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1. There are many teachers' feedbacks, or parents all want their children to be excellent and different, so they are very demanding of their children. Once the child's reaction speed is slow, he will blame the child for his slow homework, but the child did not deliberately slow down. Therefore, when they do their homework, they will show impatience.

Children are like a blank sheet of paper when they study. Parents should first encourage their children and provide them with training. Don't always talk about him. Very slowly, they will knock on the table at every turn, which will not work, but then the children will feel scared and insecure. If parents keep urging, it is easy to cause children's boredom. Children who are slow in homework usually feel inferior at home and are afraid of being scolded for writing mistakes. So, as parents, don't hit your child. Secondly, even if they are urged, it will not have any effect. ...

3. What should I do if my child can't keep up with the speed of homework? First of all, at this time, parents should observe calmly, analyze the reasons why children are slow to write homework, and prescribe the right medicine according to different situations to let children improve their speed. On the other hand, children can't improve the speed of other aspects, which leads to the inability to concentrate on things. So they should pay more attention, give him some time, and then continue to encourage. Tell him it's great. Much faster than last time. Even for five minutes, you need praise. As long as you improve, praise, train your child more and give him a plan. It should be reasonable, such as washing his face, setting a time for him, when to wash it, and what to do after washing, so that children can change the phenomenon of slow homework ... Let's share it here today, thank you. ...

Today, President Xiong wants to share with you how to improve children's enthusiasm for homework and solve the problem of children's inattention in homework.

The reason why children refuse to do their homework.

Several situations and solutions of children's homework difficulties

First of all, let's recall the scene where you did your homework with your children.

"Well, good boy, after dinner, go and do your homework."

The child didn't move.

"Don't sleep until you finish writing today."

Maybe at this time, obedient children can run to the desk and start doing their homework; But after a long time, I still didn't finish it.

You hold back your anger and say as gently as possible, "How long will it take to finish?" .

"10 minutes!" .

Well, I'm going to bed in 20 minutes.

I believe most parents are angry at their children's procrastination in doing their homework. Big data shows that more than 90% of parents have the experience of taking their children to do homework, and more than half of parents take their children to do homework every day, which often leads to conflicts between parents and children.

Then why do most children reject doing homework? There are two reasons:

On the one hand, it is really difficult to do homework;

On the other hand, when you communicate with your child in imperative language, he will feel commanded and controlled, so he has instinctively resisted.

When talking to children, many teachers and parents are always used to it. What do you need to do? What shouldn't you do? What are you going to learn now? Let's stop and think, shall we?

Parents and friends can try this way of communication, such as: Baby, go play first, and mom will let you finish your homework in 30 minutes, okay?

Then let's talk about several common situations and solutions of children's difficulties in doing homework.

If your parents and friends are supervising your children to watch TV, but at the same time ask them not to watch TV, do their homework quickly. Children will definitely feel unfair and unhappy.

If adults also read books and don't disturb children, they can create a strong family learning atmosphere.

You can say to your child, "Son, you are responsible for your own affairs. It's time to go to bed now, and I can't write any more. Go to school tomorrow and explain to the teacher why I didn't finish my homework. "

Say to the child, "It's time for you to do your homework. If you don't achieve it, you will be criticized. " How long do you want to see it? "

Child: "I think 10 minutes is ok?"

You: "Keep your word, then turn off the TV." Both sides take a step back.

Therefore, parents should learn to sympathize, allow and listen to their children's complaints, and tell their children that mom and dad have experienced it and know that you have a lot of homework, but mom and dad believe that you will finish it well!

When children's complaints are understood and responded, it is easy to accept parents' suggestions and concentrate on completing homework.

I'm Xiong, headmaster of Wuhan. I graduated from Beihang University and Huake University. I have studied and started a business. Now I work in a management consulting company and an educational institution in Wuhan. Welcome to discuss education with me.

If children can't finish their homework in time, my personal experience will definitely urge them, and they should form the habit of urging them for the following reasons:

First, children's self-discipline ability will be weak, and they often need to be restrained and urged. If left unchecked, it will definitely become more and more procrastinating, so children go astray and parents must correct them.

Second, it is not the main purpose to supervise the completion of homework. The ultimate goal is to let children develop good study habits through supervision or reward and punishment.

Third, don't expect children to take the initiative to do everything. Parents need to guide and restrain their children before they can form norms.

Sugar-coated shells are never out of date, as long as the scale is well grasped.

"Should children be urged to do homework?" According to my personal experience, the answer is no: you shouldn't rush into it. There are three reasons.

1, which is determined by children's cognitive characteristics. Children, especially children in the lower grades of primary school, are mainly intuitive in their cognitive characteristics, which determines the efficiency of their homework. Interesting and intuitive homework, naturally high learning efficiency and fast completion; If it is not interesting and intuitive, the learning efficiency will naturally be low.

2. Children's psychological characteristics. Learning psychology is directly proportional to learning efficiency, specifically, the operation speed is fast and slow. In view of the problem of slow homework, most parents' solution is to supervise and urge, and the result can only be that the more they urge, the slower they can't stop. In the long run, there will be obstacles in learning psychology, which will further encourage the so-called "rebellion." This is what parents don't want to meet.

3. Learning is a process of waiting for flowers to bloom. No matter whether you are in Grade Three or Grade Three, especially children who are slow in doing homework, they should be cared and cared for by their parents, and encouragement and companionship are preferred.

In short, it will be lucky for parents and children to accompany them patiently and help them take the first step in learning the Long March. Respect for learning rules, respect for children's psychological characteristics, companionship and encouragement, starting from parents, starting from the lower grades of primary school, children will be more confident, more energetic and more motivated in future learning activities.

I wish children can enjoy the sunshine of companionship and encouragement from an early age, sweat all the way and sing all the way!

Thanks for reading!

Should children be urged to do their homework? It depends.

If the child can do it well by himself. There's no need to worry.

If the time is too long, and

If you don't concentrate, parents have to find a way. But simply urging will not have a good effect.

The best way is to establish rules and improve efficiency.

Make an agreement with your child to finish your homework when you get home, how long it will take to finish your homework, and let your child control the time after you finish it, or other things that children are interested in.

At the beginning of establishing the rules, parents should be accompanied and supervised properly, and parents can let go after getting used to it. Children will follow this habit and finish it automatically.

Develop good study habits when you are young, and you will get twice the result with half the effort in the future. Find a good way. Don't worry. We should solve this problem for a long time.

This requires the accurate judgment of parents. First, what kind of natural temperament the child belongs to; Second, analyze the reasons of slowness in detail; Third: whether it is normal behavior or accidental behavior; Fourth: the performance of daily life.

1. First, it takes too long to accompany students to watch their children's classes. And record the duration, including the specific duration of each item and each question. Communicate with your child calmly, listen to his feedback, and then give help and guidance. Maybe I can't. I haven't thought about it for long.

2. The whole is slow. Is it because children have higher requirements for the quality of homework, stroke by stroke and neatness? If there is, we can communicate with our children. Chinese characters really represent our image, but the exam has time control requirements, and we need to improve efficiency while ensuring quality. If so, it is also necessary to cultivate children's concept of time in life. Therefore, the above two items are not recommended to be urged, and we need help and guidance.

3. If you are distracted and play with ink, then this kind needs to be urged. But be sure to pay attention to the method. It's no use nagging and reprimanding every day. Need to outsmart! For example, it is linked to the time when children play freely, or to the aspects that children are interested in. It is worth reminding that when the child meets the requirements, you must honor your promise. Therefore, before making the rules, consider the specifics first and reach an understanding with the children. Don't give your child any more learning projects after he finishes, so he will think that you have broken your promise and will continue to ink in the future.

There used to be a joke that citizens were divided into several classes. In this class, parents who helped their children with their homework were positioned as third-class and fourth-class citizens. Why? I guess it's because many parents watch their children's homework. I think watching children's homework should do the following:

First, don't worry.

Homework is done step by step. Why should parents rush him? Urging makes you feel bad, and children feel even worse. It is not conducive to the completion of homework.

Second, don't interrupt.

Some parents will send milk, water and fruit later. Actually, I'm just going to see how my children write. Children should be trained to finish their homework independently.

Third, create a good learning environment.

Children can't do their homework, and parents are watching TV outside, which is very loud. Children can't learn.

Fourth, children have questions and answer them patiently.

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Hello, I have some comments here.

First of all, we should distinguish whether children don't do their homework or write slowly.

If children don't do their homework at all, it's an attitude problem. No homework left by the teacher! At this time, parents need to pay more attention and remind their children to do their homework in time. And make some interventions: why don't you do your homework when you don't talk to your children? Have you forgotten? Didn't the teacher leave it? Really can't write. Put the first two aside, if you really can't write it, parents and friends must not worry, and don't say why you can't write it. Didn't you listen to the teacher? Wait, something like that. Our aim is to let children do their homework and consolidate their knowledge. At this time, parents can smile: it's okay, mom (dad) will teach you. In the process of teaching homework, it may be very painful and blood pressure will rise. Parents and friends always remember that children are their own, and we don't care who cares!

If children do their homework just because they write slowly. Parents should also analyze whether children write slowly. Or is it a waste of time to master knowledge and not write? The former is anxious and needs children to practice for a while. In the latter case, don't be afraid to tell your child before you write your homework. If not, you can talk to your mother (father) and I'll teach you. Let children do homework with peace of mind and eliminate the feeling of being afraid of doing homework.

With the help of parents, children can finish their homework in time, even if it is only a little early, we should praise them. The "Rosenthal effect" points out that expectation and praise can produce miracles.

Many parents will encounter this problem. If it were me, I would analyze and solve it from two aspects. On the one hand, if the child is dawdling, looking around and absent-minded when writing homework, I will understand the situation, do the child's ideological work and let the child do homework. Again and again, I will teach you a severe lesson. But I won't talk about time like other parents, asking children how long it will take to finish Chinese homework and math homework. Because this is related to children's understanding of what they have learned and the depth of the topic. Secondly, my consistent practice is to make a timetable with my children and we will strictly implement it together. If the child is lazy or forgets to do his homework for fun, I won't remind him. Because I think parents should remind me of everything, and children will form the habit of dependence. If you don't obey the rules, you will be punished. Let children know from an early age that they can do their own things and cannot rely on anyone.

If children have strong self-management ability, once they start to do homework, they can finish it within the specified time without urging.

But most children may have "procrastination" in their homework. If you don't hurry, he will play while writing. Half an hour's homework can't be finished in a few hours.

Only by getting rid of children's "procrastination" can we fundamentally solve the problem. It is suggested that a child should finish everything he wants to do before doing his homework. For example: drinking water, eating, going to the toilet, sharpening pencils, etc. Once you start your homework, don't leave your ass on the stool until you finish it! (depending on the situation, you can stop over to go to the toilet. )

There is another way: if you procrastinate too much and don't finish writing within the specified time (excluding the above situation), you should punish him, for example, not going to school, so that he will not deliberately delay next time.