The student's academic performance has not been very satisfactory since he entered the school. Although he has given counseling and education to poor students many times, the effect is still not obvious. As a result, the overall performance of the class lags behind other classes at the same level. Moreover, the student is introverted, unwilling to communicate with the same teacher, taciturn and never speaks in class. Ask the reason, don't want to communicate with the teacher deeply, don't say anything, just criticize her and cry. So in order to find out the crux of the problem, prevent her grades from falling and form bad study habits, I decided to make a home visit.
Home visit:
When I arrived at the student's home, my father was the only one at home, and the parents reacted coldly: I knew the child had this problem for a long time, but I couldn't start. Even if we keep talking, there's nothing we can do Fortunately, after patient communication and explaining the purpose of the home visit, my parents finally put down their ideological burdens and chatted with me. According to parents, there may be several reasons. The child is very introverted. Although she is a girl, she is also very fun and has a certain inertia. When children come home, they are addicted to TV and talk about the plot, but they basically say nothing about their studies, which may be one of the reasons for their abnormal behavior. Moreover, among the subjects, there are subjects that she is not very happy to learn, such as mathematics. It's hard to learn. She may be afraid of difficulties. Besides, parents are busy with work and have no time to help their children with their studies. They didn't form good study habits when they first went to school. Finally, my parents promised me that they would actively cooperate with our teachers to psychologically guide their children and actively communicate with them, so that they could integrate their children into the normal learning and living environment as soon as possible.
Home visit experience:
The social competition is fierce and the pressure of study is increasing. Many children have some inevitable problems both physically and psychologically. This social status quo cannot be changed in a short time. As a teacher, you can't blindly criticize children's problems and then let them go. We should solve these problems with theoretical knowledge and practical experience. In short, it means caring for students with love, carefully observing students, patiently educating students, finding students' problems in time and trying to help them solve them. We can't give up, but give her more encouragement and love in this respect. Let her understand my good intentions, treat me as a friend who can tell her the truth, and be willing to let me help her out of the psychological shadow and have the sunshine of a normal child.
Record of home visits of junior three students Part II Interviewee: Li xx's family.
Reason for visit:
1, Li xx's learning decreased obviously.
2. Li xx's learning initiative is getting worse and worse, and the teacher's encouragement and criticism have gradually lost their effect on him.
As a boy, Li xx's character is getting weaker and weaker, and he dare not resist the bullying of his classmates.
Access process:
Originally, I wanted to invite the children's parents to come to school to talk, but the children's father was very busy at work and couldn't see the teacher at work. The growth of children can not be separated from the role of fathers. In view of the current situation of the child, I think it is necessary to meet and talk with the father of the child. So I decided to go to the children's house at night. I called the father of the child in advance and made an appointment for me to go to his house at night.
Unexpectedly, when I arrived at his house at the appointed time, the father of the child was not at home because of entertainment, which made me deeply sorry. I also feel that the father of the child does not attach great importance to the education and psychology of the child. In his eyes, children are probably "natural integrity"? He hasn't realized the important role of father in children's growth.
I had to communicate with the child's mother and got the general situation of Li xx's family: the family's economic source depends entirely on his father. Therefore, his father has an absolute dominant position at home, but his work is very busy, and he rarely cares about his children's education and rarely accompanies them. Mother's position in the family is relatively low, and Li xx's life and education are taken care of by her mother. But Li xx is a clever boy. He also feels that his mother's position at home is lower than his father's, so he doesn't listen to his mother very much, and her mother is helpless to him. Li xx's mother is obedient to her children. Li xx loves meat, so his mother eats it with him. I have reminded his mother many times, but his mother said she couldn't restrain him.
Li xx is willful and lazy at home. He doesn't like studying and sports. His clothes were tight and his mouth was full of food. The mother can't help him, and the father is very busy at work and doesn't get involved in the growth of the child. Once Li xx's mother says that the child's grades are not good, his father will scold the child with his mother. Therefore, the mother and son tried their best to report the good news to the child's father, who did not know the real situation of the child. Then his father called me.
The long telephone conversation with Li xx's father was very harmonious, mainly because the father of the child was very moved by my home visit at night and agreed with me. He decided to make a timetable for his children, supervise their exercise, and control their diet at the same time, so as to lose weight and build confidence for Li xx. We also decided to contact regularly and pay more attention to the healthy growth of Li xx.
In the next few weeks, I saw Li xx gradually become cheerful, lazy habits gradually corrected, and life began to become positive. Of course, there are still children who repeat it. Because of the timely contact between home and school and active intervention, we are delighted to see that children's good habits are gradually being developed.
Record of home visits of junior high school students 3 Li xx is lively and active. He's smart, and he's got a brilliant brain. He was not attentive in class and his homework was not finished in time. He is often lazy and doesn't like studying.
At noon on Wednesday, I informed my parents and rushed to the children's home according to the registered address.
The child's father was very enthusiastic when he saw me coming. He let me in, make tea and get fruit, which really touched me. Because I didn't see the child, I asked, and the parents said helplessly, "I ran out to play again." The child knows how to play all day, and we have to watch him do his homework every day. As soon as he relaxed, he played away and had no consciousness at all. His mother and I are both heartbroken. Teacher, please sit down and have a rest. I'll get him back. "When the father of the child went to find the child, I carefully looked at his family's environment: a well-off family, neatly packed, which shows that this family has high requirements for life. When I saw my child come back, I stood up and said to my parents, "Li's father, I mainly want to communicate with you and understand the situation." "Hear me say so, my parents face a little embarrassed, but also a little relaxed. "Sorry, teacher, let you joke, I think his heart is too disappointing! This child is too disobedient at ordinary times. We beat and scolded, and it didn't work at all. Do you think I can stop worrying? " The child is still standing with his head down, but I can vaguely see some aggrieved expression on his face. Seeing this scene, I began to wonder: "Is the child wronged?" So, I said to the child's father, "Li's father, go to work first!" " Let me talk to the children for a while. "I winked at the child's father as I spoke, and the child's father suddenly understood and walked away. I hugged the child: "Li, do you think reading is good?" "The child is a little shy, please nod gently." What do you think of our two teachers? "The child hesitated, but still nodded gently, looking at his hesitant answer. I believe this is the crux. "Then why don't you want to study? "He lowered his head and stopped talking." What are you wronged? What's so unhappy about it? It doesn't matter. Let's talk about it If the teacher is wrong, the teacher promises to correct it. "The child still kept his head down, but tears fell, which made me believe that he was wronged." That time … I didn't speak, and the child next to me spoke, but you criticized me … "Oh! The knot has finally opened, and it seems that the fault is really my self-righteous teacher. So sometimes it seems that teachers really can't treat some naughty children in a fixed way. So, I apologized to my child in time and promised to tell the teacher in time if the teacher criticized it wrong, but I would correct it in time if the teacher criticized it right.
The child's face finally smiled again.
This morning, I came to the home of Li X, a student in our class. Like other farmers, students' parents are busy at home. When my parents saw that I was busy giving up my seat, I sat down and chatted with my parents casually. When I told them what I wanted, my parents said, "I thought the children had a bad life." Parents laughed.
Parents admit that the child spends most of her time at her grandmother's house, but no matter how busy she is, she takes time to look at her recent homework. Children are obedient and always want to tell grandma what the teacher said after finishing their homework. In fact, the children have actually reviewed what they learned that day. Sometimes her father and I will also be students to attend classes, and sometimes we will talk about who is a good listener. Children also like reading. After school, they often go home to read story books and three-character classics. Every once in a while, they will go to Xinhua Bookstore to buy one or two new books to read. ...
When I came out from home, my eyes always flashed with a Zhang Shanliang, simple and responsible face; From home, I felt the teacher's exemplary role. I wonder if other students can review what they have learned invisibly in imitation, just like her? What about increasing knowledge in reading?
Home visit is to let teachers fully understand, analyze and understand students on the basis of personally feeling the growth environment of students, understanding the cultural quality of parents and family education, and truly realize "one key opens a lock".
Record of Home Visit of Junior Three Students 5 Jiao xx This girl's academic performance has been low since she entered school, and she always doesn't like to talk at school. She is introverted and doesn't like communicating with teachers very much. She is always silent with her head down in class and seldom takes the initiative to speak. Even if there is a simple question to ask Jiao, she can't say why. For this reason, I have looked for her many times and asked why. She just said nothing, and there was no expression on her face. When she was anxious, she began to cry. It has been like this for two semesters, so children's test scores, dictation, dictation and other aspects have always lingered at the downstream level of the class. Educating a good student is not only the unilateral responsibility of the school, but also my meager strength can't change the present situation of Jiao. In order to find out the crux of the problem, change Jiao's learning situation, avoid her vicious circle and become more closed. I don't like studying and communicating, so I decided to visit at home. When I first arrived at Jiao's home, I was warmly received by Jiao's parents. It seems that teachers' home visits are very popular with parents. Although I have visited Jiao's parents by telephone from school to school many times to discuss Jiao's situation at school, when I talked about this problem again in this home visit, Jiao's parents' reaction was still very helpless: they had known this situation for a long time, but they didn't want to solve the problem at all. They just kept saying that they had no choice but to complain to me: they had to help her with her homework every day after school, but they dictated today and forgot tomorrow, and they did. I think it is inevitable for parents to complain. One day's work alone is enough. After coming back, I have to help my unresponsive daughter with her homework, which will inevitably erase her patience. So I understand their "complaints" and their "worries" and "fears" about teachers' home visits. After patient communication, I also showed my thoughts, understanding and feelings to Jiao's parents, and explained the purpose of my home visit. Later, Jiao's parents finally put down their ideological burdens and talked to me.
According to parents, there may be several reasons. First: Jiao Jinjin's reaction ability and acceptance ability are low. It takes her a long time to digest the knowledge explained by the teacher in class, and it is inevitable that she will not keep up with the big steps and fall behind over time. Especially in mathematics, from the first grade, mathematics scores are not high, confidence drops, and a vicious circle is gradually formed; Second, children are a little introverted, especially at school; Third, children are slow-witted, procrastinating and weak in learning and understanding. Similar exercises need to be done several times to get started, but you won't understand them unless you touch them every few days. After the whole semester, she had a hard time studying and was afraid of learning.
These points are the key to Jiao's study of decline. I think the crux of the problem has been found, and the next step is to solve the problems that appear on children. Jiao's parents also expressed positive recognition, and promised me that they would actively cooperate with teachers in various subjects to psychologically guide their children, actively communicate with their children, and let Jiao integrate into the normal study and living environment as soon as possible. During the summer vacation, try to make up for her from the basic knowledge of senior one and senior two, and pass the words first; Summer homework should be done regularly and quantitatively every day, and carefully; Preview the new knowledge of next semester first; At the same time, I also asked Jiao's parents to strengthen her safety education, especially in social practice. Next semester, she will still be urged to finish her homework on time every day, check the "wrong problem set" regularly, and ask to consolidate the types of exercises in the "wrong problem set" in time. Grasp the most basic content first, and slowly and steadily step by step. I think Jiao's progress is just around the corner.
With this expectation, I ended my focused home visit. I am very grateful to Jiao's parents for their cooperation and their welcome and support. As Jiao's head teacher, I don't think it's a good teacher's practice to criticize children's problems blindly and then let them go. We should solve these problems with theoretical knowledge and practical experience. In short, it means caring for students with love, carefully observing students, patiently educating students, finding students' problems in time and trying to help them solve them. Just like Jiao, we should give her more encouragement and love. Let her understand the good intentions of my parents, treat the teacher as a friend who can talk to her heart, and she will also have the sunshine of a normal child.
Record of Home Visits of Junior Three Students 6 Interviewers: Kwai X Student: Fan xx
1, student information: Good boy, help with housework and take care of my sister (also a good student/child).
2. Too many people flock to his house, which is very noisy; Of course, parents are hospitable and support learning.
For them, taking a family photo is a happy way.
As I don't know him very well, I wonder if there is anything wrong with him. Reduce the effect of home visits.
Record of home visits of Grade Three students: 7 students: Grade One and Grade Three graduates.
1. Objective: To understand their parents' opinions on their further studies or part-time jobs, so that students can make more correct and objective choices.
2. Harvest: increase students' determination to continue their studies.
3. Solution: After chatting in front of the whole family and expressing their understanding of reality, analyze the pros and cons of the two options with them. And at an appropriate time, parents should express their views on us or students, so that students can have more confidence in choosing what they want to do.
Try to show the temperament and knowledge of college students in front of their parents and win their trust.
Home Visit Time: August 10, 3 pm 10- 5 pm Home Visitor: Shao Ming.
Home Visit: After a home visit in the afternoon, we learned that the financial situation of Chen Mulian's family will not be bad. And her father is willing to pay for Chen Mulian to continue her studies. However, it is understood that Chen Mulian's performance is not good, and there is a partial phenomenon. Math and English are poor. Therefore, whether to continue studying depends entirely on Chen Mulian herself. Chen Mulian's papermaking skills are superb. Fully capable of making a living, which opened up another way for her. But because of this, we can know from her words and deeds that she doesn't care much about whether she can continue her studies in high school. So in the future work, we should encourage her to continue reading good books. So the road is wider. But in the end, we should respect her own choice.
Home Visit Time: Saturday, August 17, 2: 30-4: 50 pm Student: Lin Zhiwei Home Visitor: Xinxin.
In the afternoon, Lin Zhiwei took volunteers there. It takes about 20 minutes to ride a bike. There are parents and a brother at home. My father runs a clinic, my mother is in charge of papermaking, and there are paper mills and small grocery stores at home. My brother is a sophomore in Sihui Middle School, and his family is better. Lin Zhiwei is a cheerful and understanding child. Parents are very supportive of their two sons to study. In order to create better learning conditions, parents bought them computers and learning software. Usually, my brother lives on campus, and Zhiwei has to do housework and sometimes watch the shop. But most of the time he mainly studies, and he can also study voluntarily at night. His parents are very open-minded, and they also attach great importance to cultivating their children's ability to communicate with others and their spirit of self-reliance. They make many truths easy to understand and easier for children to accept. The atmosphere of the whole family is more harmonious, and children are more sensible, more respectful, obedient and self-motivated.
Record of home visits of junior three students 8 1. Time of home visit: xxx years1October 27th, 6: 30-7: 20.
2. Participating teachers: Zou xx, Song xx, Du xx, Wen xx, Liu xx (Teacher Yang xx is attending a home visit in another class).
3. Purpose of home visit: A student transferred from a key middle school in September. At the beginning of 10, the grade of the monthly exam was low, and there were more or less problems in all subjects. The purpose of this home visit is to learn from his parents about his previous study and life, so that the teachers can make up lessons for him in a targeted manner, so that he can have a satisfactory result for himself and his parents two years later.
Teachers' feedback to parents:
Students are students who don't talk much, probably because they are freshmen. In order to encourage him to actively communicate with his classmates and enhance his self-confidence, I elected him as the group leader (four groups in the class), responsible for managing all aspects of 14 classmates. It turns out that he is a student with strong sense of responsibility and coordination, and also has a sense of class collective honor. At the same time, student A is a hard-working student, but for more than a month, the learning effect is not obvious enough, such as poor English word clearance, cloze, low reading comprehension score and so on. And other teachers also reflected the corresponding problems.
Parents' feedback to teachers:
A student who entered high school for the first time, with outstanding academic performance and comprehensive personal quality, was elected as the monitor. There are many activities in all aspects of senior one. Besides, he is so devoted to everything that his study time is not fully guaranteed. Compared with Yiling Middle School, his previous school's teaching management and teachers' sense of responsibility were not as strong as Yiling Middle School. There is also a classmate who is outstanding in ability and appearance, and it is doubtful whether he has a good impression on the opposite sex; My father works outside all the year round, and my mother is not very strong, which is the direct or indirect reason for the decline of students' grades. Measures taken by teachers after home visits:
As a class teacher, I talked to classmate A the day after my home visit, and solved his problems one by one: some of his class cadre responsibilities were shared by other students, giving him more time to make up for his weaknesses; Put all your energy into your study, give your mobile phone to your parents for safekeeping, reduce contact with your former classmates and avoid learning distraction; English and biology are the weakest subjects for students. As an English teacher, I put forward clear requirements for him, such as coming to me with a unit of words every day from module 1, appropriately increasing certain gestalt and reading exercises, and gradually improving English reading comprehension. Because of the fast progress of biology teaching in our school, classmate A missed a biology textbook, and biology teacher Liu Liqin promised to make it up gradually. After 1 more hours of conversation, classmate A's confidence was greatly enhanced and a bright smile appeared on his face.
Contents of Home Visit Records of Grade Three Students 9 Purpose of Home Visit Work
In order to promote teachers to understand students more deeply and carefully, to enhance emotional communication between teachers and students, to enhance mutual understanding and trust between teachers and parents, and to form a joint force of education, this work is specially carried out for the purpose of cultivating and educating students.
Arrangement of home visit process (omitted)
Parents value: 2 families, 3 students, these 3 students have excellent grades and do well in school!
What parents ignore: most. Four students' parents and students are absent, and two are playing cards. Of the six students, one is average and the other five are poor.
Parents can't control it (working in the field and rarely coming back): two. A good grade and a bad grade.
Parental management, management is illegal: 4, all are problem students.
On the way home from my home visit, I kept thinking: What is the most needed for our education?
It's family education! What is the most important subject? It's family education!
Education needs * our schools * our teachers, and parents' cooperation!
Psychology often says that parents are their first teachers.
Most of our parents need to learn a subject: family education!
(The above are some reflections after the home visit of the teacher, and some are similar to the teaching narrative. )
Summary of this week's home visit
Last night's home visit went smoothly as planned. Here, Mr. Ye and I thank all parents for their strong support and warm treatment of our class! We will inform the next family visitor in advance. The situation of this home visit is summarized as follows:
Fang: Being gentle and delicate is very clever at home. Yesterday afternoon, I helped clean the house at home and cleaned the room by myself. Polite and hospitable; I can accept the opinions put forward by my parents and teachers with an open mind, but I still lack initiative in my study.
Liu Youtong: Do well at home. The lovely little girl has a princess-like noble temperament, likes reading books and can finish her homework consciously. Last night, she played an etude, and I played "Wedding in My Dream". I hope Xiaowen will keep practicing the piano every day (I found myself covered in dust after playing last night, so I may play less). Playing the piano can not only add elegance to people, but also help you become more careful. Come on!
Lu: A pair of big black eyes are shining with wisdom-what a clever little boy! I often stay at home alone, do my homework, watch TV and surf the Internet. There are many extracurricular books at home. I'll borrow some from him next week. It is true that clever children are always careless. Xiaohong should be careful.
Liao Hongmei: This is a graceful little girl. She is very polite. As soon as the teacher arrived, she was busy greeting. Please sit down, pour tea and fruit. Hehe, what a hospitable little host! She is obedient at home and actively does housework. Both class teachers praised her for being more and more careful.
Home Visit Record of Grade Three Students 10 Student Name: * * *
The home visit time is 20XX 65438+ 10 month.
Home interviewer: Mr. Ran.
Home Visitor: Parents of students.
Home visit record:
The student lacks initiative in learning and neat homework, but his endorsement is not active enough and his grades are not satisfactory. Especially in math, I have poor grades, but I can get along well with my classmates, work actively, and respect and be polite to my teachers.
Her mother revealed that the child was not awake enough to do his homework at home. If you don't watch her do it, your homework will be lazy. To this end, the child's father hit the child several times! I asked her why her academic performance was not good enough, and she admitted that she was lazy. I found out that she had a younger sister, so I asked her, isn't it shameful to be scolded by the elders in front of my younger brother and sister? As a sister, you should set an example for your siblings, or they will look down on you! I told her that the reason for her unsatisfactory final grade last semester was not her lack of talent, but her laziness. I firmly believe that she still has great potential in her studies, because her reading analysis ability and comprehensive Chinese application ability are all ok. So I reminded her that if she is willing to spend time on her studies, she can learn the basic knowledge in a down-to-earth manner, use her brains actively, study hard and ask questions actively, and her academic performance will certainly make gratifying progress next semester. She needs to make progress and can make progress. Parents expressed their full cooperation with teachers and schools. She listened attentively to my words, realized my good intentions for her, and kept nodding.
Record of Home Visit of Grade Three Students+1 1 Name of Student: Gu xx
The home visit time is 20XX 65438+ 10 month.
Home interviewer: Mr. Ran.
Home Visitor: Parents of students.
Home visit record:
Students have strong self-care ability and strong opinions, but their learning attitude is not correct, they lack consciousness, their homework is sloppy, and the problem of repeating grades is more serious. Parents are too busy to take care of their children, so their children are stubborn and lazy in their studies. After the exchange, the mother thought that the child knew that he was lazy at an early age and thought of many ways. There is no way out now. In the sincerity of promoting children's progress, I hope parents will cooperate and express their willingness to give it a try.
Record of Home Visit of Grade Three Students 12 Student Name: Ma xx
Home visit time: 20XX 65438+ 10 month.
Home interviewer: Mr. Ran.
Home Visitor: Parents of students.
Home visit record:
Lack of self-consciousness in study and sloppy homework, so the results are not ideal. Especially the composition is not specific, and it is often sloppy in three rows and five rows. But let him do it again, he always has a correct attitude, is open-minded and actively corrects it. Very malleable.
When listening to me, the parents nodded their approval from time to time. He revealed that children are not conscious enough to do homework at home. If you don't watch him do it, your homework will be lazy. To this end, he also hit the child several times!
But the purpose of our home visit is not to complain, but to promote the progress of children in good faith. So I said the ultimate goal of the home visit truthfully: the reason for the unsatisfactory final result is by no means a lack of talent, indeed it is not. I firmly believe that this child still has great potential in learning, because of his reading and analysis ability and comprehensive use of Chinese.
The ability is ok. It also shows that he is careless in his studies. Therefore, our home visit is mainly to remind him that as long as he is willing to work hard and learn the basic knowledge well, he will certainly make gratifying progress. He needs progress and can make progress. Parents expressed their full cooperation with teachers and schools.