However, if you have different attitudes towards failure and success, they may surprise or frighten you. She has always been partial to the usual failure, and it is very serious.
Especially math. If she often fails, neither the teacher nor the parents can help her.
"Look at you! That's great. You have written such a simple question wrong! Does ten MINUS five make six? ! Why are you always so careless! ? "The teacher said sternly. Xiaotian looked down and didn't dare to look at the teacher.
In fact, her primary school grades are not bad, and 890 is not a problem. But by junior high school, 70 points is already high.
Maybe she didn't find a way to learn, but the teacher always answered her questions in class. I also reviewed it when I went home. Why can't my grades go up? This is another monthly exam, and the last throne will always be left to her.
The teacher was disappointed in her, and her parents could only sigh silently. But she didn't give up. She still studies and works as hard as before.
No one found that she was right about every homework; No one found that she was the one who remembered the notes most completely; No one found out that every time she recited it, she never stayed until the end. No one found that her grades, one point and two points, were improving bit by bit.
Yes, no one found out. Because no one will pay attention to her poor grades.
But she's trying. She has been trying. She firmly believes that she will succeed, she will succeed.
Unexpected success Another final exam is finally over. "Sweet! The results are out! Let's go Let's go to the office and have a look! " Xiaoyan, a classmate, dragged her to the office.
In fact, she doesn't want to go, nor dare she. Poor grades, she doesn't want to see her test paper with only a few points.
She stood quietly outside the door, waiting for news from Xiaoyan. "wow! That's great. You're amazing! 1 18 points! " She heard Xiaoyan shout and saw Xiaoyan's incredible face. She was equally surprised.
That's a math paper, only two points deducted? It should be someone else's. Xiaoyan must be mistaken. Until the examination papers are handed out.
She really can't believe it. She thinks it's all a dream. She has been counting down, how can she suddenly become the first in the class and the first in the whole grade? The teacher is very satisfied with her and has been praising her in front of her classmates.
Everyone was surprised and pleasantly surprised by her rapid development. Returning to her hometown for the New Year, relatives also praised her.
They all say that she has a gift for learning. Her heart is also happy, as sweet as honey.
So this winter vacation, she had a happier time than anyone else. She didn't have to do her homework, so she didn't touch books all winter vacation.
She didn't study as hard as before. At the beginning of the exam, she sat in her seat sadly, thinking hard about an ancient poem, but she couldn't think of anything.
No, Xiao Tian was called into the office again ... In the face of failure and success, different attitudes and different results. Just like how many seeds you sow in spring, you will reap in autumn.
2. Different grades and different attitudes 800-word composition Life will inevitably fail, but occasionally you will collide with success.
However, if you have different attitudes towards failure and success, they may surprise or frighten you. She has always been partial to the usual failure, and it is very serious.
Especially math. If she often fails, neither the teacher nor the parents can help her.
"Look at you! That's great. You have written such a simple question wrong! Does ten MINUS five make six? ! Why are you always so careless! ? "The teacher said sternly. Xiaotian looked down and didn't dare to look at the teacher.
In fact, her primary school grades are not bad, and 890 is not a problem. But by junior high school, 70 points is already high.
Maybe she didn't find a way to learn, but the teacher always answered her questions in class. I also reviewed it when I went home. Why can't my grades go up? This is another monthly exam, and the last throne will always be left to her.
The teacher was disappointed in her, and her parents could only sigh silently. But she didn't give up. She still studies and works as hard as before.
No one found that she was right about every homework; No one found that she was the one who remembered the notes most completely; No one found out that every time she recited it, she never stayed until the end. No one found that her grades, one point and two points, were improving bit by bit.
Yes, no one found out. Because no one will pay attention to her poor grades.
But she's trying. She has been trying. She firmly believes that she will succeed, she will succeed.
Unexpected success Another final exam is finally over. "Sweet! The results are out! Let's go Let's go to the office and have a look! " Xiaoyan, a classmate, dragged her to the office.
In fact, she doesn't want to go, nor dare she. Poor grades, she doesn't want to see her test paper with only a few points.
She stood quietly outside the door, waiting for news from Xiaoyan. "wow! That's great. You're amazing! 1 18 points! " She heard Xiaoyan shout and saw Xiaoyan's incredible face. She was equally surprised.
That's a math paper, only two points deducted? It should be someone else's. Xiaoyan must be mistaken. Until the examination papers are handed out.
She really can't believe it. She thinks it's all a dream. She has been counting down, how can she suddenly become the first in the class and the first in the whole grade? The teacher is very satisfied with her and has been praising her in front of her classmates.
Everyone was surprised and pleasantly surprised by her rapid development. Returning to her hometown for the New Year, relatives also praised her.
They all say that she has a gift for learning. Her heart is also happy, as sweet as honey.
So this winter vacation, she had a happier time than anyone else. She didn't have to do her homework, so she didn't touch books all winter vacation.
She didn't study as hard as before. At the beginning of the exam, she sat in her seat sadly, thinking hard about an ancient poem, but she couldn't think of anything.
No, Xiao Tian was called into the office again ... in the face of failure and success, different attitudes and different results. Just like how many seeds you sow in spring, you will reap in autumn.
3. Look at the picture and write an 800-word article. Kiss the palm print, not just the score.
Give me a kiss just because I got 100; Give me a handprint, just because it's a few minutes short. Comics give great satire to the current score-only theory of educational evaluation. If you do well in the exam, parents and students will be happy, and the "hickey" on your face will bloom like a flower. If you don't do well in the exam, students and parents will frown, and "palm prints" will make you feel anxious like a fire.
It is understandable to be rewarded for doing well in the exam, after all, it can stimulate students' enthusiasm for learning; There is no need to blame for not doing well in the exam, because education without punishment is incomplete. The key is not just to talk about grades, not to care about grades, not to lose two points in the exam, and to go on the rampage like bereavement. In fact, the ultimate goal of human growth is to cultivate a complete personality. Learning knowledge is not everything to a person. If the score is the only criterion to evaluate whether a person is good or not, then the consequences are unimaginable.
First of all, the "score-only theory" causes students' lack of innovation ability. Some busybodies have made a statistic on the top candidates in the college entrance examination in the past 30 years, but none of them have become the best in the industry. Of course, it can't be considered that all students have high scores and low abilities, but the education based on scores has seriously hindered the improvement and development of students' practical ability and innovation ability for a long time. For example, Wei Yongkang, known as a child prodigy, led the way in the exam. At the age of thirteen, he entered the university with high marks, and at the age of seventeen, he was admitted to the Institute of High Energy Physics of the Chinese Academy of Sciences as a postgraduate and doctor. It can be described as brilliant all the way-Brother Lu. But it is this "scoring hegemony" that is hurt by "scores". The consequence of only "scoring" is poor living ability, insufficient social skills and obvious personality defects, so I was expelled from school. The cruel reality can't help but remind us that "marks are not the lifeblood of students".
Secondly, the "score-only theory" causes the imbalance of students' personality development. Long-term one-sided evaluation of students by grades is like a person deliberately exercising a certain limb of the body, which is extremely strong, while the rest are weak and atrophied, which is extremely uncoordinated. This has led to the emergence of wisdom and virtue, knowledge learning is rich, character training is a beggar. There are too many such examples. For example, Lin Senhao, a graduate student of Fudan University who was recently executed, has a low academic level, but he has poisoned his classmates and harmed others and made many people lament.
Some people may say that these are just examples. Yes, a worrying event is caused by many factors. However, when a person is young, he accepts the heroic evaluation based on scores. From school to family, from individual to group, he only follows "points", which naturally ignores or downplays the correction and cultivation of his character. The halo effect of "score" makes excellent learners take the lead at an early age, so how can people not flock to "test score" This is the same as pursuing GDP now. When GDP is an important political achievement, there will naturally be a phenomenon of "seeking money without mercy" and weakening environmental protection.
In a word, we need a certain reward and punishment system, but what we need more is diversified evaluation, especially education, especially the evaluation of people should be diversified and scientific. There can be hickeys and palm prints, but you can't just talk about scores.
4. Attitude towards achievement. The mid-term exam results came out, and I got 98 points in Chinese. Teacher Niu praised six students who scored 100 in the Chinese exam through the school newsletter. I took my Chinese paper home, but my parents praised me after reading it.
I think it's strange. Why do parents and teacher Niu have different attitudes when they get 98 points?
Teacher Niu didn't praise me because I didn't get 100, which was a step backwards! My parents praised me, because since I started reviewing for the mid-term exam, my Chinese score has increased from 94 to 98. If I had been more careful, I would have scored 100! My progress is very obvious!
Although teacher Niu and mom and dad have different attitudes towards grades, I know they are all for my own good, and I will love them forever!
5. Look at the pictures and write a composition. How to write a composition with high marks? Looking at pictures is an exercise to describe the content of a picture or a group of pictures provided. It is not only the best training for our writing starting point, but also a good exercise in the process of composition growth. However, facing the picture composition, many students are at a loss, scratching their heads and not knowing how to write well. Today, I will discuss this issue with you.
A good picture or a group of pictures is created by the author's repeated observation and analysis of life, and then the picture that best reflects the theme is selected for conception. Therefore, if you look at the picture and practice your composition, you must observe it carefully, so that you can write concretely and grasp the key points, and accurately express the central idea in the picture.
Look at the picture and write a composition, that is, look at the picture before writing. Picture composition is generally divided into single picture composition and multi-picture composition. No matter what kind of picture composition you write, you need to go through several stages:
First, observe and analyze pictures
Look at the pictures in your composition. Pictures are the basis of your composition. Therefore, you must first look at the content of the picture. What people, when and where are drawn on the screen, and the relationship between the characters must be made clear, and no detail can be missed. The methods of observation are generally from top to bottom or from left to right, from people to things or from scenery to people. Observe orderly, and the articles written can be organized; Careful observation can reveal vivid plots and touching details; Observation is comprehensive, and the written article can be complete; Distinguish priorities, and the articles written can be focused and the details are appropriate. Especially for the composition of multiple pictures, it is necessary to see the order of the pictures clearly and understand the direct relationship of each picture, so as to lay a good foundation for further conceptual writing.
Looking at the picture composition, painting is the orientation of thinking. If you correctly grasp the meaning of painting, your thinking will not deviate. The design and layout of each painting have a certain purpose. After observing the pictures, we should seriously think about the central idea reflected in the pictures. To infer the central idea of a picture, we should start from three aspects: first, look at the titles of the picture, some of which are the themes of the picture; Second, from the text description of the picture; The third is to analyze the people and things described in the picture and their relationships. Only by grasping the center can the written article meet the requirements of illustrated composition.
Second, cultivate a reasonable imagination.
Imagination is the core of picture composition, which should be centered on painting. We should use our brains, expand our reasonable imagination and "live" those still characters and scenes on the screen. We can conceive the plot according to the facts of life and our own experiences, we can imagine ourselves as the protagonist in the painting, and we can arrange the scenes in the painting into real life. Therefore, the characters on the screen should not only have appearance and manner, but also have actions, language and psychological activities, so that the scenery on the screen has color and sound, and appropriate names can be arranged for the characters according to needs to enhance the vividness of the article.
Third, choose points, make ideas and write.
Choosing a point is choosing an angle. After examining the topic and looking at the painting, we can determine the focus of thinking according to the meaning of the painting. Choose something accurate and don't deviate from the meaning of the painting. It is best to choose only one point, which sometimes affects writing. The intention is to establish the central idea and formulate the theme. Because the starting point (angle) is different, the idea will not be exactly the same, but no matter what central content you choose to write, you can't leave the basic meaning of the picture, and you must conform to the main idea of the picture. According to the meaning of writing, that is to say, we should conceive, plan and write according to the topic and picture. When you start writing, you must contact the pictures and deepen the theme. We should prevent Wan Li from deviating from the picture and from his lack of imagination. Reasoning should focus on reasoning, avoid being widely dispersed, and prevent being bound by pictures, so that ideas cannot be displayed.
In addition, the language of the composition should be lively, and various expressive techniques such as narration, description, lyricism, discussion and explanation can be used to connect the people, things and scenes in the picture into a whole, making it a good article with complete structure, accurate and vivid language and prominent center.
6. Write a composition with different attitudes towards different people. The journey of life can't be just flowers and laughter. There are bound to be thorns, steep cliffs, traps and setbacks in the journey. In the face of difficulties, setbacks, failures and adversity, different people will have different reactions. For the weak, he will only cry to stop, so he will never become a talent. For the strong, he will face everything calmly, cherish every chance of success in life, regard setbacks as the ladder of success, fight against adversity and rise up in setbacks.
A poem says, "Plum blossoms are not bitter and cold, so why can they be smelled?" At all times and in all countries, many people have explained this truth with facts. From Sima Qian's humiliation and corruption to Historical Records, and then to Beethoven's oblivion. From Newton's obsession with his studies for family reasons to becoming a great scientist to ostrovsky, who is disabled and obsessed with world famous works. ...
These examples are telling you that frustration is a kind of tempering, and it is the best university. Everyone who graduates from this university will become a successful person.
Countless people have abandoned their hearts of dignity, honesty and shame, and only have fame and money in their hearts. They only have a hypocritical face and a dirty rag. When they encounter setbacks, they will not hesitate to bypass them, even if they bypass thousands of miles, they are unwilling to take a step. They are the kind of people who give up short-term setbacks and want to embrace permanent success Such people will always be despised by successful people!
Since ancient times, talented people have suffered a lot, while dude has few great men. A setback, a harvest, without setbacks, it is difficult to enjoy success. This is the inevitability of success. Let's sail in frustration and reach the other side of success and joy!
7. Regret scoring. Look at the picture and write 50 words. Regret score
Xiaohong and Liang Xiao are deskmates!
On this day, the school held a mid-term exam! After doing well in the exam, the students waited anxiously for the score. Finally, the test paper was issued! Xiaohong looked at the score as soon as she got the test paper. It is 99.5. Xiaohong looked up and pouted in disappointment and said, "Hey! What a pity! I am half a point short, and I can get full marks if I get more than half a point! " Little Liang Zheng at the same table also frowned and pouted and said, "Hey, it's only half a point!"
Did Xiao Liang get a 99.5? No, it turns out that he got 59.5 points in the exam. Xiao Liang said to himself, "If I score half a point next time, I will pass!" "
Xiaohong thought, "I want to study hard! Try to get full marks next time! "
Tell me, children, who is right, Xiaohong or Liang Xiao? Did you do the right thing?
8. Do different attitudes create different attitudes towards life and reflect a person's view of things? Three people can have different attitudes because of the same sentence. Therefore, attitude is everything.
Attitude can change life. An American inspirational film "The Storm on Harvard Road" tells the story of a girl's incomplete home, and then the girl's upward journey after burying her mother. The success of this film is due to a girl the same age as the protagonist. He chose to escape, and he also had a miserable family background, but he gave up his efforts and was muddied by * * *. After hard struggle, the hero got into Harvard University as he wished. Although it is based on the story of a real legendary girl, it makes people see that kind of power. Facing all kinds of misfortunes with a positive attitude, all the way is bright, while treating life partners with a negative attitude can only be troubled by secular darkness. Therefore, attitude can change life.
Attitude can change your mind. There is a story about three people watching spiders climb the wall. The first one thinks the spider is stupid, so he becomes smart. The second one is moved by the strength of the spider, so he begins to become strong. The third watched the spider climb up and down again and again, thinking that he was as mediocre as a spider, so he became negative. The same spider influenced the thoughts of three people and their journey from now on. Different ideas produce different results. Different ideas are due to different attitudes, so attitudes can change ideas.
Attitude determines success or failure. I often hear the teacher say that the details determine success or failure, and the process determines the result. Yes, and the details can be roughly observed? In every class, there are always students whose grades are worse than their grades, but without exception, they are all taught by the same teacher. Therefore, whether your grades are good or not depends entirely on you. Without a firm and serious learning attitude, how can you get high marks in the group? Although things in society have changed, the quality of study has little to do with future work, but it is an attitude problem. At the same time, successful people do not take their work seriously.
Good attitude, great fate, everything in your own hands!
9. Different mentality leads to different composition fields.
This time, he asked every audience to mark their favorite wonderful pen. When the painter retrieved the painting, he found that it had been re-marked-the accused strokes were marked with praise.
The painter finally realized that what is ugly to some people is beautiful to others. The reason why the same objective things have different voices is entirely determined by a person's mentality.
It can be seen that mentality plays an important role in life. In fact, we are not only living in the real society, but also living in our own mentality. The Buddha said, "Things change at will, the environment is created by the heart, and troubles are born by the heart.
The philosopher said, "Your mentality is your real master." Goethe said: "The happiness of people lies in the happiness of their hearts."
So Napoleon Hill, the originator of success, said: Your success depends on your mentality! ! This is why, then, what is mentality? Mentality is the sum of all psychological activities and states of people, and it is the reflection and experience of people on the surrounding environment and social life. It has a decisive influence on a person's thoughts, emotions, needs and desires, and it determines a person's attitude towards work, life and life. Li Ka-shing, the richest man in China, said: sow a state of mind, reap an idea, sow an idea and reap an action; Sow an action, harvest a habit, sow a habit, and harvest a character; Sow a character and reap a destiny. It can be seen that mentality determines fate.
So everything a person does can be summarized as four steps, that is, mind-thinking-action-result (mentality-thinking-behavior-result). The mentality is stable, but it can be adjusted, controlled and cultivated. The key is what attitude you choose.
There is such a family, the child's mother died, and the father drank all day and went back to beat his two sons. Later, my father died, too. What about my two sons? The young are in prison, and the old are bankers. When the reporter interviewed them, he asked, "What caused your present situation?" The answer is actually the same: "I was born in such a family. What can I do if I don't? " The reporter wondered why the answer was the same in different situations. Later, he finally figured it out, and the mentality determines everything! You can do things badly, but as long as you have a good attitude, you can "have a clear conscience", but you can't have a bad attitude. You can't do anything well if you have a bad attitude. Since mentality is so important, what kind of mentality should we have? 1. Learning psychology is input, learning is processing, and learning is sales.
Input is required before output. The premise of starting a business is to learn first, and the process of accumulating wealth is learning. Learning is the only way to store knowledge. Facing the new environment and new things, I don't understand, I don't study, I pretend to understand, I'm not modest, I can only joke and make everyone laugh.
Success is a learning process. Especially in the era of knowledge economy, the cycle of knowledge updating is getting shorter and shorter, and outdated knowledge is equal to waste. Only by continuous learning can we continuously absorb energy, adapt to the development of society and survive. 2 1 century is the century of "learning, changing and starting a business".