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Wang Xiao's first love happened at the age of 14.
After class, she dragged me to the corner and showed me the love letter shyly. "I like you" written on pink stationery indicates the coming of love.
I screamed and acted more excited than my client. At that time, almost all girls were obsessed with pocket romance in bookstores. A seed of love has also been aroused by people who love me.
Love is a mysterious and exciting word. Most people want to feel it. Now, the opportunity has come to Wang Xiao.
The boy who wrote the love letter is our classmate Su Xiang. He is not particularly handsome, but he is also tall and witty. He sits at the table next to Wang Xiao and often makes her laugh. In the long run, it will naturally give birth to some goodwill.
Therefore, Wang Xiao shyly accepted this gesture of love. Since then, she has been labeled as "Su Xiang's daughter-in-law". The students started joking, and they all got together. At first, Wang Xiao was a little shy. After getting used to it, he began to enjoy the sweetness of love.
She once told me quietly how they got along, smiled shyly but happily, and encouraged me to find a boyfriend from time to time.
In fact, I also have a crush on boys, but I never dare to expect anything. Because my parents have given me numerous vaccinations, I have strengthened my belief that there is a good man waiting for me in the future.
I hesitated to ask, "won't this affect my study?"
She laughed loudly and uttered a line that sounded like a TV series: "I can give up everything for him." What is learning? "
Looking back more than ten years later, I still clearly remember the happiness in Wang Xiao's eyes, which was full of determination and certainty.
That is true love, although teachers and parents belittle it with childishness. But the initial throb of life is not a desperate mixture of confusion and happiness?
Don't care about his family background, don't care about his appearance, don't ask him if he has a house and a car, and whether he can earn money to support his family. ...
Unreality is the disadvantage of puppy love, but it is also the most touching.
2
Wang Xiao left the campus at the age of 15.
The exit procedure was completed quietly, and when we realized it, her bedding, books and stationery had quietly left everyone's sight.
It was five months before the senior high school entrance examination.
Everyone is talking privately. It is said that pregnancy rumors have noses and eyes. Su Xiang, on the other hand, was vague, and the scandal got worse. We didn't part until the end of the senior high school entrance examination.
Later stories were pieced together by me from many classmates.
Wang Xiao and Su Xiang do have a child. As an immature product of emotion, it is not allowed to come into this world. Because of this, the two adults were at odds and the contradiction spread to the young lovers.
Out of school, love began to change, mixed with many secular considerations, such as how much bride price to give, where to buy a house, how to divide the gift money, and what to make a living in the future. ...
Love that is not separated by parents and teachers is finally disintegrated by reality. The promise of getting married as an adult later became their own lie.
I heard that Wang Xiao has been regretting that he didn't go to high school and college, and he was also annoyed that he ruined his life in a puppy love.
Once, once, she was also an ideal person.
three
Of course, there are also puppy love to urge each other to make progress.
For example, Yu Ge and Sui Zi. Their acquaintance is quite dramatic.
In the military training of senior one, the instructor drew several students from each class to form a phalanx. Brother Yu and Sui Zi are among them.
Their positions are tandem, chatting and playing ball during training, and listening to Jay Chou with MP3 player. Sui Zi said, "I'm in Class 5, and you?"
Brother Yu replied, "I'm in Class 10, so far away from you!" My ears are a little sad, because the military training is coming to an end, and parting has come to my eyes.
Who knows, the first night self-study in formal class, Sui Zi found Yu Ge in the class. He smiled: "I lied to you to give you a surprise!" "
Therefore, it is logical to be together. Both of them are schoolmasters, and their achievements are all there. The teacher also turned a blind eye and only mentioned one or two sentences from time to time.
They used to be the "fairy couple" envied by everyone in the grade.
I remember that after the placement, Sui Zi and I became classmates.
She is a little weak in math, so after every monthly exam, Brother Yu will sit in the classroom of liberal arts class between dinner and evening self-study and analyze and correct her wrong questions one by one.
Always listen carefully and write it down in a notebook. After that, he reached out and rubbed her head: "Don't be careless next time!"
Eyes full of spoil, beautiful like an idol drama.
Later, I was admitted to 985 University in Beijing and met my parents after graduation. Almost everyone thinks that they will get married, have children and stage the most beautiful love story.
In less than a year, the news of breaking up came.
four
It is said that Brother Yu cheated on me and fell in love with girls in different classes in the same department. The plot then turned sharply, from idol drama to dog blood drama.
Sui Zi left happily, and soon after, she also fell in the tenderness of another boy.
The university gate seems to be connected with another wider and more distant world, with so many beautiful skins, interesting souls and beautiful expectations. ...
So there were many changes, which happened quietly overnight.
We thought it was eternal, but it turned out that we had never seen the world.
By the time I was a junior, most of my former mandarin ducks had already been separated. Especially long-distance love, basically did not survive.
Although the network is developed and the transportation is convenient, the separable time and space have already divided each other's growth into two completely different worlds, and the life that was once linked together was unconsciously broken.
Feelings are most afraid of change, and you just live at that age that is the easiest to change.
So, does puppy love have a happy ending?
The answer is of course yes, although the probability and proportion are too small. But it is precisely because of rarity that love from school uniforms to wedding dresses makes people cry.
Because others have realized your dream.
Most of us walked and disappeared into the vast sea of people.
That love that has not been honed by the world of mortals is like crystal clear glass. Beauty is beautiful, but it is hard to resist the wind and rain. After a little time test, it will quickly become pieces.
five
I often wonder, when I have a child, if he falls madly in love with someone before 18 years old, will I be a bad mother who plays mandarin duck?
I've thought about it for a long time, and the answer is no.
Huang Lei said that puppy love is an asshole and the most natural thing for everyone, but you should remind her and guide her to develop in a better and healthier direction.
I'm impressed. Then I should tell him:
First, don't take love as everything at the best age.
You can fall in love, but you must put learning first, and you can't focus on learning.
Second, we must protect ourselves and each other, and we must not trespass the forbidden area.
Neither sex nor love is a scourge, as long as it is guided by the situation.
Third, be prepared for disappointment.
When the concept of love is not yet mature, it will inevitably bring many risks. After all, there are so many people who didn't make it to the end, so I must tell the worst result in advance.
If you are an exception, I congratulate you;
If you are not, I hug you.