Their performance often gives people an illusion: am I wrong or do they insist? First of all, we need to understand the psychology of such people. Only by understanding their purpose can we respond better.
Soft persimmon psychology
Frankly speaking, these people are very calculating. They know how to socialize, and they can always exploit various loopholes. They will use different methods to achieve their goals when facing different people. Whenever I see those who are silent after suffering losses, their psychology of pinching soft persimmons immediately begins to stir.
It is precisely because of their extremely low social morality and rogue mentality that they can win many battles. All kinds of struggle experiences make them try every time, so the soft persimmon psychology has become their logic and experience and a kind of communication inertia.
In their consciousness, they acquiesce in two kinds of humanity: introspection and order. When there is a problem, they try to strike first, deter each other by questioning, suspecting and reprimanding, find the problem from their own side, and let the other side fall into the illusion that they are wrong, so instead of looking for reasons from him, they feel sorry for him. People's reflex arc is relatively long, and when they react to what is going on, things are often over.
Error transfer and emotional garbage reprint
Psychologists point out that self-blame and self-pressure are more likely to destroy people's emotions than anger. Those unreasonable people take advantage of this. For example, if something goes wrong, they will put the main responsibility on you, which is a typical mistake transfer.
They have a special defense mechanism in their hearts, so that they can't stand the feeling that their mistakes are their own making. Therefore, people who cooperate with them have become the objects of their rejection. In the final analysis, they don't want to bear the responsibility alone, and always hope that people around them will bear this bad experience like them.
Of course, we are not fools, but sometimes we choose silence. However, after eating a lot of YaBaKui, how can we keep calm? At this time, anger is inevitable, not only for those scum, but also for themselves and even the whole society.