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My son is in the fourth grade of primary school, and now his grades are getting worse and worse, and he has failed both Chinese and math. How can I help my children?
Please do the following:

1. Identify the reasons why children can't learn well. If you are not as clever as others, what you need is encouragement and patience. Don't expect him to do it all at once, but pay attention to the formation of good habits. For example, get up early in the morning without staying in bed, go to bed on time at night without staying up late, finish homework in time, and actively preview and review. If you have no feeling or interest in learning, then you should carefully understand his hobbies, as well as his usual personality and habits. Introverts should be encouraged to participate in group activities. This is potentially helpful to his study, and his mood is cheerful, which is bound to help his study. If they are careless, such children are generally smarter and more sunny. What needs attention is only the attention to some things and the improvement of some minor problems. People who are not interested in learning just don't realize that learning is good for them. When I was a child, I can encourage him by rewarding him, but I must gradually strengthen my sense of responsibility. If you are neither smart nor fond of learning. This kind of complexity may be a problem in family environment, personal communication and personality development, which needs specific analysis.

2. Be clear about how to teach children. What I want to emphasize is: you can't be quick and quick. I want to make up more lessons for my children and be strict with them. In the short term, this method will be very effective, but slowly, children will begin to spend their minds on how to escape from high pressure. You are teaching with expectations, and he is absent-minded or involuntarily listening. Pay attention to guidance and don't let learning become a naked pressure on him. Ideally, it is interactive teaching, that is, you can't tell him how to do this problem and how to do that problem like the teacher in his class. Instead, listen to his ideas first, don't rush to deny them, give him some hints, guide him to think in the right direction, and complete a topic by discussion. Over time, he can form a correct thinking. The disadvantage of this method is that it takes a long time to finish a topic at first, so it can't be popularized in daily teaching, but home teaching is still possible. In the long run, it will be very helpful to cultivate students' ability.

3. Pay attention to children's emotional changes. Because the environment in which children live now is very complicated, the changes of emotions will be very complicated, which has no obvious influence on general learning, but it will have a great influence on the development of children's personality habits over time, thus greatly affecting learning. What we can do is to make friends with children as much as possible and communicate with them more. Only by keeping the child in a good mood can he develop normally in all aspects and become interested in learning. But instead of doting on children, I pay more attention to their physical and mental health. There is a misunderstanding here. Many parents often invade their children's privacy and peek at their diaries to show their concern. This means nothing but that you have no confidence in your children. Instead, it hurts the child's' self-esteem'.

Of course, there are still many places to pay attention to. Everyone has his own different understanding, and can also make corresponding adjustments according to actual needs. Finally, I wish you can teach your child well as you wish, and your child can grow up happily and healthily.