30 years old seems to be a hurdle in life, a necessary process that we don't want to face, but we can't escape. In Love of a Pure Son, Zhang Zhiming said, "If a person is still on a business trip at the age of 30 and has never been in business class, what a failure his career is."
Why do you still have nothing to do when you are 30 years old?
0 1 no ambition.
In an article, Time magazine said that the psychologist Dean Smonte found through research that "ambition" is the driving force of some human behavior. If human beings are ambitious, they can seize more and more resources with greater strength.
When Ma Yun founded Alibaba, he invited 24 friends to his home for discussion. He talked for more than two hours, and 23 of them said forget it. Only one friend told him that he could have a try. If not, he will run back quickly.
Ma Yun finally decided to do it. Even if relatives and friends object, he still firmly believes that doing one thing is a success. Without rest, there will be no "ambition", just like thinking of a thousand roads at night and taking the same road in the morning.
Of course, the "ambition" we are talking about here is a moderate "ambition". If you want to do a good job, you must have "ambition", be full of confidence in the future and dare to try, so that you can get better development.
With "ambition", you can overcome all excuses and give full play to your greatest potential;
With "ambition", you can study hard and constantly improve yourself;
Only with "ambition" can we overcome all difficulties and create miracles.
There are many excuses for complaining.
When you are 20 years old, maybe you can get 70% results with 30% effort. At the age of 30, you found that even if you put in 70% efforts, you might not get 30% results, so you began to make excuses for yourself:
I don't have money.-Why don't you have money? How can you have no money after working for many years? Yes, but they are all spent on eating, drinking and having fun, on things that are worthless and unrewarding, and go on and on, muddling along.
I don't have time-then how can you watch TV and play games? You sleep in the sun every day and do nothing all day, so time slips away from you quietly.
I don't have a skill-do you find opportunities to exercise yourself when others keep studying hard? You never have the enthusiasm to study for three minutes, but you are always complaining about the lack of opportunities. You know, opportunities are always reserved for those who are prepared.
I'm not interested. I have no contact. I will think about it.
Put away your excuses and don't just complain about your disappointment. A person's journey is bound to be confused, lonely and helpless, but as long as you are aggressive and full of hope for life, maybe success is at the next corner.
No targets
Even if you are 30 years old, you can't live without a goal, otherwise you will be lost in the vast sea like a ship without a lighthouse in the dark, and you can only drift with the tide, never reaching the shore, or even being destroyed.
Just like the well-known story of a bear breaking corn, he first put a corn under his left arm, then another one, and the first corn fell off. Then continue to clip under the right arm, so that the left one repeats the right one, and one breaks off and one drops. Finally, when it stopped, it was found that only two corn were harvested under its arm.
Without a goal, it is doomed to be futile, but it will not succeed.
If college entrance examination students have no goals, they can't sit on the bench; There will be no direction of effort;
If the marathon has no end, the contestants will not even have the courage to start;
Entrepreneurs don't know what they want to do, so they won't get up early and be greedy for the dark, and they are not afraid of hard work;
If there is no goal at the age of 30, then after 40 and 50, all that remains is a helpless sigh.
If you are 30 years old, if you have not achieved anything, if you have no choice but to escape, then you have only one last stop, do everything possible to improve yourself and make more achievements to laugh at the profligate past.