Six years in primary school, three years in junior high school, three years in senior high school and four years in college. I will be in my twenties if I don't take the postgraduate entrance examination.
The period from primary school to university is a hard rally. Rally is different from other races. It is not a simple repetition, but each runway has its own characteristics. You can keep your priority in a run, but you can't guarantee that you can be in the top few on every track.
Before the third grade of primary school, it seemed to be a straight road. You just need to go ahead, without too much technical content. After the third grade of primary school, bending began to appear. After graduating from primary school, in junior high school, the original three courses of Chinese, mathematics and English became nine courses of materialization of life, politics and history, and the pressure suddenly came up and became a ramp. In senior high school, the difficulty is soaring, rugged and steep, like a mountain road. When we arrive at the university, everyone has no clear road, so it is easy to get lost in it and need to explore for themselves.
Everyone has his own characteristics, and he needs to master skills according to his own characteristics to get twice the result with half the effort, instead of running hard, which will only be in vain.
I believe everyone has heard the story of "Three Major Movements in Meng Mu". This story tells us the importance of family atmosphere. Learning English and Chinese needs a family atmosphere. A good family atmosphere is the so-called "scholarly family". Parents can't decide their origins, but they can try to improve the origins of the next generation.
Language: Parents can buy some classic books, put them at home and read them to their children from time to time, so that children can develop the habit of reading from an early age. If they don't like this kind of books, parents shouldn't be forced, which will only produce rebellious psychology. As parents, you can let them choose their favorite books, cultivate their interest in reading first, and tell them the benefits of famous books by persuasion.
English: Parents can paste English meanings all over their belongings, and then pop up a sentence or two in English from time to time. In this way, children will learn English well in a subtle way. It's no use memorizing English. This is only a temporary memory. If you need to remember it forever, those words need to be reviewed from time to time
Parents with rich family conditions can also take their children abroad for a period of time. In this atmosphere, even if you are a British scum, you can become a British tyrant.
A good family atmosphere can improve children's grades unconsciously, instead of blindly brushing questions.
"Stupid birds fly first" means the importance of diligence. Before the third grade, you can study easily and get good grades without too much effort; After the third grade, it is not enough to learn only by understanding, and it is necessary to "eat through" the knowledge completely. That is to say, you should not only be able to understand in class, but also be able to tell others questions so that others can understand. This is the real understanding.
"Genius is made up of 1% talent and 99% sweat." We need to be down-to-earth and study hard, not overnight.
After the third grade of primary school, the reason for the widening achievement gap is not only the efforts of parents, but also their own efforts. Believe in yourself, diligence can make up for it!