What are the characteristics of people with high understanding?
1. Careful and sensitive
You know what will happen at the first sign, and you can tell what others think with an expression, and you won't do anything embarrassing.
let blood with a single prick (of the needle)—pierce to the truth with a single pertinent remark
Either keep silent or get to the point. They think that the problem will be considered comprehensively, never generalize, and often make people confused.
3. Will be traced back to the source
When an event happens, what he thinks about is not how to do it, but why the problem happened, where is the root cause, how to solve the problem from the root cause, and how to prevent the same thing from making mistakes again.
4. When you ask questions, you can understand at one point.
Unlike others, he doesn't need to be repeated to understand. Basically, the other party wrote a formula, talked about the five roads of the city, and knew how to do this problem.
5. Be able to draw inferences.
Many people can't even find a solution to the problem, but people with high understanding can give answers from different angles, even if it is a well-known problem, they can also make suggestions from different angles.
6. Chatting is good at getting to the point.
Many people chat without any key points, but people with high understanding can still grasp the key points, say what others want to hear, and make the chat object happy.
7. Never generalize.
Most of us look at problems one-sidedly, but people with high understanding will never generalize, but will think about problems vertically and horizontally, so they can often make suggestions with high feasibility.
8. Simplify complex problems
No matter how difficult the problem is, it is not a big problem when it comes to him. They are good at picking cocoons and grasping details, and always find the simplest solution.
How to become a person with high understanding?
1. Cultivate observation ability
Film and television drama: don't lie to me, basic deduction, bone-searching, crisis edge, criminal psychology, crime scene investigation.
Courses: (crash course 8 10 minute psychological crash); TED talk; How to identify lies-don't lie to me. The lesson of observation is that everything has advantages and disadvantages. Body language shapes you and gives up seeing your thoughts clearly.
Book list: emotional analysis, psychologists' facial skills: reading emotional codes, reading people, micro-expressions and body language, teaching you mind reading, you move, I basically know, body language Cao code, male and female body observation, male and female behavior observation, micro-expressions, micro-reactions and great body language.
2. Improve logical thinking
List of books: Simple Logic, Technology of Thinking, A Kind of Blue Logic Book, The Golden Principle, Introduction to Logic, Reasoning Well, Learning to Ask Questions, Critical Thinking 8, The World's Most Popular Thinking Training Reader, Improvised Speech, Critical Thinking 8, Taking You Out.
Open class: game theory
Critical thinking of China Youth University for Political Science, game theory foundation, fifteen minutes of logic, introduction to logical reasoning, introduction to logic.
Programs/Documentaries: The Thousand and One Nights, Thirteen Invitations, Entering the Point, Claiming to Go to the World, Informal Talks, Qipa's Talk, Wonderful Congress, Let's Talk, Super Brain, Fun of Logic, Brain Challenge, Science You Want to Know Most, Mathematical Story.
3. Understand the nature of things
Book list: psychological motivation: the underlying logic that stimulates action, the first principle, a way of thinking that insight into the underlying logic of things, the godfather, and the addition of willpower: let you tell the underlying logic of what you do, Sophie's world, deep cognition, the order of time, what is the nature of life and prejudice.
Documentaries: The Earth Pulses, Particle Mania, Dimension: Walking in Mathematics, Positive Psychology, The culprit of unrestrained consumption, The Legend of American Business tycoons, Abstraction: The Art of Design, Seven Years of Life and An Inconvenient Truth.
4. Improve understanding ability
List of books: Step Forward, The Road Few People Take, Six Independent Thinking Courses at Harvard, Who Moved My Cheese, Influence, Psychological Research of Mob, The Complete Works of Poor Charlie, The Golden Pagoda Principle, The Silent Majority and A Brief History of the Future.
Documentaries: Women, The Rise of Money, A Brief History of World Finance, Green Planet, Decoding Bill Gates, but there are also books: Spiritual Struggle, The Story of the Emergency Room, The Rich Man at the Bottom of the Valley Began to Turn Over, The Universe and the King of Fraud.
5. Increase your knowledge and insight
Documentary: Super Project, General History of China, 24 hours in the city, Hexi Corridor, Seven Worlds, One Planet, Journey of Time and Space, Rise of Great Powers, How to say this picture, Perfect Planet, Protecting and Liberating the West, Floating for a Day, From Qin Shihuang to Han Wudi, on earth, but with books, life.
Open classes: Translation College, China University MOOCW, Netease Cloud Open Class, Sina Open Class, TED, Little Broken Station, Khan College, Haozhi. com,Coursera,edX,Udemy,MasterClass。