As the saying goes, it means that it is not easy for boys to succeed in pursuing girls, so it is normal to say that they fail. But in this topic we are discussing, should we continue to pursue what we have said after being rejected by girls once?
Then I think it depends on what kind of situation, different situations and different treatments, but there are several situations that should not be pursued.
Refuse to cherish your efforts. In the face of the person we like, we will try to get the recognition of the other party. We have to say that if this way is in the eyes of people we like, it may be very touching, but if a person doesn't like you, then he may not be interested in your efforts.
But for most girls, he may be very polite and then express great gratitude. I can't accept it, and I can't accept it, but if a girl is disdainful of your efforts, I have to say that such a girl still doesn't have to chase.
Reject your apology. In the relationship between men and women, there is such a state, which is called AUO, and the lover is not full. In other words, the relationship between two people is actually just right, but if you explicitly say at this time that you don't want to accept your apology for misunderstanding in some cases, then what he actually means is not to accept your feelings.
In fact, it is understandable for boys, because you may be thinking of apologizing and then confessing to him directly, and the girl's words are also very clear, so saying that he refuses at this time is actually a clear indication that you don't accept your feelings.
Refuse to share everything about yourself. When we meet someone we like, we often share our lives with him involuntarily, and we also hope that the other person can share some small details of their lives, so that we can deepen our understanding. However, if the other person refuses to share all his information with you, you may not be qualified in his eyes.
Because even among friends, everyone will share something with each other, but if she is so kind to you, in fact, her friends may not be willing to do it with you, so in this case, if he refuses, there is really no need to chase you again. She doesn't care about you at all in people's minds.
If we are in a relationship, sometimes we have to think it over. After all, are we suitable for each other, and are we each other's favorite types, which saves us a lot of work.