Therefore, the behavior of facing difficulties is widely praised and deliberately arranged as a positive model; The act of retreating from difficulties was ridiculed and beautified as a negative textbook.
In my opinion, in the face of difficulties, shrinking from difficulties is like a child in the eyes of a mother, regardless of who is superior or inferior. Libra will be out of balance one day if you only see the indomitable younger brother and ignore the flexible younger brother.
I have a high school classmate named Swallow. She has white skin, big eyes and curly hair. She is introverted and shy.
But she ended her young life at the age of 18, the day we got the high school diploma.
In the second semester of senior two, the whole grade was re-divided according to the results of the last final exam. Swallow and I were assigned to the same class and became front and back tables. Although we have known each other since we entered high school, there is almost no intersection. An unexpected event made her feel the same way as me, which eventually became the fuse of her mental disorder.
In the first week of class meeting, the class teacher announced the election of representatives from all subjects, and then after some encouragement, the elected representatives were asked to go to the office with him immediately. Just wondering how I became a branch representative, the swallow turned to me and said, "Let's go, why are you still stunned?" I just woke up. It turned out that she and I both became branch representatives.
On the way to the head teacher's office, the swallow suddenly took my hand and said, "I only got 48 points in math last semester, so how did I become a math representative?" I was both surprised and surprised at what she said. I immediately said, "I only scored 53 points in English last semester. How did I become an English representative?" I walked into the head teacher's office with doubts and anxiety.
The class teacher told us: "This time, the representatives of the selected subjects did not adopt the method of voting by the whole class and the teacher directly appointed them. This is my decision after consulting with teachers in various subjects. Every time, students with good grades in a single subject are representatives of this subject. This time, we do the opposite. I hope that you will change your roles as soon as possible, face up to difficulties and be a good representative of this discipline. "
Swallow and I looked at each other after listening to the teacher in charge. Just when we didn't know what to say, the monitor took the lead and said to the class teacher, please rest assured that we will try our best. Then walk out of the head teacher's office.
In the following days, Swallow and I were moved by the teacher's good intentions, but we were still reluctant, but in order to be good representatives of our respective subjects, we forced ourselves to play strange games.
With the fresh results of the mid-term exam, the ups and downs and pressures inside me and Swallow have increased. Her math exam is the third from the bottom in the class, while my English exam is the fifth from the bottom. Compared with before, she retreated instead of advancing, but the ranking of representatives of other disciplines has risen.
This time, only Swallow and I entered the head teacher's office. After the class teacher talked to us, the swallow was left alone by the math teacher. Soon, she returned to the classroom crying. Later, when asked what happened to her, she said, "The teacher said that she didn't work hard and failed her expectations. She will organize another exam next month to lay the foundation for the final exam. If her ranking is still in the bottom ten, the teacher will change the branch representative. "
Just when I didn't know how to comfort the swallow, the swallow suddenly glared at me, clenched his fist and continued, "I have never been a representative of the main examiner since I was a child." I am ashamed and excited to have this opportunity this time, but I was actually pawned and now I have to move away. What will my classmates think of me? What will my family think of me? I blame myself for not working hard enough. I can't let this happen. "
Since then, Swallow has been studying mathematics most of the time. But it backfired. The math teacher fulfilled what she said, canceled the subject representative of Swallow, and re-elected a boy whose math performance has been top-notch. I can't help sighing that mathematics may be a dead hole for many girls, and you can't do the problems you can't do no matter how hard you try.
But since then, the swallow has become a bit strange. She moved her desk to the last row and sat alone in the corner, sometimes talking to herself, sometimes looking up and laughing, sometimes shaking her head, and no longer actively communicating with others.
I tried to communicate with her several times, but she deliberately avoided it. Until I bumped into her head-on in the corridor, I grabbed her. She looked at the distance with dull eyes and said, "I know, you think everything I said is false. I am dumb and can't do anything well." Then she broke free from my hand and left.
When the third year of high school was divided into classes again, Swallow went to another class. I forgot her because I was busy studying. When she heard the news about her again, she was dead.
The difficulty of a thing depends not only on the thing itself, but also on personal circumstances. Don't be too hard on people who quit after getting into trouble. Sometimes giving up at the right time is also a kind of wisdom.