Speaking of children's primary school life may be a little far away, but I have to say that establishing contact with children is a long-term thing, not just a surprise attack in large classes. In order to adapt to the rhythm of primary school well, many skills should be mastered by children in kindergarten.
I am grateful for countless times. Fortunately, I didn't pursue happy education in kindergarten to make him play silly. Otherwise, I wouldn't blow my beard and stare because I lost my rubber ruler and accidentally rolled my face. I've probably been on the verge of jumping off a cliff.
Now, I have become the mother of a first-grade pupil, and finally have a comprehensive understanding of her children's primary school life. I must correct my point of view. I think it is necessary to be young in the current educational environment, and I don't accept the rebuttal.
Before writing, I don't advocate children to write too early, because if their hands are not well developed, there may be pen-holding errors in writing too early, and it is difficult to correct them, so it is my consistent view that children should not start writing too early.
My children have had problems with holding pens until now, because they have been writing in kindergarten since the middle class. Learning to write is indeed a very contradictory problem. It is bad to start too early, and it is not good to start too late.
In the Chinese textbook of the first grade of primary school, the first unit is not pinyin, but writing. One, two, three, heaven and earth, people, ears, mouth, hands, etc. Therefore, when children go to primary school, the first thing to do is to write Chinese characters in Tian Zi Li. Surprised or not? Surprised?
Many people may think that how difficult it is to write is the simplest Chinese character. But?
Please read my child's homework carefully. I have to say that the teacher is really meticulous and thoughtful, leaving you homework by hand. Even Tian Zige painted so standard, for fear that his parents couldn't understand it in words. In order to teach parents to help their children do their homework better, they are not considerate.
Learn to write every day, and you can basically receive a small note that the teacher loves ... Although there are not many strokes, it is extremely accurate. In other words, when I see such a request, I think of myself. I may not be so particular about writing ... I might as well study elementary school again.
If your child didn't write in kindergarten, could he write like this at once? If you have experienced a child's initial writing stage, you will know that it is not easy for him to put his strokes together in a decent way. Why is he horizontal and vertical? Why does Tian Zi look at the center line?
I am very happy at the moment. Fortunately, my son practiced hard pen calligraphy in the big class.
This is my child's homework. If you look at it, you will find that teachers are not blind when they leave their homework. I will judge according to what requirements, and draw something wrong for you. Even if there is no ruler, it will be marked in red ink. So my children don't like to use rulers to make connections, which is a long-standing problem.
Including the wrong position of the word, it will also be marked, which is almost the standard of hard pen calligraphy to require children who have just entered school.
It is not difficult to write correctly, and it is not easy to write correctly. Almost every word has the requirement of key strokes, and the position of strokes should be correct. It's too difficult. Sometimes, seeing that he writes with trepidation, he is often dissatisfied with his writing, so he wants to help him write.
The short horizontal lines of "eyes" and "ears" should not be close to the vertical line on the right. The first stroke of "hand" should be written as a paragraph, not a horizontal line, but a hook. Without the foundation of hard pen calligraphy, it is impossible to say clearly.
Because he has learned hard pen, he has a concept of strokes, what is left off, what is short horizontal and what is vertical, so it is not difficult for the teacher to write a word-by-word homework.
This is the child's hard-pen homework. Although it's not so beautiful, at least I know what the plaid looks like and the most basic knowledge of calligraphy, such as left height and right height.
The child's fighting class has a good friend, who is in different classes in the same school. When he was in a big class, he went to a public kindergarten. He didn't teach anything at all, nor did his parents teach him much. One day, his father said to me sadly, "Does your baby do homework quickly?" I said, "The teacher didn't leave much homework, and he wrote fairly fast."
His father said, "We are worried about writing here. Just writing this will give you an hour of ink. " I thought, how can I ink for an hour? Just a few words ... his father slowly took out the child's exercise book. Oh, my god, the new book is quite mottled at the beginning of school.
His father said, "A word can be erased many times, but it can't be written together for you. The teacher's requirements are still so strict, just erase the writing. These can all stay. " Actually, it's not so good, but judging from the altered scores, I know the child tried his best.
This conversation is the last time I saw that young man come to the fighting field, and he hasn't been here since. I think I should strive for custody. ...
For primary school students, learning can't keep up, let alone interest classes. I'm also glad that Li didn't miss the interest class because he didn't finish his homework.
I recall that when my children were in the big class, the children in the fight class were playing on the playground. Only he must lie on the desk to finish his homework before class. After the fight class, he continued to write. All the other children went home in socks, but he kept on finishing his homework. It's really hard.
Looking back now, I am actually glad that the kindergarten teacher left hard homework, otherwise he could not insist on writing every day, and naturally he could not keep up with the rhythm of primary school.
Of course, I am also glad that I let him learn hard pen when I was in the big class. It's not that I don't know that it's not good to encourage young people, but under the tide of the overall aging of education, no child can be trapped, and I will choose to be bold and enterprising instead of making waves.
Let's talk about pinyin after writing pinyin.
After the first unit was finished, we opened the second unit, and aoe and iuü came into view. From single vowel and initial consonant to flat tongue and tip of tongue, to compound vowel, front nasal vowel and back nasal vowel, it is 63 * * *.
So you asked me if I wanted to learn Pinyin in the big class. In fact, I had the answer last winter, and I had to learn it, otherwise my children would not be able to keep up with it in primary school.
If you look at these 63 pinyin permutation and combination tables, you will know that it is impossible for a first-grade child to memorize, spell and dictate all of them in a short time. I think pinyin is difficult to learn, not to mention that children have so many other classes.
In other words, half of Li's pinyin was learned in kindergarten, and the big class learned 6 single vowels, 23 initials, 7 flat tongues and full tones of upturned tongues last semester. Let's just say that children aged five or six can't learn pinyin at all, and it takes a long time for children to master the above. When I say proficient, I mean seeing that I can spell correctly quickly and have a good dictation.
Originally, the teacher's lesson plan was to teach vowels and the rest, but it just happened to catch up with the epidemic, so I taught vowels and the whole reading related to vowels myself. Emma, that process was terrible. Don't blame me for not reminding you. Aoe and bpm are the simplest parts of pinyin. Those who have a basic knowledge of English will learn quickly, but don't be too happy. Vowels are the biggest problem.
After reading my mental journey, you can understand why I said that you must master Pinyin before primary school. It is because I have taught my children to learn Pinyin that I know Pinyin is really difficult to learn. It requires a lot of spelling and dictation for a long time, and it is not something that can be mastered overnight.
Think about the dense pictures above. So many permutations and combinations need to be marked with tones. Who should the tone be marked on? Are you going or not? Iu and ui, ei and ie, in, ing, yin and ying are confused. Jqx cannot be spelled with a, but it needs to be stressed. ...
Every teacher can mix, and Chinese books are taught in groups. ...
At the last minute of this unit, I will give you all the vowels and the whole recognition. You can study one set for three days at most, and then you can enter the next set.
I still remember that for a long time, children have been trying to distinguish the front nasal vowels (an, en, in, un, ün) ... after adding the back nasal vowels (ang, eng, ing, ong), they are even more crazy, and they will be mixed up until now when Li spells.
Most importantly, I found that he had learned Pinyin twice, and even bp and dq would be confused! ! ! Generally speaking, the process of pinyin is fast, and pinyin is not slow to digest. If you don't learn pinyin, what kind of collapse will parents have in the face of endless homework and dictation? Everyone will make up for it.
If you think it's only a matter of time before you learn pinyin, I'll slow down. I can always catch up. That's all wet, because the teacher's rhythm is so dynamic that you have no chance to catch your breath.
The so-called direct call is to read the pronunciation directly by looking at pinyin, without spelling steps. In other words, this requires children to be particularly skilled in pinyin in order to spell it at a glance. After learning pinyin, you are required to call directly. If you haven't learned it in advance, I'm afraid it's hard for an adult to make a direct phone call.
Try to teach your grandparents pinyin if you don't believe me. Do you think your grandparents do nothing every day and can call them in a short time? Children have other homework to do, and Pinyin is just one of the small projects.
Before, some people have been attacking learning in advance, fearing that children would not listen in class, but I have to say that what we learned in advance, to be honest, children may not have a solid grasp, and they may not be able to master it again. This is one of them.
Look at the teacher's loving reminder. Do you dare to say that your pinyin is standardized? Therefore, don't think that you don't have to learn when you learn children. Teachers' requirements are far more detailed than those of kindergartens. If you don't have a certain foundation, children should remember half a day's letters. How can he pay attention to writing norms?
Secondly, what we ask our children to do in kindergarten is the most basic. In primary school, teachers will make more difficult demands. If there is no foundation, children will only be dumbfounded and spoiled at school.
In addition, since the child began to learn aoe, the teacher has been dictating every day, almost one in the front foot and one in the back foot, which hardly gives you a chance to digest. If you haven't learned it before, think about it. Just learning pinyin with your child every night will kill you.
This is the dictation the day before yesterday, and the phonetic symbol is the eternal curse of children, hey ~
Therefore, we must learn pinyin, and we must learn it firmly, the kind that we can recognize, read and dictate. In primary school, it was not called learning at all, but reviewing and standardizing writing.
Math Math can be said to be my most confident part. In addition to mathematical thinking, I haven't let go of calculation. Everything from 10 is wrong, to add and subtract two digits and then to the multiplication table of 99. How can these skills keep him in the second grade? In my opinion, it's all the same. Isn't first grade math just like playing?
However, reality is still very skinny. The first time in Waterloo was a math quiz, with a score of 89 (it was later found that the teacher made two mistakes, but it should be 93). In my opinion, how difficult can this math problem be? Not 100, but 98, right?
Opening the newspaper didn't irritate me. I forgot to write when I was free, which is not standardized. There is a simple problem that is miscalculated.
I must say that there is a world of difference between taking children to brush the questions and thinking and doing them independently. Only after the exam did I know that the ability to read questions also needs to be cultivated.
I used to read books and take my children to do it. Of course, he can understand the meaning of the topic, especially when I began to improve his difficulty and do the next seven abilities. Because the topic was circuitous, I almost explained the intention of the topic to him, and then he consolidated it. This also led him to know what to do without looking at the questions at all.
The lack of this step directly caused him to be unable to take the exam at all, and he didn't have any exam skills. So you ask me, is it useful for young bridge classes? In my opinion, they may not be better than me, but some professional institutions will have exams, which will let children get used to them in advance.
So if you look at the report card, there are two particularly obvious points in the top ranking. First, they are basically girls. Second, most of them are trained by young people changing classes.
However, the test skills are not too big a problem at first, because we will know what is going on after two more tests. However, training children to read questions is my hindsight. Until now, I have a little regret that I had arranged too much. I should let the children try to understand the meaning of the problem themselves.
But this is the time to hide the flaws, and it is not too late to start paying attention now. I have been grappling with the problem of his independent reading. So don't think that I learned everything in advance. What else do children learn in primary school? If you are serious, you will find that there are a lot of new problems waiting for you to solve, and you will not be very idle.
Furthermore, I would also like to say that the enlightenment of mathematics is important, but it is also necessary to brush the questions later. You know, there is still a distance between understanding mathematical truth and doing the right problem.
I found that you said he wouldn't, he would ask, but he just couldn't do it well. If you see fewer questions, you will naturally make fewer mistakes. How do you know what you lack and what you need to pay attention to without making mistakes? So I always think that getting high marks is two different things, and the difference in the middle is a step of brushing questions.
Different from the pressure of fast-paced Chinese, up to now, the progress of mixed addition and subtraction within 10 is not fast, and even children who have not done initial training in mathematics can keep up. But mathematics is a subject with loose upper and lower limits. Although the daily homework is not too difficult, the teacher will test the child's upper limit with some super-standard questions from time to time.
For example, one day, my child said to me, "Mom, let me tell you, who is the art genius in our class?" The Tiananmen Square he painted is the same as that printed in the book. Who is a genius in China and I am a genius in mathematics! "
I'm curious, why are you a math genius? He said, "This is what the teacher said, because I came up with a problem that the whole class couldn't understand."
I was thinking, oh, how can it be so powerful? I said, what's the problem? He said: "It is a problem that a triangle plus a box plus a circle equals a number, and then a triangle plus a circle equals a number."
As soon as I heard it, I understood that this is a system of linear equations with three variables. He was able to do it right because he had practiced hard at home before.
At that time, I thought it was just a young connection. A system of linear equations with three variables will not have nothing, even if children can't do it. (Actually, I am also avoiding myself and don't want to work hard. )
But his father said that's impossible. How can I not teach my son to do equations when I am in the math 148 of the college entrance examination? Now that I think about it, I'm glad that the epidemic made Rong Dad idle and did something redundant.
Because it's real practice! You may ask, why do you practice this? This is not that we have any foresight, but that when I took my children to brush the young paper, it was really there! Because I can't, I strengthened my practice and the result was wrong. I also help my children grow up.
So, do you think it is important to brush the questions? Of course it matters. Starting from reading questions, to the knowledge of questions, and then to the repeated revision of each item, it is a plus item for children, which is the core competitiveness of first-grade mathematics.
English English should be the most popular project for mothers, but I will put it last and arrange it according to the difficulty of counseling. Generally speaking, ordinary primary schools (except schools with English characteristics such as foreign language attached primary schools) don't take English in the first and second grades, and even if they have English classes, they are only in the first and second grades.
Many schools do not even have textbooks. They rely on teachers to give lectures in class and have no written homework when they go home. At most, I read picture books and sing children's songs. Nothing is particularly difficult. Therefore, English, which many mothers attach most importance to, is actually the least important in the first grade homework of public primary schools.
Of course, it is undeniable that English will still be very important in the later period, but today we are talking about the connection between junior one and junior high school. I have to say, what makes me most nervous is English. However, English is always accumulated by watching, so I always let my children read the Oxford tree and so on.
The above is my initial impression of primary school life. After my children go to primary school, I have a special feeling that it is precious to learn more when I am not busy. Whether it is sports, poetry or even reading picture books, it may become a bright moment for children to attend classes.
I remember one day, Rong Da came back and told me excitedly that the teacher asked me to take the word "day", so I set up a word "Kuafu day by day" and asked me to take the word "day", so I set up a "goddess of mending the sky" and won a crescent medal. I'm so happy.
Every time I hear him talk about what happened at school, I feel that everything I have paid before is worth it because of something my parents told me. The soft power you add to your child will inadvertently become his personality charm.