Are you on the verge of collapse when your child is tired of learning, rebellious or not confident?

Next, I will share with you how to make children gain self-confidence, learn to learn and have a peaceful attitude in adversity through character education.

Teenagers' personality, starting the first 1 episode today, still failed in the exam. How to reverse it? Once, a first-grade child got 88 points in math test, and the teacher wrote two striking words on the test paper. What a shame. What would you do if your child came to you with this test paper to sign?

We often find that parents have two ways to deal with it. Which one are you?

1 The test paper is very angry. I tell my children why you are so poor. I got this score in the first grade math exam. Study hard. You didn't get 58 points in the sixth grade. You see, I am busy working outside every day. Look at the teacher's evaluation of you. The teacher says you are so poor that the teacher doesn't like you. You really disappoint me, you know? Some parents will slap their children after criticizing them. Imagine what kind of results such education will produce.

Parents casually said, worthless, disappointed, these humble words, but gave the child self-denial and lost confidence.

Second, I took my children to school and let them learn to blame. In the future, once you encounter something, especially unfair things, you can't face it with peace of mind, but use angry accusations to solve the problem. I took this photo, which is my friend's child's test paper. When I saw this test paper, I had the following conversation with him. Your test paper scored 88 points, and the teacher also wrote the word "poor". How do you feel? He replied, teacher, I'm in a bad mood. I asked you why you were in a bad mood. She cried and told me that she didn't do well in the exam and felt uncomfortable. When you see that you didn't do well in the exam and feel uncomfortable, it shows that you are really motivated. Listening to * * * is the basis of communication, and good relations are the premise of education.

In the process of interactive questioning, the child gradually guides him to express his emotions instead of suppressing them. When I praise him for his ambition, I will also plant the seeds of ambition in her heart. Then I continued to ask, the teacher wrote the word "poor". How do you feel when you see this? She cried and answered, the teacher doesn't love me. The teacher thought I was poor, so I began to guide him. Why do I feel that the teacher wrote you badly, but I like you and care about you? When I spoke, I found him looking at me with an indescribable look. In his eyes, he said, you are an excellent student. In the teacher's mind, you are 60 points. When you got 95 points, the teacher said that this score is not that you are too bad, but that you are too bad compared with your 95 points. Lele just shows a little smile on her face, facing setbacks and problems, causing children to think positively about beautiful things. Teachers take a fancy to it together, and at the same time distinguish the two concepts of bad grades and bad people to cultivate children's way of thinking. In fact, everyone can't do well in every exam, and it doesn't matter if they don't. The key is to analyze. You obviously will. Look at the question again and see if you understand it.

Therefore, when we lead our children to find and solve problems, we will find that the children have gained self-confidence and you are a very good child. Everything else is normal. After summing up my experience, I have confidence in you. I will study hard when I hear my happy smile. Don't be so emotional when you encounter problems. You are sure to get good grades next time. Failure is a normal way. It can also promote the relationship between teachers and students and guide children to deal with problems, face problems and talk about teachers. So be sure to calm your emotions. Yes, I want to tell you that teachers get up early and get greedy every day for the good of their children. But when we pay attention to children's grades, we must never suppress them. The paper is too bad. If we meet a wise parent, maybe our children's confidence will be destroyed from now on. Maybe some children will never recover.

We should not try to solve teachers' problems, but should adjust and guide positive thinking from ourselves and reshape the relationship between teachers and students. A good relationship is the premise of education. Feel the child's feelings and listen to her inner voice.

Constantly encourage and inspire children to maintain self-confidence and find solutions in problems. Education needs to control emotions, because we are facing fresh life.