AA vermicelli Wen Yi
Dear daughter:
Hello!
Suddenly you become a sophomore, and I am very happy to watch you grow up day by day. My daughter has not only grown taller, but also increased her knowledge and wisdom. She learned a lot of knowledge and culture.
Mom and dad already said they would write something for you. On the one hand, they recorded your growth process, on the other hand, they encouraged your growth and exchanged our ideas and opinions, but they always made excuses until now. Looking back recently, my daughter has gone through many things, running for class cadres, participating in the Olympic trials and joining the class library. Mom and dad are proud of you in many things, such as running for monitor. With the help of mom and dad, our daughter gave full play to her eloquence and finally won the election. But there are also some unsuccessful ones, such as the Olympic trials of the top giants. To tell the truth, daughter, you didn't play your real skill. It doesn't matter. Some people say that failure is the mother of success. I believe that our daughter will learn from experience and lessons and do better in all life stages in the future. Today, my father will discuss several issues with you.
Regarding study, my daughter is really more active than before. Generally speaking, she does well in every exam or test. She knows that the first thing to do after school is to finish her homework first. Dad also knows that you are interested in Chinese learning, followed by English, and the last thing you want to learn is Olympiad. Dad's experience is that in primary school, as students, Chinese, English and mathematics are the most basic courses. We should learn each course well and learn it solidly, because it is a basic course, which will be needed in junior high school, senior high school and university in the future. Both Chinese and English have a characteristic, that is, reading more and remembering more phrases and words. Mathematics lies in thinking more and analyzing more. When you do a problem, you should think of the fastest and simplest answer. Those problems are of the same kind. Mathematics is to be good at thinking and summarizing. Chinese and English cultivate a person's communication ability and language expression ability; Mathematics, on the other hand, cultivates a person's logical thinking ability, so when dad asks you to do the problem, you must analyze and think step by step, which is the truth.
Daughter, learning is everyone's life. Learn knowledge well when you are a student, realize your wishes and dreams in the future, and work for the country and the people. Dad told you the road to success in Ceng Zimo. She came step by step from the primary school attached to Peking University, to the middle school attached to the National People's Congress, and then to Dartmouth College in the United States. But dad just told you how they grew up. Everyone's growth and success are not necessarily the same, but the first prerequisite is to learn knowledge well in order to succeed. There is a proverb: if you don't work hard when you are young, your boss will be sad. It means that you didn't work hard as a student when you were young. When you are old, you will regret why you didn't study when you were young.
About being a monitor, my daughter, I can run for monitor again this time. Mom and dad are very happy for you. It shows that your daughter has a good relationship in the class, that is, she has a good relationship with her classmates, otherwise other students will not choose you. Isn't it wrong to say that the former members of the Commission for Discipline Inspection in your class are selfish, giving extra points to those who have a good relationship with them, reducing points to those who have a bad relationship, and scolding others loudly for not paying attention to ways and means? Dad was a group leader in elementary school and a monitor in high school. As a monitor, the first thing is to set an example. What students are required to do, such as study and discipline, must be done first. Therefore, as a monitor, we should study hard first, because studying hard is the most basic requirement of students; Second, we should act as a bridge for dialogue between teachers and students, carry out teachers' requirements and reflect students' opinions to all teachers; Decentralization is to organize students to actively participate in various beneficial social or campus activities; Fourth, in the class, we should care and encourage underachievers and reward advanced students with good performance. As a daughter, do you know why mom and dad encourage you to run for monitor? That's because being a monitor or other student cadres can cultivate a person's organizational and leadership skills, which is a very practical course. Of course, there are some requirements for being a monitor, right? Suffering comes first, happiness comes last? .
About other interest classes. The piano and Latin dance you are learning now, as well as the school chorus, are all extracurricular interest classes, but they will benefit you for life in the future. I have heard some older students complain why their parents didn't force themselves to learn a musical instrument when they were young. When you are old, you can't take part in many collective literary activities in your class, such as singing and dancing. Mom and dad didn't have these conditions and these courses when they were young, so now they are particularly envious when they see others playing flute and erhu. I can only blame myself for not learning them when I was a child. Piano can cultivate a person's cultivation and sentiment, and it is a very pleasant enjoyment when you enjoy such wonderful music yourself. Dance can cultivate a girl's figure and temperament, and she can walk gracefully instead of squatting, elegant instead of being timid. In a word, learning these interest classes will do you no harm. But, daughter, you must remember that we must learn something, not to mention that we spent money and wasted time. Therefore, you must take these interest classes seriously. If you really don't want to learn, we can learn something else and cultivate one or two hobbies, but we can't learn carelessly, delay time and waste money.
Finally, about honesty. You are mom and dad's daughter, and you are mom and dad's good friend. In our family, I can tell you everything, so that you can actively participate and speak, right? No matter now or in the future, we will always be your dearest people and your most loyal friends. What is a good friend? It means being honest, not cheating, not hiding, being friendly, understanding and caring about each other. Maybe maybe mom and dad ask too much of you, or expect too much of you. You always want to satisfy their vanity, and sometimes you always choose something good to tell us, or make up something nice to tell us, which parents don't want to see. No matter what you tell us is good or bad, as long as it is honest language, mom and dad will love it and will never blame you. On the contrary, it makes us sad that you don't tell the truth. Don't you want mom and dad to be your loyal friends? If a person loves to lie, no one else will be his good friend. And lying may hurt yourself later. Dad once told you a story. I can't remember the name of this story. It says that a stocking baby always lies when she goes to the mountains to stock. The wolf is coming. Did the wolf eat the sheep? In fact, there are no wolves coming. The first time and the second time, the villagers took the initiative to run up the mountain to save him and the sheep. When the wolf really came for the third time, did he wait? The wolf is coming. Did the wolf eat the sheep? People in the village no longer believed what he said. As a result, all his sheep were eaten by wolves. This story tells us that if a person always lies, others will not trust him. Anything he says will be considered a lie by others, and he won't have any good friends to help him. I hope our daughter can understand and deeply remember this truth.
Ok, that's all for today. I'll write next time I'm free.
Your father
April 2009 16
AA vermicelli Wen Er
Baby:
Yesterday, you took out a pen and paper and asked me to write a blessing. At the same time, you pretend to be nervous and say that the exam will be held in a few hours and minutes. I'm a little excited, just like I was a little surprised when I logged into your account after you were born and felt that you officially became a member of our family. At this moment, I suddenly realized that my daughter was going out of the naive primary school and into the middle school. Six years have passed since the day you went to primary school. You have grown from an ignorant little girl to a teenager who knows more than your mother in many ways.
Although you are taller than your mother, you always let your mother hug you and kiss you when you are free. Your attachment to me is the same as when you were a child. But the difference is that you have really made great progress in all aspects, which makes your mother very pleased.
Daughter is mother's close-fitting cotton-padded jacket. With you in my life, my mother will be the happiest woman in the world. You are as obedient as when you were a child. In our family, no matter what we ask you to do, you always answer at once and be as happy as you want. You are kind and generous, and you never hurt others. When you get along with your brothers and sisters, you are always modest and never haggle with them. You cherish the friendship with your classmates and friends, and you are always willing to communicate with them, so that they can feel your sincerity in your own unique way. What mom appreciates more is your attitude towards money. Although we don't give you much money, you are never stingy. Although you also like delicious snacks and fashionable and beautiful things, you don't like people who don't leave their mouths and spend money on shopping. You are filial to your grandmother, father and mother. If there is anything delicious, it will never be enjoyed by one person, but will be given to us first. Always make a phone call when you come home from school so that we don't worry about you outside. Mom and dad come home late, so you are always in a hurry to ask questions. A few times, your grandmother said that she was really anxious to see you like that ... You were most afraid of your mother's sadness and always comforted her when she was in a bad mood to make her happy. You don't let mom and dad worry, you were born smoothly, and you concentrated all the advantages of mom and dad; You grow up happily, and you never disturb your family to eat. Although you catch a cold occasionally, you will get well soon. Look at you now, you really make your mother feel a sense of accomplishment. You are tall, you are water, you are loved by all and praised by all. My daughter, thank God for giving me an imperfect but growing child.
Maybe the teacher left a lot of homework when you first went to school, or maybe you were young and had poor self-control. You often play tricks and deliberately leave some homework. But after the fourth grade, you seem to grow up suddenly, and your mother seldom worries about your study. Although the results are not very outstanding, but extensive knowledge, fluent and novel writing, generous and beautiful handwriting, so that many children can not match. And your generous singing and recitation also make us very proud.
What makes me more happy is that you have not only made progress in your study, but also been able to correctly look at your own advantages and disadvantages. You are determined to lose weight, and you are trying to straighten up. I hope knowledge and wisdom can make you the noblest woman in the world in the future. You are trying to change your carelessness, hope to learn to cook and manage your life, and hope to be a delicate girl. ......
I feel that the most distinctive sign of your growth is to have a clear and operable life ideal. You came up with the idea of writing Harry Potter VIII because you read it online, and you have put it into action: consulting materials, designing characters and conceiving plots. Many details you told me surprised me with your rich imagination, and the written part convinced me that you would succeed as much as you did.
After starting a blog on Sina, you still insist on writing in the face of heavy study tasks and primary school graduation, which makes your mother full of confidence in your ideal of becoming a beauty writer.
You also said that you would study the ancient culture of China, learn English well, and come to England as a teacher of Confucius Institute. I believe in your ability and will patiently accompany you to realize your ideals one by one. As long as we work together, these goals are not out of reach.
People often say that at the age of three, you look at the old, and at the age of seven. Since childhood, you have always been calm and honest, and you are in a happy mood every day. You have your own opinions in everything, you are not stubborn and don't go with the flow, so you don't seem out of place with others. This mentality and personality, coupled with your good qualifications, my mother believes that as long as you make unremitting efforts, your happiness in life can be grasped and your ideal can be realized. Can you do that, my dear daughter?
My daughter, you will always be the pride of your mother. I believe that after entering middle school, you will create more wonderful things and give us more surprises. Mom and dad will always be your strong backing. On your way to happiness and success, there will always be our constant blessings and concerns.
Once again, I wish you a happy birthday and a successful exam!
mother
May 22, 2065 438+00
AA fan wensan
MengMeng:
As your mother, maybe I am not a competent mother. Because I always ignore your daily growth. First of all, I want to reflect on myself. I really didn't distribute the nutrition you need in time for your psychological changes, but I just blamed you and yelled at you. My mother should apologize to you for this.
Daughter, mom finds that you have a strong sense of self, which distracts you from your study. At present, you spend less and less time studying, and your attention is becoming less and less focused. For a child of 12 years old who is about to graduate from primary school, this is a state that worries both parents and teachers. Daughter, do you realize the danger yourself?
Daughter, mom knows you still want to make progress in your heart, but it's hard to calm down and control yourself, isn't it? In fact, what worries my mother most is that you will be desperate to find reasons and excuses for your intentional or unintentional mistakes. You not only allow yourself to forgive and deceive yourself again and again, but also hope that your parents will muddle through your excuses every time. My mother doesn't expose you every time. She sees everything. Son, it's the saddest thing for mom to see you use your intelligence on yourself. Do you really want your parents to ignore you and let you go backwards like this? Are you really happy?
Daughter, I don't want you to obey your parents in everything, but that doesn't mean we can indulge your free will. Now you are inattentive in your homework, careless, procrastinating, doodling, and even taking up valuable study time to do things unrelated to your study (such as writing novels). I'm sorry, my mother doesn't want to portray her children like this, but these are the facts and you know it's wrong. Why do you know you can't do it? Mom has broken her mouth and always respects you. She firmly believes that you will understand everything, but the more conscious, the worse.
Your father and I have been thinking about this with heartache. Daughter, mother doesn't object that you have your own ideas and preferences, but learning and being a man should be the value that everyone grows up every day, especially for a student who is learning knowledge. As your parents, we have an obligation to guide you to form a good habit in your life and study. This is the responsibility of parents and the deepest love of parents. Your task now is not to go back and forth between home and school with your schoolbag on your back every day. If you pretend, you may even feel sorry for your hard work every day, let alone for your parents and teachers who care and expect you. How much you have learned and improved every day, these achievements can be fully shown in your various performances. Mom and dad told you long ago that we don't generalize you by grades, but homework and grades are basically a direct reflection of your learning attitude.
Daughter, if you want to correct your shortcomings, you must first face up to your mistakes. For a long time, your homework was often delayed, and there were many red crosses on your test paper. I don't want to blame you, but I can't let you go on like this My daughter, who has entered the graduating class of primary school, is still in such a low-level situation after six years. Do you think mom and dad can stop worrying?
Daughter, almost all your clothes last year have been updated this year. Seeing that your head is approaching and surpassing your mother, my mother secretly swears that she only wants to pay attention to and encourage my daughter with a smiling face, and I don't want to leave you with a painful memory with my fist anymore. However, it needs our cooperation, doesn't it? Mom can be as patient as possible, but as time goes on, mom and dad need to see your obvious improvement and progress. Do you have the confidence to work together to get rid of your bad habits? Really, in the past two years, persuasion education has made mom and dad deeply tired. You can understand everything we say, but the effect is not obvious, or the effect period is short. You will repeat it in a day or two, even after a while. You are eating while doing your homework. What's wrong with you? Can you tell mom? Are my daughter's parents demanding of you? Listen carefully and finish your homework on time. If these basic qualities can't be fixed at your age, my mother can't imagine how you will face more and more fierce competition in the future. Especially the junior high school entrance examination is imminent.
My mother kept thinking last night, what should I do? How to help my baby daughter? In my mother's mind, MengMeng is excellent, and so are the teachers. Daughter, mother thought for a long time and chose to write this long letter to you in words. My mother's language is trivial, because I'm afraid I've missed anything that might impress you or touch your sober cognition. So I said bluntly: Daughter, time waits for no one! With your intelligence, you must be an excellent student as long as you are diligent and persistent. My mother has always believed this, so I have always been at ease with you. I forgive my mother for ignoring you for too long and not communicating with you in time. Sorry, daughter!
Mom also knows that you want to take care of yourself, but you are seriously lacking in self-discipline. So, let mom help you, okay? It's not a bad thing that you are naturally active, but you should be measured in everything. Be sure to calm down when you are busy. Nothing can be done well without a sinking heart. As long as you are willing, good habits can be cultivated soon. As long as you are willing, as long as you can persist.
mother
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