When you are old, these memories are a treasure in your life.
Lovelorn can make you understand the true nature of reality: there is no perfection, but more incompleteness and regret. First love is really hard to give up, but after the baptism of first love and lovelorn, you should know the world better. So the first step is to face the reality, because you have to live anyway, and you have to make yourself live better. Second, divert attention, for example, when you are sad about this relationship, you can find something meaningful to do. Third, vent. Chat with friends, keep a diary and exercise in various ways. Fourth, set new life goals and carefully plan your future life. When you have your own plan and work hard for it, it's hard to have time to think. In short, it is better to save yourself than to cry. Try to make yourself smarter, stronger and more attractive. You will also meet people who are more suitable for you. Even if you haven't met them, you should live a full and strong life. In fact, lovelorn people abound, and finally they can only come by themselves, but the fact is that many people have come. So, please come on, I believe it is only a matter of time.
The pain of lovelorn needs outside help, but it is more important to improve one's psychological endurance, enhance one's psychological adaptability and learn self-psychological adjustment, so as to achieve a new psychological balance.
Reverse thinking
To succeed in love, there are many special psychological requirements besides socially recognized qualities and concepts, such as harmonious personality, the same interests, the same values, the matching of physiological characteristics and so on. If these aspects are contradictory, so that love can not continue, it is not too painful. Think about it the other way around. If you make do with it and lead to emotional disharmony in the future, what happiness can love have? It is not a blessing to be lovelorn, but it is not a bad thing to break up as soon as possible without the same interests and personality. "A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise."
Lovelorn is first of all a kind of luck, followed by misfortune.
Losing love proves that we really loved each other. If not. No brokenhearted. You know, in this world, there are many people who have never really loved each other. Compared with these people, we have won an enviable life point. Although I lost it later. But our life has been enriched. Therefore, the feelings have become deep. Temperament has matured since this time.
Love is a completed choice, and lovelorn faces the upcoming choice. In the days to come, as long as one person can be your soul mate. We can go back to the past and say to the years: thank you, I am glad that I am lovelorn.
Really don't be so sad, maybe the person who really gives us happiness is waiting not far ahead.
The best way to solve lovelorn is to smile.
Smile, to yourself, to others, to each other,
It's good for everyone.
I don't agree with those who shout when they are lovelorn.
Self-reproach, feeling that I am the most helpless person in the world;
I don't appreciate people who abuse each other after falling in love.
People who say that the other person is an imbecile without eyes.
These are unwise and brainless people,
You know, lovelorn has the same effect on both sides.
This will only increase their own and each other's unnecessary pain.
And it doesn't solve any problems at all.
See yourself clearly and understand others,
Go your own way, don't lose heart; Wish each other good luck and don't resent it.
Don't be a bear, be a real person!
The best way to solve lovelorn is to forget.
Forget the joy and happiness in love,
Forget the loss and pain in love.
But don't force yourself to forget,
The more so, the easier it is to remember.
When you stop thinking about him, you won't feel anything when you are lovelorn.
At that time, you will face it frankly, when you think of her:
You will sigh, "Oh, I once loved her."
Being lovelorn proves that he or she is not the person you really want to be with in this life.
Try to open yourself up!
What is not there will never be.
Sometimes you can't catch something because it doesn't belong to you.
On the contrary, sometimes a very good thing will naturally come to you.
Because it's yours!
Anyway, I believe!