Rui Rui is my No.1 good friend, belonging to the kind where parents are good friends and children naturally play together as soon as they are born. We sleep in the same bed together, fishing, cooking, telling stories and sharing secrets with each other. Now she is studying in Britain, and I am fighting for my career at home. Everyone belongs to the type with good academic performance, so parents don't have to worry too much. We also sit on the same piano and play our favorite music. We have the same piano idol.
My wife is my second best friend, and the preschool class is in the same class. Later, it was really fate. From elementary school to junior high school to senior high school, they are all in the same class. At that time, she and I often lined up 1 and 2 in the class, and we were always competing, and no one would let anyone learn. But there are good friends in private, eating potato chips, watching cartoons and learning to sing together ... this is the friendship of girls.
At that time, we even agreed to be admitted to the same university and strive to spend college time together. Finally, I went to Tianjin and she went to Shanghai. After going to college, our real practice decreased. I was depressed at that time. I thought the university could continue to study with my best friend. We live in different cities, study different majors and have different circles, which causes the distance between us to get farther and farther. From the beginning, I often chat on the phone, then I just chat on QQ, and finally I greet you occasionally.
Sima is my third best friend, older than me. We met because of a foreigner, and we are both particularly interested in English. Over the years, we have exchanged many experiences in learning English. She also learned English according to her own wishes and became an English teacher after graduation. After work, the distance between us really began to widen. Everyone was in different cities and engaged in different occupations. She chose to stay in her hometown while I chose to go out. Everyone began to disagree on their work views, and no one could convince anyone. In this way, everyone continued to work in their respective posts, and talked about the troubles at work from before to now. Because the friends around us don't have too many intersections and are not in the same city, our contact will gradually decrease.
In fact, it's not that our feelings have faded, nor that we stopped contacting each other when we grew up.
But every good friend will appear in your life for a while, and then go in different directions. Because everyone chooses a different path, they will definitely go by themselves in the end.
On the way forward, if you encounter difficulties and setbacks, you can tell them and they will comfort you, which is enough.
True friends don't need too much, and they don't need to contact each other every day, just need to know you.