The accumulation of language should learn from others, advocate stealing sentences, words and writing, and do not advocate long-term imitation and plagiarism. Learn to write what you want to say and what you want to write in other people's way. Parents should help their children capture interesting details in life and accumulate writing materials.
Reading, traveling, watching TV and listening to storytelling are all good ways to help children broaden their horizons. Since the third grade children began to learn to write compositions, Chinese teachers are often asked such questions: "Teacher, why don't you sign up for a composition class for your children?" Writing a composition is not an easy task for many children, but can signing up for a composition class really solve their writing problems? A child who has a headache when writing a composition, a child who can't write a few words at his desk for a long time, and a child who writes a diary, can a composition class really write a good composition? In fact, it is difficult for children to write a composition for two reasons: one is that they don't know what to write, and the other is that they don't know how to write.
"I don't know what to write" because I am not good at observing and thinking in life; "I don't know how to write" is because of poor vocabulary, insufficient accumulation and no skills. Of these two aspects, only skills can be trained in composition class, and the rest still need parents to help their children after class. How to help them specifically? First, parents should be "cameras" for their children.
Many things happen around us every day, some are interesting and some are touching. If the child ignores it, parents should help the child capture those pictures in time like a camera and help the child develop a good habit of paying attention to observation. And those pictures can be used as the material for children's writing and written into the composition.
There is a girl named Han Xiao in the class. One day, she wrote a children's poem to the effect that her toes are tired of socks every day, so the big toe said to the other toes, "Do you want to go out for a stroll?" Several other toes shook their heads one after another, but the big toe didn't care so much, arching around, and finally sticking his head out of his socks: "Wow, the air outside is so fresh." Seeing this article, I can't help cheering for the children.
You know, it is not uncommon for children to write compositions nowadays, but there are not many innovative articles. The child's thinking is really amazing.
I asked the children that it was Han Xiao who found the socks rotten when she put them on in the morning and asked her mother to sew them for herself. While sewing socks, her mother inspired the children: "You often read fairy tales. Can you think about it? If it is in a fairy tale, why do toes come out? " Why do socks rot? "Inspired and inspired by my mother, an ordinary little thing in life has thus become a fresh fairy tale poem. This mother is a person full of curiosity about life. She once wrote a Weibo: Suddenly she found this "two" with so many pronunciations! Guangdong people read "Yi", Fuzhou people read "Rotten", Shanghai people read "Ni" and Xinyang people read "Love". Just walking the dog, I heard a passerby say "I doubt the music house" (25 10), I don't know where the accent is, haha.
I especially appreciate this mother's attitude towards life. Our life is full of such boring things. As long as you are sensitive to people and things around you and accumulate rich experience, writing a good composition is not a problem. No matter how old you are, as long as you are curious about life, observe and think more, something new will always happen.
If you want to help your child write a good composition, you should first pay attention to the little things around you. Parents should pay more attention to being a "camera", and children will slowly compare gourd paintings, pay attention to the details in life, and accumulate materials for composition.
Second, parents should be "clairvoyant" and "clairvoyant" to their children. "No one will succeed casually."
This sentence is absolutely right. There are not many geniuses, and the parents of excellent children must have made efforts in this respect.
So don't believe the words "My children never have to take care of themselves, and I don't know how to learn well". Nine times out of ten, the parents who said this were perfunctory. It's naive of you to neglect your children. I once taught a boy. He is very naughty and often invites his parents to fight, but he is never careless in his studies, especially in his excellent compositions.
At a parent-teacher meeting, I asked his mother to share her experience in educating children. The boy's mother made a PPT carefully and told everyone in great detail how she accompanied her children to read, watch TV and listen to storytelling, thus improving their Chinese literacy.
She showed us the children's bookshelf with photos. Children's books are very complicated, such as philosophy, science, history, military, mathematics, nature, fairy tales, masterpieces ... In this mother's words, children must be balanced in nutrition and read everything whether they like reading or not.
In addition, she is good at children's reading and is good at picking books for children. The first time I read Huang Beijia's book, it was this child who "borrowed" it for me. In addition, she stressed that if children study and read books at home, parents must also study or work, so that children can study with peace of mind.
Although the child is old enough to read independently, she still reads to the child. The child enjoyed this time very much. Sometimes, in the middle of reading, parents answer a phone call or pretend to walk away, and children will continue reading by themselves. He didn't know that his mother was snickering. Many parents have a negative attitude towards their children watching TV. They have many concerns: poor eyesight, time delay, mixed media information ... It seems reasonable, but this mother encourages her children to watch TV, but the condition is that everything is under the control of parents, and children can't watch TV alone.
Everyone understands that "children can't watch TV alone". Then what is "you can't watch TV at will"? In other words, when watching TV, you should choose TV programs suitable for children. What can children see? Documentaries and celebrity interviews in lecture rooms, news broadcasts, science and education channels and documentary channels, and occasionally military programs can be watched.
In order to let the children watch TV better, she also ordered it.
2. What if the child can't write a composition? Hello. Personally, it is not urgent for children to learn to write a composition. What composition tutorial class do you attend? It is easy to imprison children's imagination, stylize your composition, and see the vitality and vitality of the world without children's perspective. Therefore, parents are advised to stimulate their children's interest by constantly taking them outdoors to feel the sunshine, scenery and entertainment. Interest is a child's teacher. With the interest in writing, children's observation ability is constantly enhanced, and children will write different compositions. Parents should be more patient when helping their children expand their horizons. Gentle and silent follow-up induction is an incentive for children.
My relative's children (boys) also have writing difficulties. I suggest parents take their children to outdoor activities and teach them some knowledge in time when they go to a scenic spot or see something. For example, the observation of spring, the appearance of willow leaves, winter jasmine, the color of buds on grass, the names of insects and so on. , can enrich children's knowledge and can be used in future writing. After doing this for a long time, the child's composition has improved. So I believe you can do it too!
3. What if the child can't write a composition? It is normal for children not to write compositions. The key is no longer writing, but imitating. Children are not born to know, and we all know that all children's behaviors come from imitation, which is the basis of all learning.
Buy him a composition book and let him imitate it himself. Few children can write good articles by themselves in primary school. Miss Neighborhood's compositions are all imitated from the composition book. This year, from the second grade to the sixth grade, the Chinese is not less than 97 every time. In fact, think about it, that is, most high school students imitate excellent works of college entrance examinations over the years, not to mention children? So it is enough for him to imitate a complete collection of works.
Of course, it is necessary to buy books, and it is very important to imitate more. For example, my neighbor's little sister asks her father to write a weekend diary every week.
Of course, the most important thing is that nine times out of ten, children can't write because they don't have to write, but they actually write to make up for it, telling children that writing is not for keeping a diary, but for truth. Writing can be not only true, but also imaginary things, things you hope or don't want to happen.
When your children get rid of the point that writing is about writing experienced or real things and imitating the composition book, the composition in primary school is as simple as that.
However, the real thing is a fixed thinking, which is difficult to change. Children can be asked to write some untrue events in the form of propositions, for example, if I were a white cloud. Or you can let him start with a fake event: for example, you don't have a dog at home, and you let him write that your dog was killed by a car, which is very sad. How to unfold? You don't teach him, let him imitate the composition himself.
Of course, if you have other better methods, so much the better.