals, you must create practical experience. The more vivid and delicate your imagination is, the closer your dream is to the actual situation.
(2) Your dream must have a goal, and you must make sure that your goal already exists in actual or potential form. This goal may be vague, but it must be identifiable so that the work can be completed. If you want to do business, you must have a strong desire and think carefully from all angles. Dreams will find an idea here, choose a fact or past experience there, and then connect these into a meaningful whole, so that you can get the plan you need, complete the equation you need and solve your problem. Maybe when you perceive these answers, it is when you are thinking about other things; Perhaps it was in the dream that consciousness stopped moving. At this time, you will feel that your eyes are suddenly enlightened, and then you will catch something immediately. This thing is the answer you are looking for.
(3) You must get into the habit of putting it into action. Don't wait until you see the facts before you start to act. Your actions and reactions must be appropriate, successful and ideal. You don't need to cultivate confidence for tomorrow's ideal, you just need to keep practicing. When you see yourself in action, feeling and becoming what you want, don't say to yourself, "I'll do it tomorrow." Just say to yourself, "Now, I want to imagine myself doing this." Dream that if you become what you want to be, you will feel that way, as Emerson said, "Take action and you will naturally gain strength."
(4) Don't be afraid of making mistakes and temporary failures. Reasonable dreams have to be tested in practice. After making mistakes, you should constantly correct your goals in your mind until you succeed, then continue to learn, forget past mistakes, remember successful reactions, and imitate them repeatedly, so that you can succeed again.
(5) You should keep a good mental state; Read some books that inspire you to forge ahead; We should keep close contact with those who have achieved something, and try to learn from their successful experience. Don't give up because your dreams haven't come true, don't be disappointed because your hopes are slim, don't let your daily life drown out your ideals, and don't let your ideals lose their bright colors. We must stick to our ideals and let them exist forever.
If a person has a correct attitude towards life, works hard and pursues persistently, he will achieve his goal or eventually get close to it. Concentrate, single-minded, will produce magical creativity, will create what we desire.
If we give full play to our dreams, seize the time and opportunity to make our thoughts blossom, and strive to implement our ambitions, our ideals will come true, just like a bud will find an opportunity to open, emit fragrance and show its beauty at the right time and place without being hindered or stifled. As long as you keep a perfect image and a perfect goal in your mind, it will become a dominant living habit, enabling you to give full play to your potential and become a successful person.