Parents also attach great importance to their children's academic performance. After all, in society, only people with high academic qualifications have more choices, and leaders will pay more attention to you. Of course, this does not mean that you can get wealth directly with a good education, but there are far more opportunities than others.
As parents, we all feel sorry for our children, and no one wants to make them suffer more. So parents are more willing to let their children read more books.
However, not all children can read good books. For those children who are born unsuitable for studying, it is a waste of effort, which not only wastes time, but also won't achieve much.
Professor Li Meijin, a famous child-rearing expert, has been studying juvenile criminal psychology for many years. He knows children's psychology like the back of his hand and is good at educating them.
Professor Li believes that children do not expect to learn, but can see it from their kindergarten period, because they will have very obvious characteristics.
When you first heard this sentence, you might think that Professor Li Meijin's words were unreasonable. How can you judge your child's future through some small actions when he was a child?
But in fact, what Professor Li Meijin said does have some truth.
As the saying goes, you are old at three, and you are old at seven.
Although this sentence was summed up by people in the past, it does make sense. Because children's education in the first three years is very important and will affect their whole lives.
Montessori, a famous child educator, also mentioned the importance of the first three years of life. She believes that these three years are every stage of future development, which is better than the sum of three years old and death.
Therefore, don't underestimate this period, which is very crucial when children are 3-7 years old. It is precisely because of this that people will say that enlightenment education is very important.
Whether it is a child's personality, or a child's IQ and learning ability, it will basically be shaped before the age of 3, and it will not be easy to change in the future.
And even if there is a change, it will not be as rapid and obvious as when 1-3 years old.
Therefore, in the matter of educating children, we have always insisted that parents educate themselves instead of letting the elderly take full responsibility. Because this is crucial and irreplaceable, once the old man spoils the child, it will be difficult for the child to change in the future.
Therefore, in order to educate children well and make them become excellent and promising people in the future, parents should pay attention to their education when they are 1-3 years old.
1, curious, like to ask why.
Everyone is curious, even children, especially children who have just learned to speak. They are very curious. When they meet new things, they will ask all kinds of questions, such as "Dad, why is the earth round?" "Mom, why is it dark?" "Mom, why do you have long hair?" Wait a minute.
Faced with these questions, many times parents don't know how to answer them. Some parents have patience to answer them at first, and then they are disgusted and don't even let their children ask questions. Obviously, it is wrong for parents to restrict their children in this way.
Smart children are usually curious. They have an extraordinary thirst for knowledge in their lives, and so do they in their studies. They may always ask questions from their teachers and take it as their pleasure to ask questions to master knowledge. At this time, children will also learn well.
Therefore, if your child loves to ask questions and why, you must patiently answer his various questions and let him feel the joy of learning, so that your child can gradually become a schoolmaster!
2. Like reading.
My friend Xiaoli, whose child is now the headmaster of the class. Xiaoli accompanied her children to parent-child reading every day when they were young, and read picture books and books with them. The children are also very interested. When they grow up, children also form a good habit of reading. They insist on reading every day, broaden their knowledge and learn a lot of extracurricular things.
Reading is beneficial, although it is not obvious as a child, but with the passage of time, children gradually accumulate a lot of vocabulary and learn a lot of knowledge, which will show advantages in future study. Moreover, developing the habit of reading can also improve the thinking ability, and the chances of becoming a schoolmaster in the future are even greater.
3. Strong concentration and serious study.
"People's thinking is amazing. As long as you focus on a certain cause, you will surely achieve amazing achievements. "
Hard-working children are more likely to become principals than careless children.
People who concentrate on their studies can allocate their time reasonably and understand when and what to do. You can also concentrate on doing things when you are doing things, so that you can finish what you should do efficiently. Concentration is a kind of ability that a schoolmaster must possess.
4. I like handmade toys and have strong hands-on ability.
Children who like to play with handmade toys since childhood have strong hands-on ability, not only jumping in thinking, but also strong desire to explore. Such a child is very eager to explore knowledge when he grows up. It must be reading materials. Of course, parents can also exercise their children's ability through some toys.
I strongly recommend this "live" paper toy from Japan-"Shake your chin and open your own dynamic paper toy". It can not only help children develop hand movements and cultivate a sense of space, but also enhance their cognition and stimulate their desire to explore.
The origami works are beautifully designed, as if they were endowed with magic and fresh life.
Little monkey who can do somersaults.
A wolf that can eat.
A fast-moving turtle
The paper toys endowed with vitality are lively and interesting, and children can't put them down!
According to the classic fairy tale design, a set of 18 paper toys can jump, jump and automatically pop up, which is full of fun!
Grandma Wolf in Little Red Riding Hood
Hard-working turtles and lazy rabbits in the tortoise-rabbit race
Classic fairy tale "The Tortoise and Rabbit Race"
The Magic Pumpkin Car in Cinderella
The classic fairy tale Cinderella
I tell these classic stories to my children while making toys. After reading it, I can also retell the classic scenes in fairy tales with my children, that is, to increase my knowledge and cultivate my children's language expression ability. Isn't it interesting?
The paper models made by Nakamura all contain ingenious mechanisms and many classical mathematical and physical knowledge: solid geometry, gears, forces, elasticity and so on.
It leads children from plane, to stereo, to bounce, and children's spatial reasoning and logical thinking are developed step by step. This is very helpful for studying geometry and physics in the future.
In the process of spelling, children will invest great patience and enthusiasm, and their concentration, graphic ability and hands-on ability can be improved, so that they can really use their hands and brains.
Crushed cardboard becomes a three-dimensional penguin when thrown out. In fact, it is borrowed from China's ancient black technology-tenon and mortise. Through a series of folding and connecting, the model automatically unfolds and becomes a three-dimensional paper model by touching the tenon at the bottom.
The wolf bared his teeth and gently pinched his waist, making the wolf open his mouth, revealing Little Red Riding Hood calling for help. In fact, he has an elastic rubber band in his body.
The tumbler penguin, it turns out, has a coin hidden in its ass.
Why do crocodiles open their mouths and why do pumpkin carts drive? These little secrets are waiting for the children to explore for themselves.
This set of paper toys is made of special cardboard, which is thick and durable. As long as it is not violent, it can be played repeatedly for a long time, so it is cost-effective!
At the same time, the die-cutting and line pressing process is adopted, which saves the process of scissors cutting, and children can use it directly, which is very safe!
The donated production materials include rubber bands, tweezers and white latex. Safety materials!
Even a small rubber band has been repeatedly tested and selected, and the most durable one has been selected.
A small hand-made origami is ever-changing. In the process of folding, children's intelligence and hands-on ability have been greatly developed.
Read the instructions, study the folding direction, and exercise the children's observation and thinking ability.
Hands-on paste, installation, exercise children's fine hand movements and hand coordination skills.
After completion, children can build story scenes according to toys and exercise their imagination and language skills.
Small origami brings endless happiness and growth to children, develops intelligence, activates thinking, and promotes the overall coordination of the trinity of hand, eye and brain.
This set of paper toys was originally only listed in Japan, and many China treasure moms can only buy them by purchasing, which is not only troublesome, but also expensive, reaching more than 200 yuan.
A set of+tools+teaching videos is only 139.9 yuan! 2 sets of 299.9 yuan, suitable for families with 2 babies! 3 sets of 349.9 yuan, suitable for families with 3 babies! Let every baby have a happy childhood!
It can not only help children quit mobile phones and TV, but also give them a new experience, bring them happy time and increase parent-child interaction. Suitable for children of all ages! Even adults can't help playing!
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