In fact, children are also under great psychological pressure, with poor exams, nagging parents and rebellious adolescence. If they lose their temper, the consequences are unknown.
Every child has his merits. Parents should be good at discovering the advantages of children and pay attention to cultivating their interests.
It can be said that your child is a typical victim of Chinese education. Parents should not only look at math and Chinese scores, but also pay attention to other abilities. For example, practical ability, communicative ability, observation ability and so on. Generally speaking, in junior high school, children can't keep up with their grades in grade two, and they can't get up in the first semester of grade three, so it is basically difficult for children to learn in high school!
If you know a child's characteristics or his favorite and best ability, you should cultivate him in that respect. Chinese-style cramming education may not be suitable for him, nor may he have a chance to study hard.
If possible, let him learn some practical skills, such as mechanical maintenance, electrician, electric welding, mold making and so on. Although in the eyes of China people, it is not as glorious for children to learn these things as it is for other children to go to college, their promise will not be bad. Children can live well if they can afford it, but many college students can't afford it! Don't let your face hurt your children. Survival ability is a child's fundamental ability. Math and Chinese grades are just a number, which has nothing to do with your future life!