As a parent whose children come from grade one, I don't think it is necessary to enroll in preschool.

I think interest and motivation are the keys to initiative and willingness to learn, whether children or adults.

Therefore, if children want to face academic problems independently in the next 12 years, they should set key node goals from the beginning.

The goal of this key node is not necessarily academic performance and scores.

Take my children for example. When I was in kindergarten, I tried all kinds of fun and interests. I never thought about learning math and literacy.

When I graduated from the big class, I got a certificate of piano level 6, and my literacy level reached about level 3. Don't get me wrong, we didn't teach her to read, but I have a habit-I have been telling her stories at night since 1 year old, and I haven't stopped for five years. )

I haven't learned Chinese Pinyin, addition and subtraction within 100. In the first grade, there was indeed a gap with other children: others often took double 100, but she only occasionally took double 100.

I remember that she just started learning Chinese Pinyin and came back to practice her pronunciation every day. I practiced with her, and I lost my voice.

It's really difficult, because teaching is fast. But I think this is a valuable experience for children to learn for the first time. She must know that learning new knowledge is her task, and at the same time, she must be mentally prepared to overcome difficulties.

Slowly, she became steady, adapted to the pace of learning, and never enrolled in cram school again. Although her grades are not first-class, she has a good attitude. Especially the test-taking psychology is very good. As long as you take the mid-term and final exams, your grades are excellent.

Look at those students who struggle in the cram school every day. Bad grades are still bad. This proves that a child's study and grades have nothing to do with whether he can make up lessons, but with what he wants in his heart.

In this way, six years later, I graduated with triple A!

One day, she told me that she was glad that she had a great mother and didn't force her to brush the questions. Her three views are correct, and she has a judgment of right and wrong in her heart. I think this is very important during primary school!

Therefore, don't let him go to preschool, and don't let him go to so many cram schools in the future.

By cultivating his habits, he can spend his primary school life easily and happily.

As parents, choose as many books as possible, accompany and guide children to read, and discover their hobbies.

At the same time, develop reading habits and lay a foundation for after-school knowledge, reading comprehension and writing.

Remember, you should stay with your children and tell them stories every night.

When children are young, they are full of energy and like all kinds of games, some are manual, some are outdoor activities, some are mobile games and so on.

Don't restrain your child, don't limit him by your own standards, but pay attention to communication with your child, pay attention to the real reasons behind these behaviors, and you will find your child's talent and creativity and hear his voice.

With good guidance, you can combine with learning and stimulate motivation!

When children have problems or encounter difficulties, guide them to find and summarize the problems themselves.

Even if his knowledge is still very shallow, it doesn't matter, he will deepen step by step, and finally he can form the habit of introspection and self-change.

This is very important. Parents should be firm, strong inside, resist the interference of external environment, and don't deny children.