Whether to go or not, and what school to go to, these topics have become hot topics on campus these days. With the allocation of recommended places from key high schools to junior high schools, the school has held both teachers' meetings and parents' meetings these days. However, in the face of walking, many parents made a difficult decision, whether to let their children prove themselves in the senior high school entrance examination or to strive for walking qualification. If the school is not satisfied with walking, will they go? To this end, the Morning Post reporter specially wrote three cases in previous years. Some of them choose to give up, some choose to fight for it, and some choose to accept it calmly, all of which are successful. Their experience may inspire many parents.

Story 1:

Pass on qualifications to other students.

Keywords: giving up walking to take the senior high school entrance examination

On the eve of his son's senior high school entrance examination, Chen Peixin was busy in the company as usual. The telephone on his desk suddenly rang. He was a little surprised when he answered the phone. That's Hu, his son's first teacher. Because his son has always been excellent at school, Chen Peixin seldom receives calls from Mr. Hu. The tone of the other party seems to be hesitant, and the shrewd old Chen feels a little strange: "Nothing, Mr. Hu, just say what you have." After a moment's hesitation, the other end of the phone finally spoke: "We hope that Yang Chen can give other children the opportunity to walk high."

A few days later, Chen Peixin fell into extreme contradictions. He knows very well how good his son is. He has been among the best in the public junior high school he attended and won prizes in various competitions. If you want to say go, it's no problem. But it makes sense to think about what Mr. Hu said. With the strength of Yang Chen, there is absolutely no problem to enter Gao Chong. Why not let him prove his strength in the senior high school entrance examination and give other students a chance at the same time?

After two days and two nights of thinking, Chen Peixin finally made a decision for his son: give up walking and take the senior high school entrance examination! In order not to affect Yang Chen's mood, he chose to keep a secret. But in fact, the school's suggestion for making such a decision is that, on the one hand, Chen Peixin also has "selfishness".

In Chen Peixin's mind, Yang Chen was a self-conscious and positive child since childhood. He is particularly interested in mathematics and physics. He bought books for the Olympics, and he has collected a whole box. He was still studying after preparing for the competition 12. Chen Peixin thinks that his son's tenacity is commendable, but his psychological endurance needs to be strengthened. Once, because of a mistake in a math contest exam, I changed the correct answer and missed the first prize. Chen Sheng sulked and shut himself up for a day. Chen Peixin taught children that no pains, no rewards, and no need to put too much pressure on themselves when their efforts failed to achieve the desired results. The most important thing is not to make similar mistakes in the future. After all, the senior high school entrance examination is only a small threshold on Yang Chen's learning road, and there will be college entrance examination, postgraduate entrance examination and so on. Chen Peixin has confidence in her children, and hopes that Yang Chen can accumulate more experience through the senior high school entrance examination and overcome her nervousness, irritability and annoyance.

Now, Yang Chen has been admitted to a school that was recommended by the students with excellent results and outstanding performance. He is an excellent student in the eyes of teachers and an example in the eyes of his classmates. Chen Peixin said with a smile, although his son occasionally wondered why he didn't go on with such good grades, he hoped that this secret would remain a secret forever, so that Yang Chen could continue to realize his dream step by step.

"Fortunately, I finally figured it out myself, and my daughter took the test with a mentality. The result was good. She walked smoothly. Now my daughter studies very hard and is very active in all aspects. My wife and I are very proud of her! " Lin Yan mentioned her daughter's twists and turns last year, and she is still very emotional.

At this time last year, my daughter Jewel Lee gave a letter to her parents to Lin Yan: "Mom, the school is recommending students to walk. Do you think I should sign up? " Jewel Lee studied in a high-quality public junior high school. Although he got good grades, it seems that he is still a long way from the standard of walking. Without much consideration at that time, Lin Yan threw her daughter a sentence: "Whatever." However, her husband Li Wei is very concerned and actively encourages her daughter to sign up: "Maybe she will be reported, of course, I will try!"

Li didn't expect to be right. Jewel Lee was chosen because many students with the top comprehensive ranking chose to give up. Fortunately, he became a "prospective student" and got the chance to walk to Changhe Senior High School. Jewel Lee and his father, Li Wei, were very happy about the accident and thought it was a hard-won opportunity. But at this time, Lin Yan was unhappy: "I hope Feifei can work hard on her own. Maybe if she is good, she can join the army." Lin Yan's words were like a plate of cold water, which suddenly extinguished the enthusiasm of the father and the daughter, but her reason was very good: "I don't think Feifei's strength has been fully exerted." She finally signed the waiver.

After that, the atmosphere at home became very stiff. Jewel Lee was so depressed that she almost stopped communicating with Lin Yanyan. Li Wei thinks she is too autocratic, regardless of the child's feelings. Are your expectations really too high? Lin Yan began to ask himself. Jewel Lee's head teacher called Lin Yan to express her apologies. At the same time, she felt that in the case of Jewel Lee, she really should cherish this opportunity for a walk. Lin Yan began to waver. Should she give her daughter a try? After many twists and turns, I finally gave Jewel Lee a "walk" qualification.

In Changhe High School, Lin Yan accompanied her daughter to the examination room to cheer for her. Jewel Lee confidently said to her, "Mom, I won't let you down!" Watching her daughter walk into the examination room easily, Lin Yan suddenly felt relaxed, and success is not important. And Li Fei has really realized himself, and achieved excellent results in comprehensive quality evaluation, and successfully walked to Changhe Senior High School. "Others say that Feifei is outstanding. In fact, I think Feifei is facing it because of her mentality. " Ms. Lin also hopes to use her own experience to remind parents this year not to toss and turn like her and cherish the opportunity for children to walk.

(At the request of the interviewee, all the above names are pseudonyms. )

Story 2: Choose to leave at the critical moment.

Keywords: indecision, difficult choice