Zhou Wenwang, the founder of the Western Zhou Dynasty, was a man with both ability and political integrity. At the same time, he is also good at discovering the inner potential and hidden advantages of others. As a result, an ordinary fisherman in Jiang Ziya was made a military adviser. The fisherman advised him, recruited talents, and made indelible contributions to overthrowing the tyrant and establishing the Western Zhou Dynasty.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Liu Bei invited a hermit to live in the thatched cottage in the spirit of saving the country and the people, even regardless of the snow. Finally, a brilliant strategist was used by Liu Bei, who became an important figure in Liu's confrontation with Sun and Cao, forming a tripartite confrontation between the three countries.
Zhou Wenwang and Liu Bei are just two of Qian Qian's thousands of people with lofty ideals, but they have both made great achievements. Why? Because they have a key but powerful talent-being good at discovering the advantages of others.
People are like stars in the vast universe. Everyone has a shining side, but some people are not good at showing it. We pay too much attention to our own light and tend to ignore others. And those who are good at discovering the advantages of others are often people who can accept opinions with an open mind. On the contrary, if you are not good at discovering the advantages of others and then go to extremes, you will become a self-satisfied and narrow-minded person. Such people often miss opportunities and success, and eventually become an idle person.
Being good at discovering the advantages of others does not mean denying yourself. With this important talent, you will realize your own shortcomings and work harder to make yourself perfect. You will unconsciously learn and even have this advantage, so as to gain a foothold in the constantly updated society.
Being good at discovering the advantages of others will benefit us a lot. Perhaps it is because of your discovery that a hidden gold will shine brightly; Perhaps it is because of your discovery that you will continue to grow. Then, from now on, slowly try to find the advantages of people around you! Because being good at discovering the advantages of others is an inexhaustible talent!
2. Discover your own advantages When a caterpillar discovers its own advantages, it can become the most beautiful butterfly.
Walking in the drizzle, I don't know where to go or what to do. I have no goal, I just walk blindly.
"What else can I do?" I laughed at myself.
I am a person without merit. Without a beautiful appearance, you were born with an ugly appearance; If your academic performance is not good, you will always be at the bottom; I have no likable personality, and even I hate myself; Even if you fight, you will only suffer. ...
Maybe God forgot me when he created human beings. Maybe I have to die.
I have no confidence. When other girls play in groups of three or five, I hide in the corner; When others are changing their hair styles with a comb, I only slip aside; Even the boys who have liked him for a long time have no courage to look at him again. I even often laugh at myself: "What are you?"
In this way, I turned over every page of the calendar with inferiority.
Until one day, a handsome boy came to me and said, "Join the singer contest next month!" " "
"Me?"
"yes. Your voice is very nice! "
"But ... don't! I can't do it! I ... "
The boy gave me a disappointed look, so I turned and walked away. At this time, I heard her shout behind me: "Even a caterpillar will become a beautiful butterfly if it finds its own advantages."
May I? I can't help humming when I get home. Only then did I realize that my voice was so beautiful. In my mind, I have been thinking about his words. After repeated practice, I decided!
On that day, I finally stood on the stage, because I understood that when the caterpillar found its own advantages, it could become the most beautiful butterfly. When the audience burst into warm applause, I knew: through continuous efforts, I succeeded!
Everything in the world has its unique value, even if it is popular, it can break the silence of the night sky, and even a drop of water can reflect the brilliance of the sun. In any case, accept yourself first, find your own bright spot, believe in yourself, and you will succeed in the end!
3. How to write a composition that is good at discovering the advantages of others? I once heard such a story: a primary school teacher took an open class. He wrote five questions on the blackboard, and then asked a student to do it on the stage.
3*9=(27) 4*9=(36) 5*9=(45) 6*9=(54)
7*9=(62)
When the students finished writing the answer to the last question "62", most students in the audience shouted "Teacher, he is wrong, the last question is wrong ..."
I thought the teacher would correct this classmate's mistake at once, but I didn't expect him to say something that impressed me deeply. He said, "The last question was wrong, but why did you just say that he was wrong, instead of saying that he did all the first four questions correctly?" It seems how easy it is for us to find other people's mistakes and ignore others' correctness ... "
In today's society, everyone is eager for perfection, but they like to find fault with others and can't tolerate others or make a little mistake themselves. Once they make a mistake, even if it is a trivial matter, they should blame others and find fault with others. In fact, if you don't immediately accuse others of making mistakes, but encourage them to increase their confidence and pay attention to not making mistakes next time, you will gain experience and make up for each other. Why not do such a thing with the best of both worlds?
Be good at discovering other people's strengths and learning from each other's strengths. Only in this way can we become better and stronger.
4. One advantage of the person I know best. How to write a composition about the person I know best?
The person I know best is my mother. Although she is not very beautiful, she has a noble character.
I remember one Saturday morning, I went shopping with my mother. Just walked to the door of the market, an aunt selling hot milk shouted and came to us. My mother saw that I wanted to drink, so she said, "Shall I buy you a cup of hot milk?" I nodded happily. My mother gave me ten yuan to buy it. I gave the money to my aunt, who changed my milk. I took the milk and counted the money back, hey! Why are there ten-dollar bills? I walked quickly to my mother with the money and took her to the market. My mother asked me strangely, "What's the matter?" I whispered, "Go, she changed another ten dollars. Don't let her see it." Mom stopped at once and said, "How could you? People may not earn this ten dollars a day. How does mom usually teach you to be a man? Have you forgotten all about it? Go give it back to others. " After listening to my mother's words, I bowed my head in shame and returned the money to my aunt shyly. My aunt took the money and praised me and said, "You are a good boy. There are not many children like you now! " I feel my face burning. When I turned around, I saw my mother looking at me and smiling! I held my head high and walked happily to my mother.
5. Write a composition that shows the personality characteristics of people around you, 400 words, my mother.
The thread in the loving mother's hand made clothes for her wayward son's body. She sewed it carefully and repaired it thoroughly, fearing that it would delay him coming home late, but how much love did an inch of grass win? "It is said that there is one of the kindest and greatest women in the world. She is our mother. It is said that there is one in the world.
The most beautiful and gentle voice is the mother's call to her children. It is said that there is the greatest, most selfless and hardworking person in the world, and she is still our mother!
I don't remember my mother when she was a child. When her image entered my mind deeply, she seemed to be no longer young. I counted the wrinkles on my mother's forehead that climbed up mercilessly and quietly, and I counted my mother being dyed white by years.
The silver thread hidden in black hair, I count the lines on my mother's hands that have become rough because of hard work, and I am always speechless-what words can express my feelings at this time in this world!
In the morning, when I go to school with my schoolbag on my back, my mother always looks at me affectionately. When I go to the door, she always rushes back to the kitchen to get me a breakfast and advises me to eat more, even if it's just a bite. She always watches me go out, and then tells me at the door, "Be careful on the road!" I can't remember how many such mornings there are, so I spent more than ten years!
Maybe this is just a trivial matter in the eyes of many people, but when you think about it, don't these trivial things also contain a mother's affection? Remember there is such a story:
A young man was seriously ill. The doctor told him that he needed to be treated with his mother's heart. Young people can't stand it. When his mother heard about it, she resolutely cut open her heart and asked him to take it with her to see a doctor for treatment. The young man ran to the hospital with his mother's heart in his hand, but fell on the rugged road. The falling heart makes a gentle and concerned voice: "Son, did you fall?"
This is a touching story that makes people marvel at the greatness of their mother. The word "mother" is often the first sentence a person will say, but does mother only give you life? Did she just raise you? She's just you
Someone to talk to when you are in pain and share when you are happy? Don't! The mother who resolutely gave up her heart to treat her son has fully explained this point. Please look at the story in real life again:
In a big earthquake, the young mother bent her body into an arch, resisted the falling roof and put her young son on her chest. When people found the mother and son, the great mother had stopped calling.
Suck, while her children are tied to life in her arched arms.
This is mom! She separated the child from the terrible world with her own body. In that case, she still did not forget to give the child a comfortable hug. She traded her life for the child's life, but her face was blank.
It's a little regrettable. This is mom! I think, if there are gods in heaven, when the mother learns that the child is safe and sound, she will be relieved and happy with laughter. She will never complain and never regret. This is mother!
Let's take a look at the crow's feet that mom gradually climbed up the corner of her eye. It was the vicissitudes of time that took away my mother's youth. Let's hold mother's cocoon-covered hand, which is a pair of hands that mother pulled us to grow up; Looking at the mother's haggard face, it is a testimony to the efforts for the growth of children!
There is a person who will always occupy the softest place in your heart, and you are willing to love her with your life; There is a kind of love that allows you to freely ask for and enjoy without asking for anything in return ... this person is called "mom"; This kind of love is called "maternal love"!
6. A person's strengths and skills revolve around primary school composition. Everyone has his own strengths, including sports, life and study ... all of which are accompanied by our slow growth and progress. I love basketball, and I will never forget the wonderful basketball game on TV. Don't forget to practice in your spare time, learn various methods and enjoy playing basketball. As you can imagine, my strong point is playing basketball!
I remember when I first came into contact with basketball, I couldn't even control the ball. I just beat the basketball blindly, trying to make the ball beat high, fast and steady. Now my unfamiliar dribbling skills have long been proficient, from spectators on the court to players on the court.
Basketball made me forget my sadness and become happy. After that exam, the scores of the exam weighed me down. "What should I tell my parents?" Walking on the way home, I feel particularly heavy and nervous. The way home seems longer, and the night sky full of sunset clouds seems darker ... Suddenly, the phone remembered, and I picked it up listlessly. "Hello, is that Ding Le? Let's play basketball tonight! " I reluctantly agreed. "Well shot! Good shot! " Cheers echoed on the court, and I was absorbed in playing basketball, forgetting that sadness and getting happiness.
Basketball helped me out of the haze and won the honor. The summer vacation after primary school graduation, I always do nothing. I thought I would spend this long summer vacation free, but I didn't expect it to become full. "Ding Le, you're here.
7. I found the advantages of others. At that time, I was still a naughty boy who knew nothing, but one thing changed my character.
That day, I was reading by the bed when I heard someone calling me. I looked up and it was my classmate. I asked her what she wanted, but she borrowed the book from me. I thought to myself, I had a long queue to buy this book. What should I do if I take it home and get it dirty? Besides, she has a younger brother. What if her brother tore it? She seemed to see my heart and said, don't worry, I will take good care of this book and won't let my brother touch it. I'll pay you back tomorrow. I think, since she said this promise, I'll lend it to her. In this way, I lent her my most precious book.
The next day, I went to school as usual, but I didn't see her. I was so angry that I kept saying that she was such a person.
After school, I went home angrily. Excuse me, is Yao Yao there? A voice rang out from my ear. I looked back, alas, it was her. She came in and said, sorry, I had a fever last night, so ... I didn't come to school today. This book is back to you. I thought about it and said, it's okay. I misunderstood you. If you want to read this book, take it back and return it to me another day. She was very grateful after listening to my words. From this moment on, I understand that friends should trust each other.
8. How to write my strengths? Someone once asked me, "What are your strengths?" I think my strength should be kindness.
I remember when I was in Shenzhen last year, on a hot evening, my mother and I passed by Luohu Square and saw several beggars there with unkempt hair and dirty clothes. A beggar woman is holding a child in her hand, miserable. I couldn't help but stop and put my hand into my pocket to give the child a few dollars.
Seeing that I care about beggars, my mother quickly warned me: "Now many beggars are liars, so be careful!" " I think what my mother said is also true. They are neither too old nor too young, and some are still in their prime. Why don't they find jobs to earn money to support themselves? Thinking of this, I ignored them and was about to leave when suddenly a girl whispered from behind, "Mom, I'm hungry! ..... "I turned to look inside and saw the little girl hugging her mother tightly just now, crying and saying that she was hungry. I can't help but find reasons to think that they are not liars. Maybe they came out begging because of unexpected troubles at home. Maybe ... thinking of this, I gave all my pocket money to the girl's mother.
My mother didn't blame me, but said, "You child, you are soft-hearted!" "The day before yesterday afternoon after school, I went back to my hometown and saw the old lady next door swaying and standing unsteadily. I went over and gave her a hand and asked with concern," Grandma, where are you going? Do you want me to help you? " The old lady smiled and said, "No, I'm going to find my grandson. "I can't bear to watch the old lady go and help her to her destination.
It was almost time for the old lady's grandson's house, so I let go, said goodbye and walked away.