Qianyanyi

It was not until this morning's morning class that I was shocked. My son is 24 years old, and it has been 29 years since that marriage. It turns out that it has always been a wedge in my life and deeply nailed into my body. Now, in order to write this book, I need to pull out the wedge with blood and meat. During the break this morning, the dusty door of memory opened, and the past was mixed with a clear sense of body, which took me through time and space and back to that era. The shyness of blushing and heartbeat is still there; The pouring rain and the pain of fists and feet are still there; The ups and downs in love and the best in marriage are all there.

I thought I had forgotten, I thought the past was over, I thought I had seen through it, I had broken through it, and I had grown up long ago. At this moment, I realized that all forgetfulness is self-deception and self-protection. Because it is too bitter and painful, because it is a regret that cannot be turned back, I thought I forgot.

This is also the real reason why I can't afford a pen after I decide to write a book.

Seeing the wedge on my body, I cried and let my tears wash away. At this moment, tears just wiped the flesh and blood with a wedge, and this deep hole in my body will be repaired bit by bit with written memories. In my opinion, this book is my self-healing book, where is it to educate readers? It is clearly a way to return to the complete self and face the self.

Foreword 2

Unexpectedly, I will switch to education, which was once regarded as the only professional host and became the best tool to spread education. Not only that, on the road of education, I became more and more determined, and when I grew up, I found that life itself was education. Living well is universal education. Education and life are integrated. It should be said that real education is teaching without teaching, teaching without classes, and living everywhere is not education.

In the years of changing careers, I have met many mothers and found that I have experienced the problems they encountered and made many mistakes. Every family has its own problems, but the essence is the same. I am familiar with the things that mothers cry, and let me learn and grow from them. So I can clearly see their state and know what they will encounter and what will happen when they go forward like this. So, at the age of 50, I decided to write this book with the experience and lessons of the first half of my life, so that it could be a lesson for young mothers and a summary of my past life. Therefore, there will be autobiographical memory fragments to correspond to each case and give professional analysis, suggestions and guidance from today's perspective.

Dedicated to those who have the opportunity to read this book, thank you for choosing this book.

catalogue

The first emotion and life

Chapter I Marriage and Pregnancy

Section 1 Love

The blessing of the elderly is the source of children's happiness.

The crystallization of love is the source of children's life.

Section 4 Family harmony is the cradle of baby's growth

Section 5 Only when husband and wife trust can children feel safe.

Chapter II Divorce and Children's Growth

The first section: Isn't there any influence when the baby is divorced at the age of one?

Section two, who are you looking for?

Should stepfathers (mothers) be kind to their children when reorganizing their families?

Section 4: Can you be happy by reorganizing your family?

The third chapter is the growth path of a boy whose father is absent.

Section 1 Other people's mothers

Section 2 Childhood wrapped in material things

Section 3 Children with Mental Poverty

What does puppy love lack in the fourth quarter?

Section 5 Responsibilities and Commitments

Section 6 Lonely Growth

The fourth chapter is the transformation of mother.

The first section "Why are you different from other mothers?"

Do you care about nothing in the second quarter?

Where are the boundaries and degrees of respect and permission?

Section 4 Be a role model for children

Article 2 Behavior and Education

Chapter 1 Kindergarten Series

The first section is famous for hitting people

The second quarter is eager to make friends

Section 3 Taking and Stealing

Who should apologize in the fourth quarter

Section 5 Lonely figure

Section 6 Fear of campus life

Chapter II Primary School Series

The first part is negligent.

In the second quarter, I don't like studying and hate doing homework.

Section 3 Lying and Beating

Section 4 Swear

Section 5 "Don't pick me up"

The sixth part is the last part of the math exam.

The seventh section was torn by the English teacher.

Section 8 Acute Pneumonia

Section 9 Playing computer and games

Chapter III Middle School Series

Is it a lie if the teacher asks to lie?

In the second season, I am willing to suffer because I like it.

Section 3 "I don't want to mix"

The fourth quarter decided to live on campus

Section 5 school bullying

Section 6 I was abandoned by the teacher because of puppy love.

Section 7 Practice the piano unremittingly

Section 8 Abandoning the College Entrance Examination

/kloc-Chapter 4 after 0/8 years old

The first section is to make takeout.

Section 2 Start a company with friends

In the third quarter, playing games as a career.

The fourth quarter "sitting" at home

Section 5 "Why didn't you hurt me when I was a child?"

Section 6 Go to Beijing

Section 7 Fall in love

Section 8 Unknown Life

Article 3: My mentor

The first chapter is Mr. Shou Yuan Jun, the founder of CCTV's Half the Sky.

Chapter II Teacher Ni Haoyuan, former CEO of Golden Rainforest

Chapter III Mr. Yang Yuying, founder of 3.3.3 series of intelligent learning tools.

The fourth chapter modest mage

The fifth chapter is the general director of Chen Hongxia's Super Drama and the founders of nine art groups.

What's wrong with children now?

The first chapter lacks the motivation of life

Chapter II Learning without Smiling Face

Chapter III Prohibition of Games

Chapter IV Deprived Mobile Phone

Chapter V My Space and Time

Chapter VI My classmates and friends

last or end syllable

Today's children, their times are our future. Looking back at our parents, the Internet, mobile phones and big data, how much knowledge and skills their parents taught us is still useful? Ask yourself, how much knowledge can we force our children to learn by 2035? What do children need to grow up? Education, what need to be taught? What needs to be cultivated?

How to educate today's children and how to adapt to the ever-changing new era is not so much that we educate children, but rather that we experience them with our children and let our inner growth grow again.

Take people as mirrors, things as teachers, children as mirrors, families as mirrors, couples as mirrors and life as mirrors.