Only when we realize that this situation exists objectively can we have the patience to educate our children, otherwise, complaining about our children blindly and being grumpy will only lead to haste makes waste of time and a vicious circle.
Secondly, we should establish children's confidence in learning mathematics well.
When your children are afraid of math, they should give priority to encouragement, with less accusations and complaints. He can adopt "small steps", that is, let the children do simple problems first, and when he does it right, he will be rewarded in time, and then gradually improve his requirements on this basis, so that every small step forward will enhance his confidence and gradually build up his confidence in learning mathematics.
Cultivate children's interest in learning mathematics.
When you find that your child doesn't like mathematics, you should calmly analyze the reasons: Is it because mathematics is too abstract and difficult to understand, or because the foundation has not kept up and it is difficult to learn, which leads to the loss of interest in mathematics learning? Find the reason and then prescribe the right medicine. If there is a hole in the foundation, fill it for him. If you find mathematics difficult to understand, you can give him more vivid examples, make some vivid metaphors, or use more intuitive learning tools to make him understand. Remember, understanding is the premise of children's interest.
Use other interests to "graft".
When you find that children are not interested in math learning, but have a strong interest in other aspects, you should skillfully "graft" your interest. For example, if a child likes painting, he will use his own specialty to draw geometric figures in mathematics, and when drawing geometric figures, let him learn the relevant knowledge in geometry imperceptibly; For another example, children like to play computer games, so they should buy some math game cards for them to study and play on the computer.
Guide children to discover more mathematics knowledge in life.